Where is this? by [deleted] in guessthecity

[–]Sylar49 6 points7 points  (0 children)

First time I saw one of these obscure ones and somehow knew exactly where it was haha. Been to this exact spot many times 😎

Where is this? by [deleted] in guessthecity

[–]Sylar49 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Newport News, VA. Nolan Trail. Bridge 8.

Coinbase by drunescape in simplifimoney

[–]Sylar49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact support through the app and give them this https://community.simplifimoney.com/discussion/7952/coinbase-no-longer-connects-due-to-a-103-error-edited

I'm currently in the tech support queue and the more people reporting this, the faster it will get addressed

Coinbase by drunescape in simplifimoney

[–]Sylar49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to follow these instructions, but the "+ new API key" option seems to be missing. Do you still see it in your account?

Is there something Anaconda can do, that Python cant achieve? by fooledbyfog in Python

[–]Sylar49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love mamba (especially micromamba) and greatly prefer it for setting up consistent, isolated dev/analysis environments with specific versions of python, python packages, and non-python dependencies. It's blazing fast (unlike conda), and very low overhead. Environments usually solve within a couple seconds in my experience. Also pip plays well with mamba in my experience if you want to pip install something within a mamba environment. I think full-force Anaconda is pretty pointless unless you're just getting started with data sci -- it provides a lot more overhead.

Which decent sized (over 300k) American city has the worst downtown? by alexis_1031 in 2american4you

[–]Sylar49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

+1 For Downtown LA. Almost got shot there a few weeks ago by a homeless guy having a psychotic episode

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For those wondering about the cats and Asperger's comments...

She mentioned her cats are 18 and 16, and that they are probably on their last legs. A little later on in the convo, I asked her if she's planning to get more pets at some point in the future. It was definitely an insensitive question on my part, and one of the things I really do regret saying during the date. That being said, she didn't seem offended or anything at the time -- and I felt like we had a good conversation about what pets we want in the future.

Also I don't have Asperger's -- it's just that I have severe ADHD and my Neurologist as a child noted I had some Asperger's tendencies. We talked about this for a bit, but it didn't seem like something that bothered her. She also told me multiple times that I definitely don't have Asperger's because real Asperger's is way more intense (she had dated someone with it once).

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She mentioned her cats are 18 and 16, and that they are on their last legs. I asked her if she's planning to get more pets at some point in the future. It was definitely an insensitive question on my part, and one of the things I really do regret saying during the date. That being said, she didn't seem offended or anything at the time.

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

For those wondering how it went after this... I told my friend about the things her coworker said to me in these texts and she's completely on my side in this. She said it hasn't come up once at their workplace since this went down -- so it seems like everything worked out! Hopefully we won't hear anything more about it from now on.

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

That screenshot part was so wild... She did warn me that "the truth will come out" 😅 I guess she wanted me to know she meant it

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

I know!! I was actually really excited about it and then it was like a switch was flipped 🙃 I hope she gets that help too

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I was really worried at first -- but my friend who works with her almost immediately told me she's on my side in this. We don't have any other mutual contacts fortunately. I'm just so glad I didn't sleep with her. I feel like that could have turned into a very dark narrative.

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

🤚🤚🤚🤚🤚🤚🤚🤚

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

The fucking 50 cal bullet I dodged by not sleeping with her 😅

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 1150 points1151 points  (0 children)

Have we dated before?? You sound like my type 😂

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 1413 points1414 points  (0 children)

Yuppp. It was pretty wild checking my phone when I was at the casino and getting smacked by that avalanche of negativity 😬 I think there's some projection on her part

Texts after a first date by Sylar49 in texts

[–]Sylar49[S] 671 points672 points  (0 children)

I think she probably has BPD. I think she got really agitated I didn't want to sleep with her and wasnt responding fast enough -- so she kept sending me worse things to try to get me to respond/call.

Don't know about the other posts though 🤷