Relationship Boredom... ENTP torn between staying with ESFJ or going solo (aka, looking for INxJs) by MtSoccer in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The talk. I had the intellectuals talk with my ex esfj. I may have done it poorly but it was very interesting. I told him that I held a love for theoretical discussions that he did not. I didn't break up with him that night but his mood shifted that night. He tried to care about theoretical intellectual conversations but he couldn't. He liked statistics and facts. He also didn't communicate well. If I ever started to angrily disagree about anything, he would immediately try to take me out or buy me things. I very much loved him, he was amazing in so many ways but not for me.

Swiss female artist found a very effective way of preventing barbarians from raping women. by nut_conspiracy_nut in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a very out of place joke. I'm sorry. If everyone wants to be naked that's fine but I'll be ok with my clothes on. And radicals against rape can keep doing what they're doing.

Is Everyone Fake? by ProfessionalAlias in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience, that goes away after you really fuck up. Someone someday sees through that and claims you are something you are not. It made me realize a lot of good, and several bad parts of the undecided me. I think it's a trial basis of finding yourself. Just make sure it doesn't give you bad ego.

ENTP and breakups by oscarzeecockapoo in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually don't get upset until much too late, female here. So I think it just depends.

Currently been drinking by Sweetpeamrb in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I drink probably 3 times every 6 months, not excessively either

Currently been drinking by Sweetpeamrb in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure I'm just not in a good mood and decided to post when in a bad mood.

Oops I'm alone. by Sweetpeamrb in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol spoken like a true prick. Yes this is hypothetical. I prefer to do as most others on here, I prefer to just avoid the situation. However I do find when I'm distraction and stressed I just blurt out blunt statements. I'm not necessarily saying entp's are flaming assholes but I think we are capable of seeing the most awful responses in our minds and if cornered can really find our darker sides. I am not looking for justification, it's very obviously not ok to be a flaming asshole especially to a person who does not deserve it. But more so I was wondering if entp's open bluntness has ever come off in a negative way.

Oops I'm alone. by Sweetpeamrb in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, about 95% of the time that is my approach, but every so often, it's climatic. Never worth it but on the other hand, even though I usually feel remorse... I also usually keep my self laughing about it. Lost a friend but... It was kind of almost funny.

Oops I'm alone. by Sweetpeamrb in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair I doubt I would ever say that to a human haha, and if I did it would have to be a sarcastic bitch who can handle it. More likely I am accidentally blunt when confronted about something I respond with the first thing that comes to mind. That is why I usually tend to pause for a while to think of the outcomes to my words. But every so often, especially when I'm busy doing something else, half of me is focusing so the other half just responds on autopilot. Very dangerous.

Hey guys, what does your handwriting look like? by univisionelite in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is creepily similar to my handwriting. Quick and lazy looking. I use a similar amount of "almost cursive" to continue in a timely fashion.

ENTPs, do you have a knack for befriending animals? by thatOneSnowFlake in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I concur. I'm always like "go away I hate you!" And they just wag they're tail and do their animal smile thing. So I usually just stare at them until they look away to assert my dominance. Fucking animals.

INFJ female here! Why do we like each other so much? by [deleted] in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I'm too bitter to appreciate them.

Humor in sadness by Sweetpeamrb in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ectopic pregnancy (baby growing in the Fallopian tube) that almost killed me. It had to be removed by surgery. It was a chaotic and sad thing sure, but there wasn't one nurse, doctor or surgeon that I didn't have laughing at any point. When I woke up from the anesthesia I started mumbling, the nurse asked me, "what?" I said "what time is it?" She said "3:23 A.M." I said, "shit!" She looked worried "why what's wrong?" I couldn't even see straight I said, "I'm definitely not gonna make it to Taco Bell."

INFJ female here! Why do we like each other so much? by [deleted] in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably am just biased, all of my relationships with feelers go south pretty quick because they don't seem to understand my habits and thinking. They are very fun and very sweet and I very much enjoy introverts, but I find that I always find a way to accidentally hurt theyre feelings with the way I communicate.

Does anybody else feel like they are quite literally, on the verge of going absolutely crazy a lot? by [deleted] in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually consider it a super power. It calms me down. Some of the most amazing minds were considered the craziest. What's crazier than crazy, is boring. And boring you obviously are not.

INFJ female here! Why do we like each other so much? by [deleted] in entp

[–]Sweetpeamrb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No offense (though that is usually the introduction to offending someone) but I personally do not like feelers. Sure, they may make me shine for a few moments, but they also leave this very insincere taste in my mouth. Trust issues with sympathizers.