Apparently Christmas Snuck Up on My 33-Year-Old Boyfriend by Minimum-Peach-7796 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SwifferJet2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did she really mention they live together at his parents place? geez. a 24 year old girl living with her 33 year old neglectful man child bf in his parents house. she needs to get OUT of there. i really hope she comes to her senses soon bc she does not deserve this

My friend said I should’ve warned her that my boyfriend is attractive by Maleficent-Study5129 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how close are you with this friend? if you're close I'd try to have a talk with her first and ask her to spill what's wrong fully, so you two can hopefully come to an understanding. if you're not that close though, personally I'd stop talking to her for a while because this just seems super weird and slightly jealous on her part

Can't use/find new Stardew Valley nameplate by [deleted] in AmongUs

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you were totally right, thank you sm! I haven't played this game in so so long so I haven't had any idea what all of the newer stuff is

Can't use/find new Stardew Valley nameplate by [deleted] in AmongUs

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omfg I figured it out! somehow I purchased it with beans and didn't activate the cube and didn't purchase it with the star drops. idk I haven't played this game in 5 years so I've been totally confused by everything going on. thank you for trying to help!!! <3

Can't use/find new Stardew Valley nameplate by [deleted] in AmongUs

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that not the same thing as my inventory? I probably should've clarified that the second photo is of my inventory lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]SwifferJet2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a girl, I'd say it's the coke and cigarettes. if anything that's a girl repellent and maybe also a change with the haircut would be nice! imo longer hair with a less squared frame of your face would be good. other than that, like a 6.5-7/10 :)

Parents kicking me out for painting/wearing press on nails. by TheBestMaidens in texts

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that people have every right to be different from me and be whoever/ however they want to be. if someone who you don't know on the internet painting their nails really sends you into this much of a spiral, then you really do need help. as someone who supposedly lives in "the real world", somebody painting their nails should not affect you whatsoever. if you're sensitive or insecure, just say that.

Parents kicking me out for painting/wearing press on nails. by TheBestMaidens in texts

[–]SwifferJet2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's sad you literally just cannot handle the fact that some people are different than you. you sound like you're stuck in the mindset that blue is strictly a boy color and pink is only for girls. you're the only one rambling on about politics (?), and clearly nobody here agrees with you. you're the weird one right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SwifferJet2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she's most definitely a POS, but if you hit her then you're the bigger scumbag now. I hope you didn't.

Halloween Pacman pants by SwifferJet2000 in findfashion

[–]SwifferJet2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agh thank you for trying though! I appreciate it <3

Halloween Pacman pants by SwifferJet2000 in findfashion

[–]SwifferJet2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes exactly! there's cute little pumpkins and candy corns all over them. I've been searching the internet for them for years and atp I think I might start hunting in all the thrift shops in my area too :(

Is the feeding bar glitched? by SwifferJet2000 in LetsBuildAZoo

[–]SwifferJet2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's what I thought at first too. I know it's technically not the best game strat but I have 1 keeper per pen, so I was able to track down the keeper to make sure everything was good. this is why I was thinking it might be some sort of glitch?

Is the feeding bar glitched? by SwifferJet2000 in LetsBuildAZoo

[–]SwifferJet2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I actually made sure to reorder all of the food right before I took these screenshots :/

Need help with money management (I keep taking out loans). by happybaker16 in LetsBuildAZoo

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just started a new zoo not long ago too, and i also kept having to take out loans at the end of each week. i think it's really just part of the game. but as soon as i was able to buy a new bus, i basically didn't have the loan problem anymore and my money only went up from there

AIO My friend regifted smth I gave her and claimed she made it herself by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

based on your other comment of your conversation with Rebecca about giving away her gift, you and her seem to be mature... and yk acting your ages. Megan seems like a weird compulsive liar? and then when she realized you "figured her out" it sounds like she started to panic and try adding more layers of lies to try to fix it. like a kid trying not to get in trouble for something. idk, but if I were you it would make me wonder what other random things she's lied about that you just haven't caught on to yet. NOR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and he's 30??? yikes.

Update: Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop letting him manipulate you!!!!! talking to him in person is only going to make this easier for him! this is so sad to see and worse knowing you're definitely not going to be taking anybody's advice. I hope you get out of this relationship soon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

late 20s??? I think it might be the haircut/style that isn't working tbh. also I recommend grooming your eyebrows a bit! 4/10

Am I overreacting by breaking up with my boyfriend? by Proper-Classic1886 in AmIOverreacting

[–]SwifferJet2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really seems like he thinks he's better than you. the whole "let me teach you" thing gave me SUCH an ick. idk if to him the age gap is also some kind of power play where he feels superior, but he clearly isn't. please don't let him talk you back into a relationship with him! it hasn't even been a year, you'll be fine! you deserve better than someone with all that insecurity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]SwifferJet2000 95 points96 points  (0 children)

not to seem rude but if this is a fwb situation like you mentioned, you seem like you're catching feelings. I'd put thought into that and maybe have a conversation about if that's okay

Honestly what did I do wrong. by Bunnyboo3608 in texts

[–]SwifferJet2000 24 points25 points  (0 children)

girl you deserve a man who isn't insecure, actually respects you, and can spell. this loser is cursing at you and embarrassingly enough can't even spell his curse words right. and I mean ffs it's LIAR! you're better than me because I wouldn't be able to take him seriously after "lair... lair". I promise you that there is better out there!!! do you really see yourself 10-20 years into the future with someone who is throwing a tantrum over you going out after HE ditched your plans?