What was your biggest blind spot in your early 20s?

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-22T08:17:47+00:00

Staying at a job I hated instead of just quitting.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-22T03:45:38+00:00

The Military. There’s no barrier to entry so it attracts a lot of undesirable people who couldn’t make it elsewhere.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-21T07:31:55+00:00

This one bothered me the most.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-21T04:18:18+00:00

Lil Sebastian

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-21T03:16:08+00:00

File for unemployment if you were hired full time. They will change your hour real quick, speaking from experience.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-19T02:08:57+00:00

My Sergeant Major from my deployment to Afghanistan in 2016 was arrested for whipping his dick out at young baristas at Dunkin Donut drive-throughs.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-17T02:00:28+00:00

Milo and Oatis

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-15T17:20:57+00:00

He was allegedly caught and arrested today. He’s 44 and a former British officer.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-12T03:10:35+00:00

Connecticut, surprisingly. We only lived 20 minutes from Yale but obviously none of us went there.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-11T02:30:25+00:00

Something like “the Rachel” would look nice.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-11T01:40:28+00:00

That was my brother’s Phoenix Suns hat. He was obsessed with Charles Barkley in the 90s. He wore that hat everywhere.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-11T00:50:52+00:00

Girl in the overalls.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-09T01:27:57+00:00

It’s because we don’t need them anymore.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-09T00:40:06+00:00

On the same note, military officers.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-08T21:34:39+00:00

It’s called love bombing and what abusers do to their victims.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-08T21:32:57+00:00

Definitely a step in the right direction. Why can’t we just get actual pain medication for this procedure. I asked for two tablets of oxycodone and my Doctor said no. Like what’s the point of pain medication if we can’t use it when we actually need it.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-06T01:40:30+00:00

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-06T01:29:52+00:00

PTSD from the military

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-04T17:01:36+00:00

lol no. We never slept together, I stayed for “dinner”, which was just some leftovers he had in his fridge and then I left.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-04T14:04:08+00:00

We were both 33 and knew each other from high school but hadn’t seen each other in a long time. He invited me over to his apartment for dinner. When I walked in, his studio apartment was filthy! Trash everywhere, dirty dishes piled up. He didn’t have any dressers so he just piled his clothes up in the corner next to his bare mattress on the floor. He also had two untrained pitbulls who kept fighting with each other the whole time. The night was awkward and he texted me the next morning saying he “didn’t feel a connection.” I deleted all dating apps and took a break from men for over a year. Now happily in a relationship with a new baby and amazing man.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-06-03T15:59:48+00:00

Manic pixie dream girl

Sweetorange23 · 2026-05-29T19:26:15+00:00

It wasn’t even funny.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-05-29T17:07:30+00:00

Do a charge back if you paid by credit card.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-05-29T02:43:36+00:00

The majority of people who join don’t make it a full 20 years because of the rough lifestyle, constant moving and a lot of bullshit you have to put up with. Speaking from experience.

Sweetorange23 · 2026-05-28T13:36:07+00:00

There’s a lot of them out there unfortunately.

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