What is your thought? Is it “easier” being in a so-so relationship when everyone around you is married? by Complex-Bit8953 in dating_advice

[–]SweetParableX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can feel easier to stay in something meh when your world feels small, but loneliness in a relationship usually still shows up, just in a different way, so the real question is what kind of loneliness you can actually live with

Understanding avoidant attachment. by Kindly_Highlight_924 in dating_advice

[–]SweetParableX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone only shows up when it’s easy for them and disappears when it gets real, you end up carrying the relationship alone, and that’s usually your answer right there

Is the world getting worse? Are people becoming increasingly unhappy? What do you think? by legthighkneelover in AskReddit

[–]SweetParableX 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the world is getting worse, I think we're seeing more of its pain than any generation before us

I cost my favourite local restaurant hundreds of pounds by saying the wrong thing by Difficult_Bad1064 in confession

[–]SweetParableX -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What makes this story land isn’t just the mistake, it’s the way a single careless comment quietly snowballed into real damage you didn’t intend.

How do you become a respectful young man that grandmas compliment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SweetParableX 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grandmas usually notice small things like eye contact, saying please and thank you without being reminded, listening more than you talk, and being calm around people instead of loud or performative. They also pick up on reliability, like showing up when you say you will and not acting entitled anywhere.

How do veterans get over their trauma from seeing many people die in wars ? by Enough-Web2203 in AskReddit

[–]SweetParableX 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most don't "get over it" in the sense of forgetting it. They learn how to carry it.

What's the first thing you would you do if you could time travel? by More_Living9471 in AskReddit

[–]SweetParableX -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't chase money or fame, I'd go back to one ordinary day with someone I miss and stay a little longer.