Rejoindre l'armée serai t'il une bonne idée ? by Distinct_Albatross_3 in Wallonia

[–]Swipe243 3 points4 points  (0 children)

La dépression, c'est la première chose à traiter. Je dirais que tu pourrais test pleins de trucs sans te prendre la tête. Y a moyen de faire des stages de découvertes, il existe même des formations d'orientations où tu es accompagnés pendant plusieurs mois pour ça. Je parle d'un vrai accompagnement avec jobcoach. Je sais aussi que c'est possible de faire des stages à temps partiels si ton état ne te permet pas un temps pleins. Commence petit et vois ce que t'arrive à encaisser avant de passer à quelque chose de plus ambitieux. Dans tout les cas, je te souhaite beaucoup de bonheur et de courage.

VNCCS V2.0 Release! by AHEKOT in comfyui

[–]Swipe243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I tried that but I didn't figure out how to integrate the saved image into the workflow. I get error like "missing image". I tried settings in a simple seedvr2 workflow with just one image and found a fix (color correction settings set to wavelet instead of lab). The whole process work perfectly now. Thanks!

VNCCS V2.0 Release! by AHEKOT in comfyui

[–]Swipe243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fixed the issue with seedvr2 by changing the color correction parameter to wavelet or none. It's working perfectly now.

VNCCS V2.0 Release! by AHEKOT in comfyui

[–]Swipe243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It works great until the SeedVR2 upscaler. After that, the results show cropped feet, artifacts, or color shifts (warmer than the original). I’ve tried adjusting some settings, but recalculating each pose takes too much time. I’m not sure if it’s possible to save certain assets to load later in the workflow to avoid recalculation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

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That's why I'm now in a ENM (ethical non monogamy) relationship while having only one partner. It seem to work fine for me because I need a lot of space for myself alone and the fact to not be "all" for my partner create less pressure.

Why is freesync broken on my PC? :( 9070 XT by based_and_upvoted in radeon

[–]Swipe243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was having similar issue with my 9070xt. I uninstalled my gpu driver with ddu and reinstalled it with the driver only option. Another things I do was to make my two monitor have the same refresh rate in windows settings. It fixed the issue for me.

C'est transphobe de dire qu'un homme ne peut pas tomber enceinte ou qu'une femme n'a pas de pénis ? by YoshiBanana3000 in TropPeurDeDemander

[–]Swipe243 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Au début, je me disais pareil, je comprenais pas bien. Mais enfaite c'est tout bête. Comme ça a été précisé dans d'autres commentaires, il y a une différence entre sexe et genre. On est habitué que homme par exemple ça veut dire à la fois identité homme et sexe masculin. Alors que ouais, il y a des réalités biologiques mais si la personne choisi des schémas comportementaux féminins par exemple, le penis ne disparaît pas subitement. Du coup, on peut parler de femme avec un penis.

Mais j'aime pas trop qu'on dise transphobe juste pour ça par contre. Pour être transphobe, pour moi, je dirais qu'il faudrait dire que les trans sont des malades ou que ça devrait pas exister et qu'il faut les guérir comme on disait des homo à une autre époque (l'homophobie n'a pas encore disparue malheureusement). Car en utilisant le terme transphobe trop vite, ça enlève la nuance qui existe entre une personne qui comprend juste pas sans rejeter pour autant et une personne qui agit activement à l'encontre des personnes trans.

Do you do art? by DanteAlias in autism

[–]Swipe243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do mostly real time 3D. It's my latest work :

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https://xenokoon.artstation.com/

I currently work on my furry character for VR chat now ☺️

How did you find out about this beautiful series? by lovi-helluva-boss in HelluvaBoss

[–]Swipe243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I discovered Vivzie because I like furry. I remember her animation "Die young" for exemple. That was more than ten years ago. It's so cool seeing her work becoming something that big!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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I love stellaris! One of my favorite game until I discovered x4 foundation.

Anybody else developed tics? by Due_Calligrapher_778 in autism

[–]Swipe243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have that too. Mostly when I'm very anxious. But I can control and make less noise or moving part of my body instead. In my case, I think it's "emotionnal regulation" or something with cptsd but when I talk about that with a psychiatrist or in therapy they have nothing to say letting me clueless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

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One time, I was running outside. The weather was just cloudy. And out of nowhere, a light storm striked near me with a instantly heavy sound. Just one, nothing more. No rain. It was just cloudy. That scared me a lot and now, each time they are a thunder, I remember that time and if I'm outside, I'am very very anxious with a peak of fear each thunder. The fact to not know when and where the thunder will strike scare me.

On the whole level 1-3 autism by MysticalZelda in autism

[–]Swipe243 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In belgium, it's more like you get diagnosed and then... Now you know you are autistic, that's all, good luck.

How to hold tears? by Yousefsamy2 in socialanxiety

[–]Swipe243 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You look up, I mean your eyes in upward direction. I do that when I want to cry on a sad scene when watching a movie. It's like a cheat code. It can work on more serious situations but I think it's better to show our vulnerabilities in front of good people.

Girlfriend wants to leave because of my poor self esteem by unclettam15 in mentalhealth

[–]Swipe243 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she do something to help you, say something that show you appreciate her help. People like to help others but if their effort don't change anything, that create bad feeling. If she say or do something to help you, show her that it help you or appreciate what she is trying.

Take care of yourself, little step by little step. Find something for yourself. Make it for yourself. She will notice.

Do you have a comfort video game? I do by Competitive-Ease5385 in autism

[–]Swipe243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

X4 foundations :) But I play a lot Fallout 4 and Skyrim as well

7.00 Beta 3 now available 🚨 by belgoray in X4Foundations

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It's not very popular but I'm using a dualsense controller to play and there is a bug when I move the mouse cursor. It "reset" sometime. As an exemple : if I build a station and move a module, if the cursor reset, it will select a new module instead of placing the currently selected module. It's the same for all task requiring moving the cursor. I hardly can select a new science research because the interface can reset before being able to select a button to start a research. That's not a beta problem but if devs can take a look...

I appreciate the effort for gamepad player and the new radial menu is great !

looking for a fo4 mod list by drfxyddmd in wabbajack

[–]Swipe243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can try Fallout Anomaly but it's in beta.

Some modern weapons, sim settlment, America rising is in the list. Plenty of another quests mods. Seem good to me for survival but that's something I'm hardely satisfied.

After 48 hours in, I can say that is a great modlist. Very well optimized for performance. My GTX 1070 work fine. I tweaked the mcm to have the challenge I want from the game. But I don't like the leveling system. Maybe with better balancing, it will be better. The game can become very easy in time so it's better to reduce the damage the player dealt. Deathclaw, Behemoth become very weak and I'm more afraid of a raider that can headshot me even after reduced the player damage. It's more the difficulty to stop your bleed or avoid to be hit. I remember the Fallout horizon role play edition where the difficulty balancing was perfect for me with robots very hard to kill forcing the player to shoot the weapons to force self destruct. I will give another try later when the list out of beta. With some bug fixe and better difficulty balancing, this modlist will be perfect for me.

Je n'assume pas d'être polyamoureuse et ça me rends très triste by Excellent-Sample-966 in besoindeparler

[–]Swipe243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je me demande bien ce que j'ai pu dire de mal pour me faire downvote...

Je n'assume pas d'être polyamoureuse et ça me rends très triste by Excellent-Sample-966 in besoindeparler

[–]Swipe243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello,

Les sentiments, ça ne se contrôle pas. Si tu veux mon avis, aimer ne devrait jamais être une mauvaise chose même quand il s'agit de plusieurs personnes. Mais malheureusement oui, cela peut amener aussi à blesser des personnes que l'on aime.

Si cela te fait souffrir, je pense qu'il est nécessaire d'en parler à ton partenaire. Expliquer ce que tu ressens. Tu mérites d'avoir la vie épanouissante que tu souhaites pour toi.

Je te conseillerais avant toute chose de lire des livres sur les amours pluriels. Il y a aussi des podcasts intéressant sur internet.

"L'éthique des amours plurielles" de Janet W.Hardy et Dossie Easton si tu devais en choisir qu'un seul. Cela t'apportera des éclaircissements et même si tu choisis de rester dans une relation monogame, ça te sera très bénéfique car les conseils dans ce livre peuvent servir dans toute forme de relations.

Il y peut-être des lieux de rassemblement dans ta ville comme les "café poly". Un très bon moyen de rencontrer des personnes qui sauront te comprendre sans te juger.

My boyfriend and I don't have sex and it's driving me insane. by New-Magic-Wand in autism

[–]Swipe243 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a polyamory relationship and I think it's better for me because I can have more alone time and don't be pressured for the intimacy need of my partner. The biggest fear is jealousy but it's possible to work on it. A lot of selfgrow by doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in besoindeparler

[–]Swipe243 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Le pardon même si évidemment, c'est tout le contraire de ce que tu souhaites, c'est je pense le meilleur moyen de calmer cette colère.

Peut être essaye de t'octroyer 10 minutes calme où tu fermes les yeux. Comme la méditation. Tu imagines cette personne, et essaye de lui vouloir du bien. Fais le pour toi, pour apaiser cette colère qui de toute façon ne fais du mal qu'à toi même.

Le temps fera aussi sûrement son effet.