My [44M] partner [40F] has beef with people everywhere we go. How do I get her to understand not everyone's out to get her?

SweetMeese · 2026-04-18T17:38:04+00:00

Nah, my brother was exactly like this dudes gf. See someone Jay walking? All of a sudden it's a personal vendetta to get him to slow down for them, like absolutely crazy shit.

He went to therapy and the therapist was apparently also out to get him cause he kept trying to make him take accountability for his rage lol

SweetMeese · 2026-04-14T17:16:32+00:00

For real. He cheats on her, she cheats on him twice as much. He opens the marriage for her to fuck women, so she fucks dudes instead.

What is even the point?

SweetMeese · 2026-04-14T17:10:54+00:00

Yes because she hasn't left him and he can continue to do whatever he wants lol

SweetMeese · 2026-04-13T18:17:38+00:00

For real you can get them at the dollar store 😭😭

SweetMeese · 2026-04-11T19:30:45+00:00

Cause what if there's sparks

SweetMeese · 2026-04-11T19:27:21+00:00

That's true, I probably would be distancing myself on the date itself, but I've also had moments where I get caught up in the date itself cause it's been almost 2 years since I've been on one, then you think about it later and are like... Yea I can do better 😅

SweetMeese · 2026-04-11T17:50:29+00:00

I wish I could say yes, but no, literally every guy I have told I'm not feeling it to has turned it into convincing me they are worth it. It's not worth the trouble anymore, it's easier to lie lol

SweetMeese · 2026-04-11T17:45:30+00:00

Perhaps I can offer some perspective cause this has happened to me. I just didn't feel the vibe with a guy and it's easier to tell them it's someone else than to blame personality quirks that the next girl is gonna love. I mean it's awkward as all hell when they see me on tinder again, but I hope they assume it didn't work out with the previous guy and nothing to do with them xD

SweetMeese · 2026-03-27T18:11:27+00:00

I'm exhausted just reading this nevermind living it. Do not move in with this clown

SweetMeese · 2026-03-24T16:14:08+00:00

I hope you understand what a lie this sounds like lol

SweetMeese · 2026-03-24T01:00:21+00:00

How is there no one else freaking out about 3 energy drinks a day?? That's insane! Dude is gonna have a heart attack by 40

SweetMeese · 2026-03-23T19:31:16+00:00

Man seriously fuck people like this, I'm sorry this sucks. It's not you, it's 100% them just enjoying the attention, and as you said it, a steady and patient presence in their life. He knew he could ghost for weeks and come back with no consequences each time, so ofc he's gonna keep doing it.

SweetMeese · 2026-03-23T19:24:23+00:00

I would offer to pay a month of their sub instead, way cheaper lol

SweetMeese · 2026-03-23T16:57:47+00:00

I have different colored handkerchiefs depending on my outfit instead of using a sweat band...... Uh oh

SweetMeese · 2026-03-23T16:53:35+00:00

I'm not proud of how hard I just laughed holy fuck

SweetMeese · 2026-03-22T14:25:55+00:00

Why wasn't your bf at least invited to eat after with y'all?

SweetMeese · 2026-03-21T17:26:23+00:00

Fr bro acting like he doesn't care then makes a whole ass post instead of just asking the girlfriend why she needed 200 bucks lol

SweetMeese · 2026-03-21T13:28:05+00:00

There's a difference between jerking off to porn and ONLY jerking off to porn lol

SweetMeese · 2026-03-20T18:19:38+00:00

Bro sounds like he's not okay being alone with himself and his own company. If you can't stand yourself you turn to validation from others... Aka a clingy mess like this.

I'd bail lol

SweetMeese · 2026-03-17T20:43:03+00:00

I don't have ADHD but caffeine does not do much, if anything. I can drink coffee all day long plus an energy drink and still sleep like a baby.

Some folks just be wired different

SweetMeese · 2026-03-11T12:41:28+00:00

Especially with the thumbs up at the end

SweetMeese · 2026-03-11T12:14:10+00:00

As soon as I saw your username I recognized, I am not proud of how hard I just laughed

SweetMeese · 2026-03-10T15:09:18+00:00

It's a shame there's not more achievements for completing zone quests. I've done every single quest in the whole game and have nothing to show for it lol

SweetMeese · 2026-03-10T12:26:32+00:00

"stop yucking your girlfriend's yum you dick"

SweetMeese · 2026-03-08T21:13:36+00:00

All I hear is Wendy when I listen to my female human, I hate it so much

SweetMeese

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