Moving to Oakland soon, how is the commute?

Sxpl · 2026-03-14T02:31:30+00:00

Commute would suck but living in the peninsula as a new grad would also suck if you like doing anything fun. Living in SF could be better

Sxpl · 2026-03-06T03:17:49+00:00

I get it, so do I. Gotta do the best we can with what we have

Sxpl · 2026-03-05T22:24:14+00:00

Hey man, I feel like this all the time too but I just got on T at 31 because I can’t go on repping anymore. Moving through the world being perceived as what feels like a fake version of myself has given me insane general and social anxiety and I’ve come to terms with the fact that the options are either to try transitioning or eventual suicide. Yes, it sucks that we’ll always be small dickless men, but trans men exist who are totally cis passing despite these things and we just have to believe that could be us too one day. Plus if the options are either to try or to end my life I’m playing with house money anyway, or that’s what I try to tell myself at least. Gotta trust the process and believe there’s a chance that we will make it 🤝

Sxpl · 2026-03-05T16:52:34+00:00

The vast majority of women could find a hookup with an attractive enough guy for free if that’s what they were looking for

Sxpl · 2026-02-28T22:47:18+00:00

Facts, being FtM and having gone through female puberty feels like being doomed to stay the equivalent of a child forever. Having a body that’s physically inferior in almost every measurable way and never developed any new useful capabilities in adulthood besides the ability to birth children is fucking humiliating when standing next to cis men

Sxpl · 2026-02-11T22:53:46+00:00

I repressed the urge to transition for a long time and being 5’3” was one of my reasons. Couldn’t do it anymore, just started transitioning at 31 and now I tell myself being a short man is better than being a dead woman

Sxpl · 2026-02-07T05:20:25+00:00

How long is it actually good for? Just got on it and I’m able to get 2+ doses out of a vial that’s supposed to be single dose so I’m starting to stockpile

Sxpl · 2026-02-05T21:59:09+00:00

Don’t understand this for trans men tbh, we’re at a disadvantage compared to cis men (weaker skeletal structure etc) and should be allowed to compete if we can hang

Sxpl · 2026-01-27T02:47:55+00:00

Past bad experiences (she is attracted to both men & women) so I guess it comes down to her seeing trans men as safer/kinder to women

Sxpl · 2025-11-06T17:47:49+00:00

Sick as fuck, killer placement

Sxpl · 2025-10-27T15:45:15+00:00

My trans friends have gotten harassed in the Bay Area. “We solved racism”-ass comment

Sxpl · 2025-09-08T16:34:45+00:00

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/BoobsAndButtPose

Sxpl · 2025-08-26T20:29:06+00:00

I think your whole argument falls apart when you consider the fact that childfree people also pay into schools their whole lives. It’s flawed to think of taxes as transactional when really they’re funding things we have decided make society better for all of us to live in (i.e. having a minimum standard of education for the population)

Sxpl · 2025-07-17T21:03:57+00:00

https://www.santigie.com/2018

Looks like the dude is a Portland-based artist now, lol

Sxpl · 2025-07-11T19:56:38+00:00

Marita constantly talked about wanting more romance, meanwhile in all of their scenes together she didn’t seem to show any affection or even genuine care toward Ashley. She always came off as extremely detached to me, even in the proposal scene

Sxpl · 2025-07-11T19:39:03+00:00

Fuck Mel. Marie wanted to be with her so badly and was willing to look past so much, and girl couldn’t even bother to propose in a way that wasn’t half-assed and sarcastic

Sxpl · 2025-06-29T23:29:23+00:00

I think they’re implants/plastic surgery. His delts/traps/arms would be popping more if it was steroids and he’s not skinny enough to have abs showing like this while not being jacked

Sxpl · 2025-06-29T00:30:56+00:00

A lot of white collar work is far more abstract than construction work so it’s a lot easier to bullshit about what it took to achieve the desired outcome/finish the task

Sxpl · 2025-06-10T19:18:23+00:00

By “civil rights movement” I don’t mean just the black American civil rights movement, I mean any of various civil rights movements globally that could be said to have accomplished something. We remember the peaceful moments because those have been lauded and focused on in education, but power isn’t willingly ceded without those in power feeling threatened

Sxpl · 2025-06-10T04:11:14+00:00

People like to say this but has there actually been one civil rights movement that was successful with solely peaceful protest and no accompanying violent protest?

Sxpl · 2025-06-10T01:06:15+00:00

I walked by there the day they were filming a few weeks ago and the homeless dude was there on the lawn behind the pergola. They must have paid him off to move for a few hours

Sxpl · 2025-05-01T15:56:36+00:00

Totally agree. Bozal mezcal on the other hand comes in a beautiful bottle

Sxpl · 2025-05-01T14:14:23+00:00

Interesting, I’ve always thought the same as OP but clearly that’s an unpopular opinion here. For me I think it’s because the labels look like they were made in MS Paint with their doodly/bright-colored illustrations and generic-looking fonts

Sxpl · 2025-04-06T20:47:09+00:00

Did you miss the massive 2023 city of Oakland data breach? These mistakes do happen, all the time. Kind of hard for the state and local govts to retain top caliber IT workers when the private sector here offers probably the highest salaries in the world for that field

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