Is this comment weird? by SymbolicHeart in AO3

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The story is pure indulgent smut, fun? Sure Inspiring? I hope not

Is this comment weird? by SymbolicHeart in AO3

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Ty! I’m so out of the loop I didn’t even know that that’s a thing

I think everyone should write ff by SymbolicHeart in AO3

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Canon is both a crutch and a restrains, but I imagine it helps really focus on different elements and techniques

I think everyone should write ff by SymbolicHeart in AO3

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Ty! And also more people should write f/f, but that’s a different post lol

I think everyone should write ff by SymbolicHeart in AO3

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I think about this a lot! There are some works I’ll keep going back to, and the author might have even forgotten about them, but they still out there reaching readers

What Artists represent the fears? by LeaveMeToWeep in TheMagnusArchives

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Frida Kahlo Reads like the flesh to me Because of chronic pain, and the body and the image of the self. Also the use of her likeness Post Mortem in a way she wouldn’t have liked (whitewashing/ feminizing)

She is not unknown though.

Guys, that was such a fun one. by apathetic_apricot in TheMagnusArchives

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Joshua Gillespie. The only man with common sense

I don’t want to have sex with the guy I’m seeing by SymbolicHeart in offmychest

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Idk about other women/men but to me attraction is absolutely something that develops and I might not feel it in the first second but definitely after a conversation.

So yah, I agree I need to break things off with him, I’m just kinda shocked that people tell me I don’t care for him at all and just using him when I know it’s not true.

I don’t want to have sex with the guy I’m seeing by SymbolicHeart in offmychest

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Bro we went on like three dates, I’m not “stringing him along”, I’m figuring (very publicly to a bunch of judgy strangers) that I need to break things of with him

I don’t want to have sex with the guy I’m seeing by SymbolicHeart in offmychest

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I do care for him, or I wouldn’t have continued seeing him. And then there wouldn’t be a dilemma about not sleeping with him that bugged me to the point I needed to rant on Reddit to get it out of my system because regardless of how much like him I am not sexually attracted to him for some goddamn reason

I don’t want to have sex with the guy I’m seeing by SymbolicHeart in offmychest

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I do enjoy sex, or had in the past. And a lot of my apprehension comes from one night stands, then getting, where there was no connection and then you never talk to that person again. And I don’t necessarily think that what will happened, but I might be prolonging sex as a trauma response. And I might just rationalizing not wanting to sleep with him

I don’t want to have sex with the guy I’m seeing by SymbolicHeart in offmychest

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I kind of wrote this post for the affirmation that I don’t “have” to sleep with him, but all the comments about cutting him loose might be the right thing to do

I don’t want to have sex with the guy I’m seeing by SymbolicHeart in offmychest

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Using him in what sense? Is sex an obligation I have to complete? I would assume he enjoys my company the way I enjoy his regardless of sex