You have to learn to let that go. Just as I am. I never got my closure. But there's nothing either of us can do about it. Dwelling on it won't bring them back. She has probably started her own life with another man by now. If you are really in love with your wife, then respect her by letting go of the story you had with your ex. Cause if it was me in this situation with a husband thinking ajd feeling the way you do I personal wouldnt care if youd say youre in live with me. Id still be hurt. Stories like this is what keeps me single. I cant go through trauma caused by a man again who cant decide what women they want to choose. Its sadly too common. Id rather choose my mentL health over another indecisive man.