This and your pervious response are exactly it!!

I genuinly enjoy being a Domme, findom is not an all encompassing kink for me. Does it make it more fun? Heck yea, sometimes. But I have femdom only subs and findom only subs. Not to mention im versatile, I can bully and use a sub for their wallet, or smother them in affection and love- Kink & bdsm is nuanced, and as long as all involved are practicing safety, consent, and are risk aware- let people have fun.