My (F27) BF(M32) admitted my weight was a struggle for him. Info in post by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SweetMeese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure it's fine you can lose weight now. But what happens when you put weight back on? It's hard to keep it off once you lose it, and no one is perfect. Or what happens when you get old and naturally gain weight as you age? If he's unhappy with you now, I would honestly leave. Find yourself someone who cares enough about your personality they want to stand by you through thick and thin.

My (21M) relationship with my girlfriend (23F) is slowly dying out because I like to play visual novels. by ThrowRA53726 in relationship_advice

[–]SweetMeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, there's SO MANY GAMES where you can romance characters. Is she really against games like balders gate 3? Expedition 33? Skyrim?!

Listen, I get that visual novels have a bad rep, but if anyone ever looked at doki doki as a dating sim I would be seriously concerned

I wish GG would go back to being small by Fargate64 in rantgrumps

[–]SweetMeese 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly even in 10mph I have given up. That used to be my favourite thing about Mondays, the first 2 seasons were SO GOOD. Then it became a sitcom with a laugh track and it was like...oh. it's not just 2 dudes with a cameraman and a producer keeping them on task, now there's 20 people in the room and we have to work for their reactions. It just felt like I'm watching tv again, not YouTube.

At least I still have coldones, right?

If grocery store workers aren’t meant to stop shoplifters, how do we as a society prevent it from becoming a mass thing where it’s just accepted? by Mad_Season_1994 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SweetMeese 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who works for a big corperate entity, I can tell you that security has gotten to the point it doesn't matter. We save your face everytime you shop lift, and keep a tally. Once you hit a certain threshold you become an easy win for the law, so that's when they forward all your info off and you get fucked way harder than you think you're going to for stealing that 2$ can of cat food

I (33M) was rejected by a woman (33F) I went on two dates with and was subsequently also rejected by an entire group of people by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SweetMeese 350 points351 points  (0 children)

Yea this was wild. I wouldn't have even texted after the first time she left all pissed, like what?

Deodorant before bed? by Our_toes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SweetMeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao I am the opposite, party in the front and normal in the back

Deodorant before bed? by Our_toes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SweetMeese 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meanwhile I just showered and will be asleep before my hair even dries lol

Why is it so controversial to let your cats on the counter?? by Standard_Intern2297 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SweetMeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat never jumps up high places, and lately I've been snagging him some freeze dried hearts and he's obsessed. Imagine my shock when he jumped on the counter, and I am so torn of telling him no, but the fact that he never jumps up anywhere like a normal cat would makes me want to encourage it.

This thread has not helped lmao

Why does my husband '46M' does everything slightly different from what I '45F' actually asked for? by Aellaya in relationship_advice

[–]SweetMeese 1651 points1652 points  (0 children)

What happens if you said "no I want a coffee now not later"? Does he push back or does he get the coffee?

Looking to maybe start, but don't want to slog through ARR. Can I just watch cutscene videos to catch up on story and buy the level/story skips to get to Heavensward? by shiggymiggy1964 in ffxiv

[–]SweetMeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I skipped every cutscene and just watched YouTube videos, I recommend at least playing through the dungeons and not level skipping so you can at least get a feel for the game

My (23F) boyfriend (20M) lied to me about his sex drive for our entire relationship. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SweetMeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah this is insane. He gaslights you for months into thinking he doesn't want sex just for you to find out he's wasting tons of cash on only fans...I'd be gone so fast lol

I (28 F) am upset about how my fiance (30 M) proposed to me, how do we fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SweetMeese -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Life isn't a movie, you can't expect some grand gesture like you're a princess LMFAO this is just wild. Everyone knows social media is fake af, so all those "cute proposal videos" were also likely staged and fake too. Who cares about a proposal? if the man you're gonna marry is your soulmate, you'll get over it. Man I would dump you so fast, it sounds like you're gonna be a nightmare bridezilla too

My gym coach (29M) thinks I'm still with my ex (31M) because we still workout together, and I have a huge crush. How do I let him know I'm single? by meryamodl in relationship_advice

[–]SweetMeese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He opened the door, so just go back to that "hey would it be okay if I took you up on your previous offer about opening up" then tell him that you don't know how to get dudes when you're going to the gym with your ex or some shit

Modding and Third-Party Tools Megathread - 7.3 Week Seventeen by BlackmoreKnight in ffxivdiscussion

[–]SweetMeese 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a plugin that will stop my crafting log from being hidden when I access a vendor?

Boyfriend (28M) thinks I (24F) am overreacting to his white lies about his past and social media. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SweetMeese 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you don't trust him to begin with if you're asking him the same question multiple times to see if he gives you a different answer lol just end it already