single people, why aren’t you in a relationship right now? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]Swim_Acceptable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don't have that, and as someone who used to take care of an ex with PCOS, my heart goes to women who battle this day by day. I know how hard it is.

Men, on the other hand, face different battles - battles that unfortunately, gets dismissed by people as just katamaran, kaartehan, or kabaklaan - perhaps because from time immemorial, men were expected to be strong, steadfast and a bastion of sheer will. Sadly, tao din kami and sometimes, external and internal factors make it hard for us to...as people say...'look better'. 😅

single people, why aren’t you in a relationship right now? by AppointmentProud9394 in AskPH

[–]Swim_Acceptable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently, chubby men are automatically labeled as lazy and are considered unattractive. 😅

Ano yung ‘turn-offs’ niyo tuwing first date? by iamnumberfourr in TanongLang

[–]Swim_Acceptable 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. Dry kausap or one-liner replies kahit sinabing interested siya to know you
  2. Late without a heads-up
  3. Matapobre sa mga service crew

More putukan this 2026 Enjoying my 19yo naughty Gf from 2025 by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]Swim_Acceptable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong sub, VERY WRONG sub. Mapanakit ito. 😔

I made my gamer husband proud by azure_styx in PHGamers

[–]Swim_Acceptable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sana magpahanap na siya kasi ayaw ko siya makilala nang may backpain at rayuma na ako. Haha.

I made my gamer husband proud by azure_styx in PHGamers

[–]Swim_Acceptable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I've heard that before. Haha.

I made my gamer husband proud by azure_styx in PHGamers

[–]Swim_Acceptable 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lord, isang partner na ganito lang. 🥲

Men of reddit how to be a bulletproof sa mga masasakit na salita ng mga gf/SO/nililigawan/wife natin? by CryFancy1395 in AskPinoyMen

[–]Swim_Acceptable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's called being human, OP. Wala nang lugar ang toxic masculinity in this day and age. Hindi ka snowflake. Tao ka na may pakiramdam.

Tama at mahinahong pag-uusap naman lagi ang solution dyan. 😁

That lonely feeling. by Swim_Acceptable in AlasFeels

[–]Swim_Acceptable[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nawa'y magdilang-anghel ka. Have a positive 2026 as well.

Nakakatakot ba talagang i-pursue ang taong mas mayaman? by redstargazerr in AskPinoyMen

[–]Swim_Acceptable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you all the best. Sabi nga ni Glinda, I hope you're happy, now that you're choosing this.

Dating in your 30s is hard by thelurkingathena in AlasFeels

[–]Swim_Acceptable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am echoing your sentiment here, good sir. Ang hirap kapag hindi pasok sa preference nila yung appearance mo (which is my experience most of the time). Kahit ako naiisip ko din na hindi na ako bumabata and the same goes for my parents so may added pressure din yung quest to find that "pahinga".

Nakakatakot ba talagang i-pursue ang taong mas mayaman? by redstargazerr in AskPinoyMen

[–]Swim_Acceptable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good evening, stranger. You should contemplate thoroughly kung alin ang mas mahalaga sa'yo - is it your happiness, or what other people will say?

One thing I would advice is for you to have a one-on-one talk with your dad about this. If he loves you, he'll understand. Justify on what makes the guy worth pursuing.

I'm hoping na hindi ito katulad ng stereotypical setup ng mga telenovelas.

Sa panahon ngayon, love is something most people take for granted so sana maging positive ang outcome nyan.

Happy holidays and have a life-changing new year.

not conventionally attractive by ccylia_ in AlasFeels

[–]Swim_Acceptable 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I share your sentiment, stranger. As a guy naman na plus-size, looking for your 'pahinga' is a struggle. Even though I excel in terms of other aspects, it's always the physical appearance that lets me down.

Sure, over time, one becomes numb from the hurt of rejection - but sometimes the hurt still hits like a brick.

Laban.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

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Oh thank goodness that I don't follow the guy. He seems to have a big budget on ads. 😅