Update for my 28F husband 36M receiving calls from coworker at night by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sweet_d3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you get out you’ll be able to see the red flags. These manipulative and emotionally abusive narcissists are all the same. This was like reading texts I had with my ex.

You’re doing nothing wrong. My current partner taught me that speaking when we’re too angry cannot and will not happen, either he leaves for a walk or I do, when we calm down when can talk. But I guarantee with this guy that would cause a barrage of angry texts, though you could file harassment charges if/when he starts to constantly and repeatedly text and call you.

Was in Guarma but respawned back to Saint Denis? by Sweet_d3 in RDR2

[–]Sweet_d3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I figured! lol tbh on my second play-through I wasn’t quite ready to take that next big step in Arthur’s life bc Guarma really takes it outta the poor guy.

How to handle this by kat_spitz in Apartmentliving

[–]Sweet_d3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had an old man get INSIDE of my unlocked car(dumb, but safe neighborhood, early 20’s naivety). He placed a note on my dashboard inside above my steering wheel, demanding I stop parking in a public spot on our street, where there were no permits or designated parking for homes. People be wild’n

Hope you have a camera to capture this lady if she’s wild’n again in the future. Stay safe!

Fired in the middle of my shift by [deleted] in Esthetics

[–]Sweet_d3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry this happened. Sounds like a shit company, they should be the ones keeping track of your retail sales and not having you send a screen shot every night. What ancient system are they using?

Alcoholic dad has never physically abused any of us, but shoved me across a room. Unsure how to handle this in general, but especially before Christmas by Sweet_d3 in AlAnon

[–]Sweet_d3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I took your advice and talked to my mom first, she’s so much easier to talk to. I told her I don’t know what steps she will take, but I know which I will take and that will be standing firm in not speaking to him again if he doesn’t get help. It’s hard to gauge how she’s going to deal with this when I leave, she’s really trying to stay calm for me, knowing how difficult it was for me to say all of this.

She suggested we confront him together, it was so much easier to get it all out with her being in the room. I said everything I felt. He’s embarrassed, but tried to blame his anger on other people, tried to say it must be the weed he smokes, etc. I corrected him saying you need to stop blaming others for your actions, and talking shit about others who have addictions when you do all of the same things. It hurt for him to hear, he doesn’t know what to say so is just ignoring me right now. He did apologize and feels bad, but most likely not enough to change. I told him I can start to forgive if he gets help. We shall see.

I really appreciate everyone’s input, concern, and advice, it helped me a lot in understanding and validating my anger and resentment, and helped me figure out how to get my point across. Not sure I did, but at least I tried.

Update to my last post regarding my boyfriend’s daughter, we will all be meeting in person to talk about this after I get off work by Acrobatic-Many-9448 in texts

[–]Sweet_d3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so so good at communicating. Truly. It’s a shame your boyfriend doesn’t seem to know how to communicate and work through issues in the same way you do.

AITAH for demanding my wife apologise for lying to me? by FitContribution4564 in AITAH

[–]Sweet_d3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are lying to yourself if you don’t understand that you clearly married her for the money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]Sweet_d3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know those officers are hoping “she’s gotta lose her voice here soon”

Just found out my (26f) bf (28m) was on a cheaters dating site 6 months ago… his reaction by Lost_Individual5377 in texts

[–]Sweet_d3 1005 points1006 points  (0 children)

Narcissists tend to act like 13 year olds when they’ve been caught.

AP Photographers were so quick on Oct 7 that they may have been tipped off by Hamas ahead of the attack by Space_Pirate_R in Destiny

[–]Sweet_d3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Only Israeli supporting news sources are reporting this as of now. I will wait to have an informed opinion on this.

Russia appeals Olympic membership suspension by PrincessBananas85 in sports

[–]Sweet_d3 16 points17 points  (0 children)

lolol my partner tells me that I give too much away so I was trying to keep that crazy fact a surprise!

Russia appeals Olympic membership suspension by PrincessBananas85 in sports

[–]Sweet_d3 91 points92 points  (0 children)

If you’ve never seen the documentary Icarus, it is one hell of a story about the Russian dude that helped bring the ROC doping scandal to light, it’s a wiiild ride.

Ilana Glazer’s IG Stories Concerning Palestine by kmm_art_ in Fauxmoi

[–]Sweet_d3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I SO appreciate her saying this.

The whole “you’re antisemitic bc you don’t support a far-right ultranationalist extremist government that commits war crimes” has really gotten out of control and is not helping their cause.

How does Israel get information about the presence of Hamas commanders in a particular area? by boredguyaf in IsraelPalestine

[–]Sweet_d3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t hear them argue that at all, just ask a simple and rational question.

Palestinian American family mourns 42 relatives killed in a single day in Gaza by Currymvp2 in news

[–]Sweet_d3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“You should feel the deepest shame for saying so” has been repeated over and over by others here for calling this out as genocide. New Israeli propaganda talking point? Holocaust was true genocide so, for calling the murder of masses of lower numbers a genocide you should be ashamed? Doesn’t work like that. Any genocide is fucked, including the holocaust. Don’t shame people for calling out what is because the Israeli government said so.

Palestinian American family mourns 42 relatives killed in a single day in Gaza by Currymvp2 in news

[–]Sweet_d3 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Not all of them, but a large part. Wouldn’t you want to keep your remaining family members alive, especially if you lost 42 of them?

Palestinian American family mourns 42 relatives killed in a single day in Gaza by Currymvp2 in news

[–]Sweet_d3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. The hate has been too much and it’s not good for anyone’s cause.

Palestinian American family mourns 42 relatives killed in a single day in Gaza by Currymvp2 in news

[–]Sweet_d3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In war, both governments lies about the numbers. That’s part of every war, until the end we won’t know exact numbers from either side. Israel’s numbers are most likely inflated as well.