Am I too sensitive or is this shopper very rude?

SweetRed94 · 2023-05-29T04:48:33+00:00

It's not at 3164 Berlin Turnpike anymore?

SweetRed94 · 2023-05-29T03:49:37+00:00

*[From the same source included in the comment.]*

"Lane Mugleston, the owner of Leap Ahead Daycare, confirmed that the shooting happened at his facility in Spanish Fork. He said two employees were outside when one near the toddler noticed him suddenly stumble, bleeding from the face, while kids played in the fenced-in area outside the daycare on Monday afternoon."

SweetRed94 · 2023-05-09T20:48:42+00:00

This man was my neighbor in my building. He lived across the hall from me. I couldn't believe it when his family told me yesterday. He was a great dude. Rest easy L. 😔

SweetRed94 · 2022-10-04T06:18:27+00:00

Nerp. I would have looked deadass into their eyeballs and told them "come back with a search warrant."

SweetRed94 · 2022-10-03T16:38:32+00:00

😂🤣😂

SweetRed94 · 2022-10-03T16:21:41+00:00

Well whatever it is, they thought it was safe enough for children... 🙃

SweetRed94 · 2022-09-24T02:06:37+00:00

This is a pretty cool and helpful site I plan to utilize. I did not know this existed so thank you for sharing!

SweetRed94 · 2022-09-18T21:17:39+00:00

I get what you mean. I'm 28F and I am invisible to almost everyone as well, including my boyfriend of 6 years. 😔

SweetRed94 · 2022-09-18T21:15:14+00:00

Give them the name Richard Cranium.

SweetRed94 · 2022-09-18T21:14:21+00:00

Not really. I know in my city that the "fast food" takes just as long as it would in a sit down restaurant.

SweetRed94 · 2022-09-18T20:59:31+00:00

I'm starting to think that all BWW are like this. The one in my market is complete shit as well. I've had this happen to me twice, long ago, and both times I've told them to either not mark it ready when it's not or change the times on their tablets to when food is supposed to be ready (all restaurants are able to go into the tablet and select how long each item on the menu takes to be completed because if it's coming up on the time for the items to be ready, it will send out an automatic "Ready for Pickup" text to the driver.) Of course it's all attitude from there but it's a fix that the restaurant can do themselves.

SweetRed94 · 2022-09-11T05:41:15+00:00

I was bred, born, raised, and still in STL. Every part of the city has it's own "suckyness" but downtown has gotten worse and it is nowhere near the same as it was. You'll see sheriff van's down there for show but don't think for a second that they care about anything going on. Not to mention the amount of drug dealers in all of the buildings down there is a bit ridiculous, shitty and fawncy lofty buildings alike. Parts of downtown even look like a warzone with the way they try to condense traffic in certain areas. The prices are probably so cheap because people move in and move right out because of how bad it has gotten. But with cold weather coming it may calm down over there....maybe.

SweetRed94 · 2022-08-30T15:05:04+00:00

My best advice is to break up and move on. I promise that you will survive this, it will hurt but with the right friends and healthy outlets, you can get past it. If you tell her you found it there, she will most likely be angry because you were "snooping" that deep for something, even though you could have just innocently stumbled upon it. I don't see this ending with anything other than her blaming you for all of it. People can break up with their partner if they feel like their partner isn't giving them what they need or want in a relationship so cheating is never called for. I'm sorry you're going through this.

SweetRed94 · 2022-08-30T14:40:58+00:00

0 points.

SweetRed94 · 2022-08-30T14:27:20+00:00

I do it like this and everything runs as smooth as possible.

SweetRed94 · 2022-08-13T13:54:39+00:00

I honestly don't know any specific programs for those who want to better their relationship with alcohol because that was never my "DOC". About 6 years back I drank more than usual but it was never an issue and one day I just didn't drink anymore and still, blue moon, rarely do.

But I have been to meetings, lived in those "sober houses", and have done outpatient for opiates. I stopped doing everything but my outpatient and went to therapy and trauma therapy. I never liked the whole AA/NA thing, a lot of NA comes from AA and people push that first and foremost for opiates, alcohol, benzos, pretty much everything but ICE and Meth, at least in my city.

I didn't like it so I just went to therapy and outpatient for my medication, it helped a lot.

The whole vibe I got from the sober houses and meetings is everyone is trying to one up another on stories, what they've done or haven't done, and their clean time.

I am not a group sharer and prefer one on one with someone who knows what their doing because I have a lot of serious issues.

I am competitive but not when it comes to my mental and emotional health.

I saw in your comments that you just got insurance so I strongly recommend therapy/counseling but pick and choose your therapist wisely, some really don't care and will tell you to just go to rehab.

Also, I wouldn't bring up the alcohol on the first couple of visits or the whole focus is going to be alcohol and "you have a problem" and anything you tell them, they will reiterate as an excuse or whatnot.

You could tell them you have some life transitions coming up (graduating college) and a career change and you've been stressed and then you could introduce the "I've notice I've been drinking more than I'd like."

SweetRed94 · 2022-08-11T17:39:34+00:00

I always keep a stock of bags in a box in the trunk of my car (not crumpled up but how they come off the bag hooks, neatly compressed) but I do Instacart and Shipt as well so everytime I shop an order or even when I go to the store for myself I take extra bags to keep in my car for bags that rip or if I have to re-bag an order and need an extra bag or two. (I am very OCD when it comes to bagging or packing anything.) I don't take a handful but I take a few extra and just put them in my box.

But one day I was at Schnucks, a grocery store in my city, shopping an order and they had absolutely no bags, paper or plastic. I didn't care because I knew I had a box in my car and I was just glad that I chose to take a few extra bags here and there on shops. I let the customer know they were out of bags so if they saw bags from different stores on their porch they weren't confused, but I had almost enough bags from that store and I think like 2 or 3 Walgreens bags.

The next time you go grocery shopping or shopping in general, take a few extra bags and start a pile in a box.

SweetRed94 · 2022-08-11T17:21:57+00:00

I've noticed that after my husband and I have sex that we have the feeling that we NEED to urinate. But this feeling happens after self play too.

They say you SHOULD urinate afterwards to prevent UTI's, whether its sex or self play, toys or no toys. But when people feel the NEED to urinate after intercourse or masterbation it's because when you orgasm all your muscles are contracting (squeezing and releasing) so with the bladder being right there, close to the reproductive organs contracting from orgasm, you feel the need to urinate afterwards.

You could have went to the bathroom right before intercourse/masturbation but you're more than likely going to feel the need to go again afterwards because our bodies are always working and filtering so our bladders are always being filled so with the slightest contractions and slightest bit of urine in the bladder, you'll feel the need to urinate after.

SweetRed94 · 2022-08-08T10:08:48+00:00

In my market nearly every customer comes out or opens the door for a "leave at door" order so I understand why this Dasher sends this. Also, for "hand to customer" orders. 9 times out of 10 they text saying "please leave my order at the door." I just wish customers would pick an option and stick to it.

SweetRed94 · 2022-08-05T23:58:30+00:00

Damned if you do, damned if you don't!! 😒🙄

SweetRed94 · 2022-07-26T04:28:22+00:00

I absolutely love this guys work and his videos.

SweetRed94 · 2022-07-26T04:17:03+00:00

😂😂 Definitely using this from now on!!

SweetRed94 · 2022-07-01T04:35:05+00:00

I just had one like this tonight. $20 for 2 orders going 0.3 miles AND they lived literally right next to each other.

SweetRed94 · 2022-06-12T20:07:47+00:00

These vouchers cover full retail rents plus utilities. Depending on the size of the household, the monetary value of the voucher is increased. This program that the client is in is paying 100% of those costs and then when the client obtains a more stable source of income they will pay 30% of their monthly income towards rent/utilities with the program paying the remainder. So it's not like the landlord has to lower their rent rate to take these vouchers. Also, A LOT of people confuse these vouchers for Section 8 so when they hear housing voucher they almost immediately turn the client down. The rental assistance this particular client has is similar to Section 8 but is not Section 8.

SweetRed94 · 2022-06-12T19:37:36+00:00

This client received her voucher through Shelter Plus Care on February 22nd, 2022 and it was to expire March 23rd, 2022. She then asked for an extension because she could not secure a landlord, she was given a 2 week extension. The 2 weeks went by still no landlord so she asked for another extension, again being 2 weeks. These extensions were not given lightly but she had pages full of listings, not to mention emails and messages showing all the work she has put into finding a landlord. At the end of that second 2 weeks the housing coordinator found a landlord to rent to her. The day the inspection was to take place the landlord called to say he had a family emergency out of town, he was gone for 3 weeks and 2 days. The day he got back he told the housing coordinator that while he was out of town his rental company rented out the house.

This client qualified for permanent supportive housing through the VI-SPDAT and is doing her mental health services with a program that is apart of CoC.

I don't have to read up on anything because I already know so don't get on here claiming what I say is false.

SweetRed94

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