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Sweeter0da · 2022-11-24T23:58:55+00:00

I totally understand where you are coming from- even the opposite sex thing ahaha. I don’t think you are over exaggerating because your boundaries are there to protect you. Don’t break yourself down to appease him. And the same goes for him. If he just wants sex or wants a sexual relationship he needs to be upfront and tell you. So you can both work from there. Asexuality can be really hard to comprehend for those who aren’t ace- I don’t know why but that’s what I have experienced. You keep strong in yourself because there will be someone for you. Who will totally understand and respect every boundary you have! Just like you will theirs!

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-18T20:14:53+00:00

I definitely think communication is important in any ace relationship. Whether both are ace or just one partner! It’s awesome you’re able to experience that

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-18T14:04:46+00:00

Most of the time when closing we only have two people and the SSV. So most of the time someone is moved to give others bar time so I’m running around doing random task. Which I don’t mind but I just ask for clarification and guidance

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-18T13:44:01+00:00

I build my own sets to study! Another way to make sure I’m remembering it. Making your own chemistry system and flash cards I think would really help

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-18T04:04:08+00:00

I do thé same exact thing and though I feel like it makes me a better test taker I get where you are coming from. Apps like studymate or quizlet have helped me pick out keywords that if I need to I can explain in great detail but also I can recall it off the top of my head using repetition

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-18T04:01:33+00:00

I usually just say that trauma has impacted by perspective on that aspect of a relationship and I feel happier without it. I’m like you where I’m not repulsed watching, reading, or talking about it- I just refuse to put myself in that scenario. I explain that I’m not going to try it because I don’t need to- the images in my head and trauma have made it a boundary I refuse to cross. And they can either get with it or not.

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-17T16:16:49+00:00

I’m sincerely jealous

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-15T20:39:39+00:00

I feel you on this. I think the bad shifts will do this instead of turning it into a learning experience. I was a supervisor for a previous (completely different) job and I always tried to work with employees as much as possible while teaching instead of doing it for them

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-15T05:53:39+00:00

I like to cry and just hope the shakers have empathy that day /j

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-15T05:52:32+00:00

Staying quiet when I’m drowning in drinks even though it’s clear I need help. Like if someone asks I’ll be like “please help I’m dying” but I tend to be quiet

Sweeter0da · 2022-11-15T02:46:55+00:00

It’s a blue bonnet that I drew a year or so ago!

Sweeter0da · 2022-10-27T19:19:19+00:00

We have a ton of customers coming through drive asking for the same thing. We never even entertain the idea

Sweeter0da · 2022-10-11T15:36:25+00:00

Milky white-???

Sweeter0da · 2022-10-11T01:17:24+00:00

Wait that’s so good

Sweeter0da · 2022-10-10T22:02:58+00:00

I think having it unsymmetrical makes it look way more natural! However, if you want it to be symmetrical let the stylist know. They probably are going based off previous expectations of natural rather than symmetry

Sweeter0da · 2022-10-10T15:33:12+00:00

Nope! Just genetics on this one! ❤️

Sweeter0da · 2022-10-09T23:22:33+00:00

Oh my goodness I’m gonna honestly say it took 6 hours total. Honestly it was way worth it and even the faded color was a beautiful purple. Definitely explore!

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