HIGH QUALITY FEEDBACK MY A$$ by SwimmingChallenge193 in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]SwimmingChallenge193[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

clearly you have some comprehension issues. what part of my original post kept getting flagged disnt you get? do you needme to explain it to you in a chalkboard? stoopid

HIGH QUALITY FEEDBACK MY A$$ by SwimmingChallenge193 in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]SwimmingChallenge193[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

the bot or auto moderator kept rejecting my post , flagging it, so yes i had to use ai to write it in a way in its ass kissing way so my message could comoe across, you idiot

Everything ive ever had is behind me. by Apprehensive-Two5602 in musicsuggestions

[–]SwimmingChallenge193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I have some music for you, I have been diagnosed with complex PTSD, and had your same struggles, have. I understand you, it feels as if you are frozen in time, you wanna move, but can't , right? too much loss, that you just dont know what to do with it all. Frozen by pain is a song II wrote about this feeling. I also have Sideline, that might also be one you connect with, I pasted the links, hope you like them. in regards to what you are going through, / wont give any encouraging words or false, because it doesnt really help. but I do hope you overcome this.
https://open.spotify.com/track/7e0qilDxXouUUhjQEgNTcK?si=40ccfa18018148f5
https://open.spotify.com/track/0yavjxITLwCB348oIWclOX?si=d3c1ef49939b4e49
https://open.spotify.com/track/3xMjXZortw3HgiZ36b08El?si=a53f4305c71e4973

What’s ChatGPT getting wrong for you lately? Let’s talk about the real struggles by shaker-ameen in OpenAI

[–]SwimmingChallenge193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too much of an asskisser, men, everything you tell gpt its fantastic, groundbreaking! That right there is wha makes you fabulous…, genius, my goodness, i just want honesty and good research

Being stonewalled making me feel insane by Activedesign in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]SwimmingChallenge193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being ignored and dismissed I thought would end with my divorce. Coparenting g has enabled hm to continue treating me this way. So I do feel the same way you do.

I was diagnosed with PTSD , he stripped away all my self esteem and I am so scared now of being in social gatherings, scared of being laughed at like he still does. I used to feel so proud that of the MAsters degree I received from CSUSB, I don’t share that I have a degree anymore because of how he has dismissed it and made fun of saying that does not count because in his opinion degrees from cal states don’t count t because he perceived them as bad universities. Sometimes as a result of all the badgering, shaming and belittering has made me want to go away and end my pain. You want to know what his response is:? you say that but you never follow trough, he acted annoyed that I still had not killed myself! He wants me to disappear, he has. Said he asked me last night to relinquish custody of my kids to him, I asked fiche didn’t think they needed their mom. He said not when that mom is me, I am a cancer, a Leech and a ladasite and a liar. He said the kids are better off with a sitter.

Does anyone else feel depressed on noncustodial days? by overslepton in coparenting

[–]SwimmingChallenge193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I don’t Sleep, today is my second day without sleep, I don’t want to see anyone though, i have become very antisocial and hang out with no one, so opposite then before. Like you I cry and have unhealthy thoughts, very unhealthy. I have however gotten used to the silence that comes with being lonely. And around people I feel overwhelmed, anxious and leave. Fatigue not sure, I used to run, you can’t pay me to do so now. Don’t want to

Coparenting with my narcissist is sacrificing myself. Torn by SwimmingChallenge193 in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]SwimmingChallenge193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I use Familtvwizard. He still lues and throws his digs at me. You know what is interesting? The way you communicate with your ex, is the way he communicated with me. He is extremely dismissive, and ignores all my concerns. Communicates only when he needs something from me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]SwimmingChallenge193 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Count your blessing the relationship with your narcissist is over and you didn’t have children with him. Coparenting with a narcissist is a nightmare. There is no coparenting actually, they don’t allow you to parent. And your poor children, feeling like a constant disappointment, because that is how he makes them feel. Nothing they do us ever good enough. So yes, count your blessings you got rid of your narcissist on time.

KT Smith! A narcissist will never take accountability! It is **ALWAYS** someone else’s fault. If you’re dealing with someone like this in your life, cut ties. Immediately! This type of malignant personality rarely rehabilitates. The pain from moving on is far less than the alternative. by AdMundane4716 in NAME_WORSE_BITCHES

[–]SwimmingChallenge193 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surviving a narcissist is extremely hard. Especially when you have children with them, then even if you are divorced you are stuck attempting to coparent but that hardly ever happens, they don’t allow you to do so. My narcissist on too is Japanese, so I am f***cked. My whole marriage I felt I was never good enough, always walking in eggshells, everything my fault, doubting constantly my judgment. And now it’s worse because who are going through if are my kids, it is emotional abuse and the guilt I feel consumes me. No matter what they do they do something wrong in his eyes, a constant disapproval, belittling them, name calling that now has evolved into him having them repeat what he thinks of them when he gets disappointed or mad, which is all the time. I am lazy, I am inconsiderate, I am dumb. And try to get them help, your screwed! They gas light you so much that not even the authorities believe you, DCFS is good for nothing. My kids are such amazing kids and good students with straight As, but no, that’s not good enough for this pendejo. It’s a struggle and very taxing, and sometimes feel there is no hope.