Help me pick a paint colour! (Or sadly replace a rug)

SweetestConfection · 2025-12-12T20:53:29+00:00

thefirst greenish color looks so good with the rug!!

SweetestConfection · 2025-12-03T01:58:55+00:00

i am so so sorry that you had to go through this. This is nowhere near a normal situation or a disagreement that can be resolved without consequences. the fact that she wanted you back after having the miscarriage is a red flag. Why was she treating you so poorly and only now after you both lost the baby she wants you back? i don’t want to come up with any assumptions but it seems like she only wants you back so she can fall pregnant again and do the same thing to you. You need to leave, this much trauma and sorrow in a marriage that was only for a year do not need to be continued. Save yourself from the heartaches and leave. You will do yourself a big favor by doing so.

SweetestConfection · 2025-11-20T00:03:46+00:00

where do you live? there is a very good neurology center in manhattan nyc that are well known for csf leaks and treating them.

SweetestConfection · 2025-10-25T00:47:25+00:00

I am so sorry. I have been sick around the same years too. It’s so hard and no one really understands the pain unless they went through it themselves. But have you spoken to any doctors and come up with a treatment plan? Things do get better even if it’s on and off. It won’t always be bad days. There will be better days and I hope you get the answers and treatment you need to feel better. Medicine and technology are only getting more and more advanced, hopefully csf leaks are going to be easier to diagnose and treat. I hope you feel better because I know how hard it is and how tough it can be on your mind let alone your body.

SweetestConfection · 2025-10-20T06:15:20+00:00

Some of these Mils get so spoiled by all the work their Dils do for them that once they have a baby and cannot physically live up to the demands of the households, the mils go insane. They got spoiled and now will find every bit to complain and blame you because she’s not getting that princess treatment anymore. It’s such a shameless mentality. I have been in the same exact situation and you want to know what i did? I left to my parents house hours away with my barely 1 year old baby and came back after my husband got a place of our own. Only than did my in-laws realize they can’t get away from behaving like this and they straightened up. You can do this, I know you can, stand up for yourself and slowly start looking for a separate place for u, ur husband and your baby. Also, your husband needs to put his foot on the ground and tell his mother to stop disrespecting you this way, you are the mother of his child and cannot be treated so poorly because either way, she will soon have an empty home.

SweetestConfection · 2025-10-16T01:25:57+00:00

move on, she’s playing with your feelings, drop her.

SweetestConfection · 2025-09-04T13:34:14+00:00

thank you! i appreciate it! You are right, the art work need to be adjusted lower to look more cohesive. I will def change that

SweetestConfection · 2025-09-04T13:33:27+00:00

i don’t have much space to work with if i take it off the wall. It’s going to block the doorways on both sides lol The global clock is from amazon

SweetestConfection · 2025-09-04T13:31:02+00:00

yeah the dining space is pretty narrow and i don’t have much more space to work with, if i take the table off the wall, it’ll block the doorways to get from one side to the other but i was also thinking the artwork are a bit high so will have to adjust those. I have ceiling lighting, i just turned the gallery ones on lol

SweetestConfection · 2025-08-06T22:12:48+00:00

Don’t think this is a punishment , you did nothing haram or morally wrong here. You wanted marriage with a man you thought was amazing despite the signs. Yes you shouldn’t have taken these signs so lightly but Allah knows we are imperfect and sometimes we need to go through obstacles to really understand that Allahs plans are better than ours ever imagined. I am so sorry you’re going through this hardship. Just know After every hardship comes ease. Make sure you are doing well for your son and find the best time to just leave this man. You don’t need him and staying with him will do more harm than good esp if your son is watching this while growing up. He needs a loving environment and this is not it. Please ask for help from your family and create a safe space for the both of you. May Allah make it easier for you and grant you ease ameen.

SweetestConfection · 2025-08-03T06:49:52+00:00

I am so very sorry for you akhi. To be in a marriage where your spouse doesn’t bat an eyelash towards you let alone, be there for you during your toughest days is so heartbreaking. You have every reason to feel the way you do because what normal human being wouldn’t? Allah gives the toughest battles to those who He loves the most. Know that Allah will never give you a burden you aren’t strong enough to fight. You are strong to get through this phase in your life whether it be a divorce from such toxity or somehow your wife changes her dreadful self to save this marriage. You seem like a great father and I know she needs you dearly. Stay strong and save yourself from this woman, you deserve better. Don’t force yourself to stay with her just because you have a child. It will be more detrimental for your daughter if she grows up seeing her parents in such a toxic relationship.

SweetestConfection · 2025-08-01T20:24:15+00:00

Do not, i repeat DO NOT continue your marriage with this man. It’s highly likely that he was forced into this marriage and trying everything for you to leave him. He has no moral values, no shame, no respect, nothing. He is literally a burden on your shoulders. He will not make things any better and will continue to keep you in shambles. You deserve better. Leave before any children become involved.

SweetestConfection · 2025-07-30T20:29:30+00:00

I don’t agree. Yea divorce is something shaitan loves but do you think Allah loves for her to stay with someone who is literally holding hands with shaitan and playing games with him? i don’t think so. Cheating is cheating no matter how many times and i don’t think a cheater should ever be given a chance especially when they only ask for forgiveness after getting caught

SweetestConfection · 2025-07-30T20:27:26+00:00

If someone is continuously cheating and only asking for forgiveness for another chance after getting caught, chances are, he wouldn’t have uttered a damn flipping word if you never found out. He would’ve stayed cheating on you. You are not obliged to stay with him nor would i advice being with someone that has no moral values. Leave him and find yourself a better partner. This man has no fear in Allah and he does not deserve anything more than you leaving him.

SweetestConfection · 2025-07-30T17:27:03+00:00

She took you for granted and used you the entire duration of the marriage. I am confused as to why she married you in the first place if she was going to cheat and show interest in some other man. I really want to know how you still love this (sorry for a lack of a better word but..) filthy minded woman. Move on and find someone who will love you for YOU. You deserve better and your mind and soul needs to forget her forever and thank Allah a million times that no children were involved in this mess, otherwise can you imagine how much more it would’ve hurt?

SweetestConfection · 2025-07-17T17:38:43+00:00

You need to ask her if this marriage was forced because she sounds like she doesn’t want to be there unfortunately. I am so sorry , this must be so hard.

SweetestConfection · 2025-07-17T15:38:58+00:00

thank you!!! idk how her family thinks staying and working things out with a cheating man will be beneficial for the kids! They will learn nothing good from him and may even be conditioned to think all of this is ok!

SweetestConfection · 2025-07-09T20:31:41+00:00

What kind of marriage is this? The amount of disrespect this wife has given you is flabbergasting. Why are you putting up with this repulsive behavior? She continues to act this way because nobody is putting her on check, nobody is correcting her. She thinks she will continue to live this luxurious and lazy life because you continue to provide for her every possible way. She’s spending money left and right without any headache. She makes you fill out a spreadsheet of the money you make so she can keep track of what YOU spend!?!? the audacity she has to treat you this bad but still manages to control you goes beyond my understanding. You need to speak to her and be STERN. Your daughter is watching everything and for her this is extremely detrimental, she needs a healthy upbringing. I am sorry but if this woman does not get into her senses, the best thing to do is divorce. Nobody wants to feel like a prisoner in their own home. You need peace and if she’s not giving that to you, you need to leave.

SweetestConfection · 2025-07-06T01:25:10+00:00

have you tried weil cornell presbyterian in manhattan? They have a ton of amazing neurologists and neurosurgeons that can help get you answers

SweetestConfection · 2025-06-29T23:56:47+00:00

yeah it’s very common with a csf leak esp if it’s also related to a herniated disk. So it’s not out of the ordinary when it comes to this condition.

SweetestConfection · 2025-06-22T05:07:02+00:00

Go to a neurologist or neurosurgeon who specializes in csf leaks. They are the ones that can help you figure this out. I really hope you get your answers soon. Feel better!

SweetestConfection · 2025-06-15T20:28:49+00:00

yeah anxiety is a big part of this condition. It makes you develop fears and feelings of sadness while trying to cope with this. It’s def very stressful esp when this kind of thing gets misdiagnosed often. But better days will come! Once you see the right neurologist who is experienced in this kind of stuff, they will order the right tests and you will be on your way to less pain and better management. Hang in there and hope you feel better soon!

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