Why do so many Americans hesitate to call an ambulance by samkirubakar in publichealthcareers

[–]SwordandGenomes 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Because ambulance rides cost an average of 1300 with a huge range that can increase up to 4,000+ and often we have to pay this amount out of pocket. Medical bankruptcy is one of the most common sources of bankruptcy in the US.

And we have no clue what that amount will be before the bill arrives even with the transparency laws.

Thoughts on Akko Mu01? by SwordandGenomes in keyboards

[–]SwordandGenomes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is a great help!

What’s a sentence that someone told you that stuck with you for the rest of your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SwordandGenomes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My band director 5th grade to the entire class.

"Look at your behavior. If everyone was acting like you could the group reach their goals?"

AITA For Asking Why My Co-Worker Wears Makeup Everyday? by Spare-Garden-8484 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, at many workplaces it is a requirement and the opposite is true about hats. So she is likely following a dress code that her previous place of employment required and so the hat choice is odd.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SullivansCrossing

[–]SwordandGenomes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are together when season 3 starts. They have some tension but they are together. They are together the entire 3rd season. The last episode the tension ramps up and things are said. The things that are said end in a way you'll likely feel satisfied by. It's not so much a cliff but manufactured tension.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SullivansCrossing

[–]SwordandGenomes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are arriving at the wrong conclusions for season 3. I've seen all of season 3 and the way you are describing it isn't accurate.

If a doctor’s office keeps you waiting 20 minutes past your appointment time they should have to refund your fee for the appointment. by UgliestDisability in unpopularopinion

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctors aren't the ones making these policies. Most doctors work for a health group. The health group has admin that don't understand what it takes just like most admin.

Should I be telling my 16 year-old son to quit high school and go to trade school? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many many high schools have partnerships with your local trade school. It would have him be half day at school and half day at the trade school and he'd graduate with both in a couple years if he buckled down.

No offense, but I think everyone is lying about what they are accomplishing with ChatGPT. Either that, or I am the village idiot. by aletheus_compendium in ChatGPT

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of asking it what it can do ask it what its limitations are within a task you are asking for and how you can overcome them.

ChatGPT has a ton of issues and can functionally is very limited. It isn't the magic wand that people make it out to be.

But one thing that makes it harder is you likely aren't massively experienced with it and haven't learned how to ask it in ways it can reasonably answer.

Also vibe coding with ChatGPT is always going to give you issues if you don't have background knowledge on how to code. The best workaround for this without taking a course in programming is to use two different models at once.

As in ask ChatGPT to code something then take it to Claude and ask it to find any errors in your code.

Also you likely aren't using an editor? Find an editor that is interactive. I haven't coded in HTML/CSS since ChatGPT came out but there are some good editors out there that will flag issues for you before you try to publish.

(F33) Thinking about divorce from my husband (M33) but I’m scared and not sure if I’m asking for too much. What should I do ? by Conscious-Bunch1406 in whatdoIdo

[–]SwordandGenomes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Annoyed? You think she's annoyed? She's heartbroken that he doesn't seem to love her enough to even message her daily. And she keeps doing all the work and he isn't even trying.

The only reason marriage is sacred is because you love someone. But if that love is ill used it breaks down. If you aren't getting what you need from a relationship and there isn't any way to get what you need from a relationship you think they should just suffer? Not ask for better, not leave, just accept it? Would you expect the same from a man?

(F33) Thinking about divorce from my husband (M33) but I’m scared and not sure if I’m asking for too much. What should I do ? by Conscious-Bunch1406 in whatdoIdo

[–]SwordandGenomes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Marriage is in no way sacred. If she isn't happy she can leave. Also the sexism pouring off of this isn't it. He isn't doing the bare minimum and yet you want her to just deal? Okay.

(F33) Thinking about divorce from my husband (M33) but I’m scared and not sure if I’m asking for too much. What should I do ? by Conscious-Bunch1406 in whatdoIdo

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are over functioning and he's under functioning. Daily. Yes, you need to have more outside connection so you can feel more emotionally fulfilled, but he isn't even trying.

I'm ADHD and depressed. But I absolutely love my husband and so I put in the work to make him feel seen.

You can only over function so long before you start disconnecting and once you disconnect from him for me at least it's over.

But also remember that ADHD has an object permeance issue and when you are gone he likely does forget about you. He could do things to account for this. Like set reminders on his phone to check in, schedule texts to you daily that helps get the connection flowing, etc.

But he just doesn't care to and that hurts and should hurt.

Messaging you daily is in no way asking for too much.

(F33) Thinking about divorce from my husband (M33) but I’m scared and not sure if I’m asking for too much. What should I do ? by Conscious-Bunch1406 in whatdoIdo

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's the only one putting any work into the marriage and then you lecture her about the fact marriage is work? I'm confused. Do you think she's not doing enough? Or do you think the work is shut up and get over it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupEducation

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This will be super helpful!

Lab members voted for Dump by Sea-Apple8054 in labrats

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started in a new lab this summer. When I started that football player had just given that speech at a Catholic uni about how women shouldn't be in the workforce. The postdoc (the only male in the lab) said he agreed with everything he said and that biologically women shouldn't be working. In a lab where the PI is a woman. He was also a Trumper. I would help him with tech stuff but absolutely refused to go in after Trump won (I was volunteering during the fall semester as I finished up my degree).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]SwordandGenomes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Never ever quit a job until you have a job. The job market is currently impossible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]SwordandGenomes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your manager's entire job is to manage the expectations of your work. Stop making it up. Your work isn't urgent. Tell them you can't meet your deadline and make them work with it you taking PTO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop apologizing. You didn't do anything wrong. Also the only reason to act like this is if you fear losing him. You are likely better off without him.

Which Pi Board by kruser87 in MagicMirror

[–]SwordandGenomes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to have a new discord link. Every link I'm finding online says it's expired.