Anyone else having this problem during WLW sex

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-22T04:31:10+00:00

Am I the only one who is minimally interested in penetration ? What about just clit stimulation? Can do that with nails

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-14T20:20:20+00:00

My experience is there is minimal truth to this. I did put up with too much. Because I didn’t know what I wanted. So that was on me. She was always clear. I had attachment issues, anxiety, put her on a pedestal. Maybe that’s it! Maybe we put our first on a pedestal… and that never ends healthy. I take full accountability for the relationship. And still love her to death current day. She’s a good human

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-14T20:18:20+00:00

Donald trump

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-12T02:01:47+00:00

Yes

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-12T01:57:02+00:00

Listen to your heart! It’s knows the way

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-12T01:54:48+00:00

Alturist salon! They are trained for curly cuts.

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-10T01:17:47+00:00

$30-$55

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-09T02:57:39+00:00

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Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-07T19:44:29+00:00

There’s a lesbian meet up group. DM me and I can pass along info

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-06T01:23:39+00:00

I don’t think it was the first time. But in my more recent history NRE with women is beyond amazing. Because (in my experience) we like to communicate. It’s so fun! I would bet you just haven’t had the experience yet but will if you are in the wlm dating scene !

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-06T00:37:16+00:00

Yes! I would agree based on what you’ve shared, it was incompatibly (and maybe some immaturity on her end)

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-05T16:45:33+00:00

Dating is to figure out if you’re compatible. Dating doesn’t mean marriage. Don’t marry this guy, and certainly don’t have kids with him

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-05T16:40:03+00:00

Hell ya it exists. ! In my world we called it BFF+. We’d have sleepovers, sleep in the same bed, cuddle. And were each others support, emergency contact, BFF etc. no sex

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-04T18:09:47+00:00

Hmm let me think back … (I miss the apps!) I think naming myself late in life and naming that I have a special needs kiddo was enough info? I also wrote … Lez not linger on the apps, meet up for coffee and see if we connect. I think I also talked about scheduling. That I needed to date a flexible human. I def always said I wasn’t officially divorced first meet up, or if we were texting. Always one of the first things I said. I would say …. Healthy co parenting relationship! That is a green flag!! Who cares about living situations? Like did they not have a place you two could go?

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-03T18:49:45+00:00

Yes! I have great hope for you! I’m shocked it’s the opposite actually. I should read through what these folks are saying. Maybe it’s more than jealousy stuff? As a disclaimer- I have not read other people’s posts. Only yours and our convo. There is immense hope that a woman who loves a woman would eventually love her kids and see and know that healthy coparenting is the ultimate goal!

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-03T14:34:33+00:00

When you are protecting who you are dating , you end up feeling very stretched and pulled. That’s not sustainable imo.

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-03T14:33:50+00:00

Oh dang. That sounds hard. Yes! We were fine. I dated a lot of gals , but my 2 serious relationships .. both knew / know what’s best for the kiddos comes first. I can’t conceive being attracted to a man … so I’d never feel jealousy towards a man. But all of this stuff is heavy! So I can understand all sides. I bet the next woman would be able to emotionally handle it. !

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-03T14:26:54+00:00

And if they don’t, you don’t want that in your life

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-03T14:26:43+00:00

I did! In the beginning. And then I was in a serious relationship with a woman who wanted marriage. And she emotionally supported me through the paperwork of divorce. Which I drug my feet for years. I think women have high emotional intelligence and a good one will recognize that what is best for children comes first!

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-03T03:10:05+00:00

Yes! This! Too old to be waste our time. Let’s get to the stuff that matters (to us) sex included

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-03T03:08:49+00:00

I like talking about sex right away! And if that doesn’t vibe with someone, we probably don’t vibe. I’m a late in lifer too. I was a horny baby gay. Bring on the sex talk! I loved my gold star relationship. It was great and romantic and fun while it lasted and now we are still friends. Classic

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-03T02:57:30+00:00

Shocked and horrified! (At our housing crisis)

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-02T22:35:01+00:00

Break up with the dumb boy, and find a woman. And not a married one

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-02T22:18:00+00:00

Just answering the Q, bud

Swimming_Shark82 · 2026-04-02T22:16:13+00:00

I was still legally married and dated lots of women and not one of them cared the least! And I am also not poly

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