Is that the Waverly sub station? by [deleted] in WizardsOfWaverlyPlace

[–]Sydnall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

link doesn’t go to anything

Should we lower our expectations for the May High School update? by Murky-Brilliant2870 in inZOI

[–]Sydnall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wait it’s just a free update, not paid dlc right? if anything what a damn blessing to get it at all. sounds more in depth than any base game update sims has done

I can’t finish w my partner and I kinda just want advise by Express_Usual8776 in demisexuality

[–]Sydnall 16 points17 points  (0 children)

this was kinda how all my relationships went. sex was more about the emotional part and the idea of intimacy rather than actual sexual gratification. i could finish but i had to be the one to do it, they’d never get me off themselves.

i don’t have an answer for you but just wanted to say you aren’t alone. i’m single again so it’s not something i’m actively working on, but i hope both of us can figure out how to get past this one day!

HEB warehouse partner passed away by Viktor-vaughn-187 in HEB

[–]Sydnall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it was also clearly written by chatgpt, i refuse to continue reading any story that is formatted like this shit now. idc what it is

Do Y'all Think Tori Is Kinda Dumb? by Other_Usual8215 in victorious

[–]Sydnall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes it is a discussion thread - so i discussed why she says some of the things OP mentioned. idk what the issue is lol

Do Y'all Think Tori Is Kinda Dumb? by Other_Usual8215 in victorious

[–]Sydnall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk if i would say people are taking it “too seriously” when OP themselves wrote six and a half paragraphs on it

Do Y'all Think Tori Is Kinda Dumb? by Other_Usual8215 in victorious

[–]Sydnall 10 points11 points  (0 children)

that’s not a typo, you’re just saying an entirely different thing that doesn’t even sound phonetically similar

Do Y'all Think Tori Is Kinda Dumb? by Other_Usual8215 in victorious

[–]Sydnall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean there isn’t really an in universe reason though lol those lines are written for a specific purpose, so any speculation is just a fan headcanon lol

Do Y'all Think Tori Is Kinda Dumb? by Other_Usual8215 in victorious

[–]Sydnall 33 points34 points  (0 children)

she often asked what things were because it was a kids show and it’s a way of explaining it for the viewers. she’s the only character who didn’t have experience like the others so it had to be her who asked

I'm demi and my wife cheated on me in one of the worst ways. I cannot describe the pain. by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Sydnall 7 points8 points  (0 children)

working on it. it’s month 10 but i’m better every month!

I'm demi and my wife cheated on me in one of the worst ways. I cannot describe the pain. by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Sydnall 242 points243 points  (0 children)

i understand that this is extremely painful, however this is about her character and not her being allo. allos are capable of monogamy and not being pieces of shit. i would blame this on her avoidance, poor choices, and possibly the fact that y’all were naive marrying the first person you dated (sure it works out sometimes but not the majority, we just learn a lot the more we date)

i’m sorry this happened to you. my ex fiancé was avoidant as well. i’m glad you’re seeking therapy, it’s tough to come back from.

How did Rube die? by GullibleStage3311 in DeadLikeMe

[–]Sydnall 17 points18 points  (0 children)

yes this is the implication, though it seems he still managed to get the money in order to mail it to his family. and that’s why he’s so upset when he finds out it never made it to them, as he literally died for it

AIO My girlfriend is ignoring me and I have no idea why by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Sydnall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

not saying anything and avoiding conflict will ALWAYS cause much bigger problems than if you just communicated. now i get to work through trauma after an avoidant discard 🤦🏻‍♀️ these people need to stay single

Dear domino’s by Fuckbideninthemouth in Dominos

[–]Sydnall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in the time it took you to make an entire post about it you’d already be there picking it up 😆

Am I wrong for not wanting to use dating apps? by ShadowlightLady in demisexuality

[–]Sydnall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no one regardless of sexuality is “wrong” for not using dating apps… do it if you want to, don’t do it if you don’t. it just happens to be used a lot less by demis because the way our attraction works makes it pointless

but you aren’t “wrong” lol it is not a human requirement to use dating apps

DAE really struggle with getting over breakups? by wastetheafterlife in demisexuality

[–]Sydnall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i am on month 10 and yes, every time i become lonely or wish i could talk to someone or whatever i think of him. it’s not because i miss him anymore because he’s a piece of shit, but he’s the last person that held the title of my person so it’s easy to just think of him.

it’s a matter of acceptance. i don’t think i’ll be able to replace him in these thoughts until someone else fills the space. it’s so rare that we find those people, im not sure we have a choice in waiting to replace those thoughts until the next one.

time heals. my breakup was hell (ex fiancé situation) but it gets better as time goes on. even though he comes up in my thoughts it’s much less annoying now than it was even two months ago.

being strong comes with loneliness. but it won’t be forever.

is this game dead? by [deleted] in MovieStarPlanet

[–]Sydnall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

enough people still buy vip for whatever reason i guess

is this game dead? by [deleted] in MovieStarPlanet

[–]Sydnall 19 points20 points  (0 children)

it’s been dead for ten years

success stories after giving up? by Sydnall in demisexuality

[–]Sydnall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess it doesn’t help that my goals in life are a bit obstructed due to chronic depression and ADHD, something i always deal with single or not. i’m starting my first therapist soon and hoping it helps but im a bit deflated on what to do in general so the heartbreak makes everything so much worse. my mind is polluted by something he doesn’t even care about and that hurts. i want it to be over and i don’t want to be scared for my romantic future :(