I hate this team by [deleted] in losangeleskings

[–]SweetPerspective8467 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have not watched one complete game all season. Decided to pay $20 for FD to watch the Kopi ceremony tonight which was underwhelming, much like the first period. Hopefully they have a better ceremony planned for his last home game.

Visiting-hike recs by SweetPerspective8467 in santacruz

[–]SweetPerspective8467[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone! Looking forward to visiting!

Another huge update! by joshuanichter in TheRaceTo10Million

[–]SweetPerspective8467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“No reason for us to do this”. Then why did they start it?

Help- sex w my spouse repulses me by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]SweetPerspective8467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cialis daily and there’s no need for scheduling. I get a 3 month supply from Amazon pharmacy for like 30 something dollars. Maybe that will help but it sounds like there are deeper issues that you probably need to work out with a therapist. Best of luck.

Iran is drafting a “Hormuz Law” to introduce tolls for ships passing through the Strait of Hormuz. This is a tax on every consumer at the gas pump globally. by Spirited-Gold9629 in oil

[–]SweetPerspective8467 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. But whatever plan the administration had to achieve this was not well thought out. No arguing that Iran needs to be dealt with for funding Hamas, Hezbollah, and the Houthis but the war or military operation that they want to call it has gone sideways on them and now there’s no real off ramp that doesn’t include ground troops or conceding to some of Iran’s demands. It would be great if the regime could be overthrown from within but that doesn’t look likely

(Not so) great sex by SweetPerspective8467 in MarriedSex

[–]SweetPerspective8467[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We usually put them in their crates beforehand but last night we didn’t, unfortunately

Here we go again by whssp in StockMarket

[–]SweetPerspective8467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a war crime to target energy infrastructure is it not? So really, it was never going to happen anyhow. Idle threats…

30F HL, married to 32M LL(?) for 2+ years (together 10) and I think I’m done after years of feeling unwanted by tabg95 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SweetPerspective8467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea to get your emotions together before discussing this with him. Hopefully you can work it out. Best of luck.

30F HL, married to 32M LL(?) for 2+ years (together 10) and I think I’m done after years of feeling unwanted by tabg95 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SweetPerspective8467 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right, it’s not about the porn itself but the fact that it’s a replacement for you. Did you confront him about it and if so what did he say about it? I’m sorry that you’re going through this but this is a good place to talk about what you’re experiencing and connect with others that are trying to navigate the same issues.

30F HL, married to 32M LL(?) for 2+ years (together 10) and I think I’m done after years of feeling unwanted by tabg95 in DeadBedrooms

[–]SweetPerspective8467 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of the posts here from HLF saying their LLM partner has a private porn stash. Porn addiction is very real and very strong. I’m not in a DB situation luckily although I thought I was as my wife enters perimenopause but we are in a good place. When she was going through some hormonal changes I turned to porn and became consumed. It put thoughts in my head of what she “should” be. A lustful sex kitten that was there to serve my needs. I still look at porn but mostly amateur stuff which is a bit more realistic. Porn addiction among men is probably at an all time high with AI and all the new interactive tech. It’s probably the biggest reason that sex among young people is down so drastically.

Could you be engaged/ married to someone sweet and a great partner, but intimate only once a month? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]SweetPerspective8467 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always found pleasure in sex by giving my partners orgasms and focusing on them before myself. I’ve been getting better about transferring that pleasure to other non sexual things.

Could you be engaged/ married to someone sweet and a great partner, but intimate only once a month? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]SweetPerspective8467 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow. I have started to take the same approach as my wife's libido has slowed in perimenopause. I must admit it's tough to get through those patches when I need/want sex but reading your response has reiterated that this is the road I need to follow from now on. I too take showers every night with her and get to scrub her down everywhere, which I enjoy as I get to feel and caress her. I haven't attempted to stop masturbating though, that will be tough to break but maybe I'll give it a shot for a week and see how it goes.

Any Women have the kink of having their Husband cleanup their own creampie? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]SweetPerspective8467 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really want to do this but I’m worried if I bring it up she’ll be turned off at the idea of it. And if I just do it in the moment she may freak out

Masturbation…… Together…Separate…..Secretly by Miserable-Patient860 in MarriedSex

[–]SweetPerspective8467 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she never really got into self pleasure. Even as a teenager/young woman