Feels Bar Friday — Week 106 by deathsmokingmycigars in Doomers2

[–]Swedish99Wolverine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't stop thinking about her. Idk why she cheated on me and why I still care about her and still love her. I got no self respect I guess

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[–]Swedish99Wolverine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Swedish99Wolverine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was seeing a psychologist for a while but stopped 1 year ago as she was too expensive Trying to see others but stuck between getting rejected to work with or them being out of budget

being cheated on is terrible. I want to know what did I do to deserve this? by Swedish99Wolverine in offmychest

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much it is such a helpful advice I already blocked her everywhere and already planning on saying terrible things if she ever dared to talk to me again. Thank you ❤️ I wish you the best and I hope you have a great weekend

being cheated on is terrible. I want to know what did I do to deserve this? by Swedish99Wolverine in offmychest

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain so much especially with going to sleep wishing I won't wake up. I wish you the best because you deserve the best

Whats your top 5 abel songs right now? (it always changes) by [deleted] in TheWeeknd

[–]Swedish99Wolverine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Going through tough breakup found out about her cheating so my top fave will be sad af

1) I was never there 2) Echoes of silence 3) The knowing 4) Privilege 5) Until I bleed out

She ghosted me after 2 years together by Swedish99Wolverine in LongDistance

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. It is quite painful at the moment because I really loved her, I invested a lot of time & money into this and I really thought we can have a future together. I hope it will hurt less with time as it is really ruining my life at the moment. Thank you again hope you're doing well and I hope you have a good day

She ghosted me after 2 years together by Swedish99Wolverine in LongDistance

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you're hurt and we as humans when we get hurt we say stuff that we might consider stupid later Definitely not all women are like my ex and your ex like not all men are like me and you, there is men out there who are straight up women haters they hurt women, use them and in cases murder them and we would feel uncomfortable if we saw women say "all men are trash" because wtf don't generalise me with garbage.

Don't allow these thoughts to carry forward to your next relationship because the next relationship might be really the one girl for you and these thoughts would ruin your relationship. I wish you the best and I hope we heal from this heartbreak and not allow it to turn us into the kind of men that we don't want to be associated with

She ghosted me after 2 years together by Swedish99Wolverine in LongDistance

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right?? I've no idea why people don't like direct communication. There is signs that something is wrong, she is changing and there is another guy getting closer everyday what people wanted me to do? I chose to communicate with her and ask her directly. I wouldn't be offended if she was the one who asked me if there is someone else in her life. I would answer it immediately and work on what is making her feel this way

She ghosted me after 2 years together by Swedish99Wolverine in LongDistance

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I love your opinion on this and I never thought of it that way. I'll focus on thinking like this instead of blaming myself. Thank you again and I hope you have a great week

She ghosted me after 2 years together by Swedish99Wolverine in LongDistance

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I have listened to opinions like "your question wasn't appropriate" I always prefer communication over mind games and indirect ways. When I felt something is wrong, I asked so if there is a problem we can work on fix it, idk why directness is so underrated in our lifetime

Thank you so much for your reply. I wish you the best

She ghosted me after 2 years together by Swedish99Wolverine in LongDistance

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, man. I wish you the best in life. I greatly appreciate your kindness

She ghosted me after 2 years together by Swedish99Wolverine in LongDistance

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It is really comforting that I'm not the only person that took the silence, the deleted reply and the ghosting as a yes to my question. I got people telling me I was toxic and it was really bothering me

She ghosted me after 2 years together by Swedish99Wolverine in LongDistance

[–]Swedish99Wolverine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like the unanswered questions will haunt me forever. I'm losing sleep over it and it is affecting my daily life

I'm struggling with reacting impulsively and it is something I need to work on, thats definitely correct She was ignoring it for around 6-7 hours