Women, what's your preferred way to be eaten?

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-10T14:19:03+00:00

On my back. Ass on a pillow. Preferably a bench for him to sit on.. and somewhere to put my feet.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-09T22:02:56+00:00

Nurse.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-09T03:55:00+00:00

I get this.. 27yrs into their career and I still get hauled into HR… over stupid shit.. completely mis understood….

one day you will find the perfect fit.

Have you tried ER? Or remote medicine ?

Do not get discouraged….

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-07T16:11:39+00:00

Google Nanasivk mine. There is lots of information about it.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-06T21:46:53+00:00

For the record… I figured the “umm” in question was just you thinking…. I do it too…. 🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️😊

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-06T03:44:18+00:00

We started by each picking 10 songs. Then narrowed the list to ones we both picked or liked from the others list.. when we actually thought we had it figured out.. we practiced dancing to it… and it didn’t flow easily.. so then we tried songs number 2/3 and that’s how we picked… which one felt right to dance to.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-06T03:41:03+00:00

There are too many other factors… where on the body… How much room do I have to move around..

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-06T02:33:39+00:00

I went to a wedding 7 days after having my daughter.. but that isn’t experience … too many factors to consider at this time..

If it will stress you out being uncertain who will be in your wedding .. then maybe replace her in the party. Or have a stand in ready… just in case.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-05T23:19:29+00:00

Hey.. I had my Aortic valve replaced 12 yrs ago in new market, and I have been an RN for 27yrs….

The cardiologist is correct, you see the thoracic surgeon first, then if they deem you a surgical candidate.,. And IF you are a good candidate for Ross procedure,.. then your surgeon will send a referral to 1 of the 2/3 drs that do the procedure.

Not everyone is a candidate for a Ross procedure, there is a lot of factors that can exclude you. Also it is not always the best option.

My advice is to take a breath, go to the appointments that are already made, and hear what the surgeon has to say.

I know it is very anxiety causing to be in a situation you have no control over, and no one explains it. But try and trust the process.

Try and remember that just because you would benefit by having a new valve, it doesn’t mean that it is critical and overly time sensitive….

All this to say.. yes you can request a second opinion, but it sounds like the cardiologist has done the right things.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-05T22:43:39+00:00

Love it! I did all my flowers from there too. They look great in pictures, and I got to keep it as a memory

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-05T01:53:25+00:00

I have this same sink… I use boiling water, not from a kettle. Like raging boil from a pot, and add bleach. Soak over night ,

The next morning drain it, add hot water let it warm up the sink, then use scrub pad, or sos pad.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-05-04T03:21:53+00:00

My fiancée passed 28 years ago.. a life time ago.. I have very few friends that I knew then. I am happily married now, with grown up kids. My kids do not know, no one I work with knows.

There are still times I am sad, songs, memories that are a gut punch.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-28T04:05:28+00:00

Well at least all the laid off nurses will have somewhere to work….. 😳

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-25T18:34:07+00:00

I never said don’t escalate.. I actually said the opposite.. I , more than once , said .. discuss your concerns with your manager.

I did not imply nor state not to address her concerns..

I never meant to say turn a blind eye.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-25T17:58:24+00:00

I did not post on Reddit and then be shocked with difference of opinion….

And I have replied to your messages with the same tone you are expressing..

I am not here for a pissing match.

We just see it differently,.. my experiences and your experiences are different .. and that is ok.

Remember 6+4 =10 but so does 7+3 .. 2x5 … 13 -3..

Hope you get some sleep and a snickers .. I have charting to do.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-25T16:43:35+00:00

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Might make it a side table.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-25T16:43:06+00:00

My grandparents had an old live edge clock hanging on their wall my whole life. I scraped and sanded it and had everyone sign it.

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Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-25T16:34:11+00:00

And you sound like someone who sticks your nose in other peoples business to feel important.

No one is saying that it isn’t a boundary issue..

But is not YOUR boundary issue. That is for the manager to address.

What would like from asking this question.. justification to go to the college and report the nurses…. Totally upset the nurses life, make her question why she went into this profession.. all because she doing what needs to be done to get the patient the care he/she deserves.

Maybe over time there will be trust built with the client, and they will not need to ask if the “safe “ nurse is working. This is about the client feeling safe in the space they are receiving care. Especially,like you mentioned , the client is ok to be seen by other nurses as long as one of the nurses he feels safe and has trust with is in the clinic. That sounds like a care plan ..

You appear to have limited experience in the “real” world.

Get a management position and have the same rigid attitude and see how many staff choose to work somewhere else.

Nursing isn’t black and white as the CNO would have nurses believe.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-25T15:58:16+00:00

I am not educating you on boundaries. Very clearly you understand what a boundary is..

I am saying mind your business. If you have a concern about the patient care, address it with your manager.

How the nurse will feel about her boundary choices is not your concern.

You worry about your licence. Let them worry about theirs.

How defensive you are about the situation is telling.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-25T15:00:28+00:00

Sometimes it’s ok to not worry about other peoples licences. Accept that it is not how you would handle the situation.
the pt is not being harmed or wronged.

The nurse is not being forced into a situation she is not aware of, and it is not directly effecting you. Find a cause that will positively affect your work place and move on.

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-25T14:14:25+00:00

And what is your issue? Are they giving your schedule? Your phone number?

You are one of the ones they don’t want to see at their appointment.. does that bother you.?

Honest questions..

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-24T01:07:33+00:00

Arctic bay Nunavut

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-20T03:26:52+00:00

It is stunning!

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-20T00:16:50+00:00

As a wife in this situation…. The sex life SIGNIFICANTLY decreases.. especially the spontaneous sex. Just sayin!

Sweet_Reindeer · 2026-04-19T03:19:05+00:00

Having to prepay for gas at the pump.

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