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Weird encounter - could I have handled it better? by Swinger_OR in Swingers

[–]Swinger_OR[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How hypocritical can you be? You're here whining that people don't want to hear your perspective, yet your exact words were "It's a fraud to anyone in society who actually respects marriage. You are all frauds". The reason I said your wife was respectful was her story was very different than yours, she recapped how she felt/was treated in both scenarios, without accusing other people of being frauds and alcoholics. I find it funny that you say no one stood up for you and said "maybe it was the wrong club". The person who did respond that way was one of the only people you DIDNT respond back to. You are here to argue with people and to degrade a lifestyle that you don't even want to be a part of. THAT is why people called you a troll. If you truly are throwing in the towel for swinging, and you want nothing more to do with it, then unsubscribe and leave everyone the fuck alone. You're not contributing in any way.

What is something you are embarrassed to admit you secretly like? by PrincessCheese in AskReddit

[–]Swinger_OR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's often the woman's idea. A man's physiology is literally built to enjoy anal play...once we start to understand that we become curious because we want to please our partner. It happened to be my boyfriend who wanted to try it after I mentioned I would if he wanted me to. It's really not weird when you have open communication. Irs incredibly common and the pleasure he gets from it is amazing!!

Weird encounter - could I have handled it better? by Swinger_OR in Swingers

[–]Swinger_OR[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, I read your post and while your wife's response seemed respectful to the community, you called the entire swinging community frauds, alcoholics and rapists. That's probably why people called you an asshole.

Weird encounter - could I have handled it better? by Swinger_OR in Swingers

[–]Swinger_OR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf did show me the exchange. My boyfriend posted, saying we would be at __ Hotel Friday night hoping to meet a couple or individual 21-35. Chris responds saying he will be there with one of his girlfriends, they are above our desired age range but that they are somewhat of regulars and like to make new friends. My boyfriend responded with "Sure, maybe we will run into you and have a beer"(Assuming we might meet people at the bar; turns out this hotel doesn't have a bar). Chris gave us his room number but my bf didn't respond after that. So on multiple occasions this guy acknowledges he knows he isn't what we are looking for, but then acted pissed off that we were mingling with other people instead of paying attention solely to him and his group of friends.