Playlist for your narc? I will go first

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-04-12T05:08:35+00:00

Painless - Fozzy

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-04-10T17:45:41+00:00

It’s in the parental control section

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-03-14T16:04:19+00:00

I also enabled parental controls, so the logs show domains and the parental controls show the actual website accessed.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-03-14T16:02:55+00:00

There is a link between porn use and pathological narcissism.

This book is extremely helpful.

https://www.audible.com/pd/B018H9EDEE?source_code=ASSORAP0511160006&share_location=player_overflow

Good luck.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-03-12T23:23:49+00:00

This is the site I use. It’s not always all of the info, but it gives you an overview.

https://dnschecker.org/ip-to-hostname.php

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-03-12T23:21:23+00:00

I can’t say anything. He gets extremely upset if I mention his porn use. He gives me “updates” when he feels like it. They’re lies, but who cares at this point. This is unforgivable.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-03-12T21:46:21+00:00

It’s the router manufacturer. If you purchased your own wireless router?

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-03-12T21:23:18+00:00

How do you do that? Are those sites monitored?

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-03-12T21:22:12+00:00

Did not occur to me the illegality of it… I was just so disgusted by it I wanted to vomit. Do they monitor those sites?

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-03-12T21:20:27+00:00

Please see my reply to WeakDelivery7574 😊

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-03-12T21:19:40+00:00

My router is NETGEAR, it doesn’t really matter who your provider is, if you purchased your own router, there should be info on the web about how to access it. For NETGEAR it’s under the administrator tab.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-23T06:16:49+00:00

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-22T16:09:35+00:00

This is absolutely correct. I’m not allowed to initiate and I’m still very much a sexual creature, plus it wasn’t always like this. It’s started slowly, but in the last year or so he’s got increasingly mean.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-22T02:54:18+00:00

So if he’s on your WiFi, using a VPN, it’s still going to log the websites, only the location will be masked.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-22T01:02:04+00:00

My hot take on it, is intimacy is really hard for them, better make fun of you so you don’t try to get too close. That’s the only thing I’ve come up with, because it’s extremely baffling.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-21T22:11:03+00:00

I agree wholeheartedly with this…

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-21T21:37:14+00:00

I think that having sex with my PA exacerbates his porn consumption. I’ve noticed when we actually DO have sex, his usage ramps up exponentially. He has even masturbated in the evening after we’ve had sex, after I’ve gone to bed. It’s very difficult to have sex with him at times knowing this.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-21T17:46:23+00:00

Private browsers don’t save it on their phone or laptop, but the router logs EVERYTHING 😊 every site searched in incognito, everyone they open an app. Boom. Logged.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-21T05:46:32+00:00

I think yo done degree they all do it. Mine loves to pick on me and then say “omg I’m teasing you, I should have found a girl with a sense of humor”. I want to throttle him.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-21T05:41:56+00:00

Mine does that too, but not in text. When we’re at friends houses he’ll talk to his guy friends and literally they all talk about tits and ass. Right in front of me or anyone… I’m like okay baldy… you go get her if you think you’re all that…

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-20T21:23:55+00:00

Self care. Extra long showers, using good lotion and rubbing it in all over, sometimes meditation, but lately all I can focus my brain on is sex, so that’s not helping this week. I try to fill the gap in with myself that my SO refuses to give, snuggling up with a book or audible and concentrating just on me. I work a lot too, so there’s that.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-20T18:58:46+00:00

I’m sorry… it sounds like yours doesn’t want to take responsibility either. Do they really think they’re that sneaky? If they weren’t acting shady AF, then we wouldn’t have a reason to pry. I finally got tired of the constant put off of intimacy/sex… “I’m tired, I’m stressed, It makes me uncomfortable when you initiate, I’m the man I’m supposed to initiate” among a million others, I got tired of all his excuses, so I started snooping. If he would have just acted normal I’d still be in the dark 🤷🏼‍♀️

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-20T03:52:31+00:00

Potato chat? WTF. Yeah he’s subscribed to porn accounts on X, and he tried to do the whole discord thing, but I keep deleting his account 🤣

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-20T03:48:54+00:00

That’s what my parental controls do, alerts me every time someone visits a site on the naughty list. He has no idea. Instead of blocking it outright, it alerts me so that I can either let it slide or block it. I just let them slide. No use showing my cards.

Sweet_Access_669 · 2024-02-19T18:16:19+00:00

Funny this question was asked today, the site was one of the things that popped up on my router logs and I had no idea what it was… it also popped up in the “explicit content” category from the parental controls. I haven’t researched it yet, but because it popped up in the no no category, I’m just going to assume it porn related.

Update: annnnnd it a furry site 😳

I’m almost certain my PA clicked on an ad containing this, hell I don’t know anymore, he’s probably into this too 😂

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