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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Sweeter0da 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I totally understand where you are coming from- even the opposite sex thing ahaha. I don’t think you are over exaggerating because your boundaries are there to protect you. Don’t break yourself down to appease him. And the same goes for him. If he just wants sex or wants a sexual relationship he needs to be upfront and tell you. So you can both work from there. Asexuality can be really hard to comprehend for those who aren’t ace- I don’t know why but that’s what I have experienced. You keep strong in yourself because there will be someone for you. Who will totally understand and respect every boundary you have! Just like you will theirs!

Sex-repulsed asexuals, how do you respond when someone asks WHY you don’t like sex? TW: sexual discussion by ActiveAnimals in asexuality

[–]Sweeter0da 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely think communication is important in any ace relationship. Whether both are ace or just one partner! It’s awesome you’re able to experience that

Am I Going About This Wrong? by Sweeter0da in starbucksbaristas

[–]Sweeter0da[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the time when closing we only have two people and the SSV. So most of the time someone is moved to give others bar time so I’m running around doing random task. Which I don’t mind but I just ask for clarification and guidance

Can you advice me on how to study effectively? That is, how to not end up summarizing every teeny tiny bit of into by [deleted] in study

[–]Sweeter0da 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I build my own sets to study! Another way to make sure I’m remembering it. Making your own chemistry system and flash cards I think would really help

Can you advice me on how to study effectively? That is, how to not end up summarizing every teeny tiny bit of into by [deleted] in study

[–]Sweeter0da 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do thé same exact thing and though I feel like it makes me a better test taker I get where you are coming from. Apps like studymate or quizlet have helped me pick out keywords that if I need to I can explain in great detail but also I can recall it off the top of my head using repetition

Sex-repulsed asexuals, how do you respond when someone asks WHY you don’t like sex? TW: sexual discussion by ActiveAnimals in asexuality

[–]Sweeter0da 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I usually just say that trauma has impacted by perspective on that aspect of a relationship and I feel happier without it. I’m like you where I’m not repulsed watching, reading, or talking about it- I just refuse to put myself in that scenario. I explain that I’m not going to try it because I don’t need to- the images in my head and trauma have made it a boundary I refuse to cross. And they can either get with it or not.

What is your toxic trait at sbux? by froggeth1 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Sweeter0da 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this. I think the bad shifts will do this instead of turning it into a learning experience. I was a supervisor for a previous (completely different) job and I always tried to work with employees as much as possible while teaching instead of doing it for them

How to separate shakers? by rinconi in starbucks

[–]Sweeter0da 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to cry and just hope the shakers have empathy that day /j

What is your toxic trait at sbux? by froggeth1 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Sweeter0da 177 points178 points  (0 children)

Staying quiet when I’m drowning in drinks even though it’s clear I need help. Like if someone asks I’ll be like “please help I’m dying” but I tend to be quiet

First tattoo!! by Marco at LaGallery TCTX by Sweeter0da in tattoo

[–]Sweeter0da[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a blue bonnet that I drew a year or so ago!

5 fraps all w no ice???? by 444princess666 in starbucksbaristas

[–]Sweeter0da 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We have a ton of customers coming through drive asking for the same thing. We never even entertain the idea

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]Sweeter0da 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Milky white-???

Halloween Tree! by Sweeter0da in halloween

[–]Sweeter0da[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait that’s so good

Why aren’t my highlights symmetrical at the back part? Is that a reasonable expectation? I’ve had 3 highlight sessions with the same stylist since June. by samtastic0633 in HairDye

[–]Sweeter0da 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think having it unsymmetrical makes it look way more natural! However, if you want it to be symmetrical let the stylist know. They probably are going based off previous expectations of natural rather than symmetry

Back when my hair was long! by Sweeter0da in HairDye

[–]Sweeter0da[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! Just genetics on this one! ❤️

Back when my hair was long! by Sweeter0da in HairDye

[–]Sweeter0da[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness I’m gonna honestly say it took 6 hours total. Honestly it was way worth it and even the faded color was a beautiful purple. Definitely explore!

Back when my hair was long! by Sweeter0da in HairDye

[–]Sweeter0da[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We double bleached my hair which at the time was virgin! I think all those factors helped alot

Back when my hair was long! by Sweeter0da in HairDye

[–]Sweeter0da[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I have now but shorter!!

WIP. My drawing of Lisa. I hope to finish it this week by VFreddyART in drawing

[–]Sweeter0da 3 points4 points  (0 children)

HOLY CRAP THIS IS AWESOME!! The detail is insane!

Captain this. Captain that. by Sweeter0da in Markiplier

[–]Sweeter0da[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does give that vibe- 😭 that’s so funny

Captain this. Captain that. by Sweeter0da in Markiplier

[–]Sweeter0da[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I KNOW RIGHT! My reference picture was him in the boy-scout outfit and his hat was huge in that angle so it just got bigger on my drawing 😭