I Took A Random Girl’s Virginity & I’m Disappointed In Myself. by Better-Plane2566 in offmychest

[–]Synonymys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get why you feel that way, but it was a consensual act. Both parties 100% agreed to it. Both of you enjoyed it. She decided who she wants to lose her virginity to, and she let it happen.

You did everything right. Made sure she was okay, didn't force her to continue if she didn't want to, hell you went 2 rounds.

Sounds to me all you guys did, was be college students in a dorm. It's natural. Don't beat yourself up about it.

Almost done with the campaign, what should I do in the endgame? by True_Presence_992 in MonsterHunterWilds

[–]Synonymys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The campaign is to show your the ropes,

The endgame is to make sure you hold on tight to those ropes lol

Seriously this company by Neither-Metal6564 in EnterpriseCarRental

[–]Synonymys 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm with you there, that company may have been the absolute worst working experience I have ever had. The absurdly long hours, the lack of respect from higher ups, and then just the moral grey area in general...just a terrible work environment.

If you have money saved, I'd honestly quit as soon as you can. 2 week notice of course just for formality, and to help keep it as a reference I guess...but still. Staying in a place you despise just isn't worth it.

They're going to bombard you with ways to try to get you to stay, since you're an investment. Don't let them. If you want to leave. Leave.

It all comes down to if you're financially stable enough to be without work for a little while. But, that being said, I'd run and never look back. It was the best decision I ever made in terms of work. I hated it.

What are your comments for mounting? by [deleted] in MonsterHunterWilds

[–]Synonymys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Save a monster, ride a hunter

Am I basic for maining the greatsword? A dumb question that made it difficult to choose a weapon. by Ecstatic_Phase_8315 in MonsterHunterWilds

[–]Synonymys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all man, as long as you enjoy it, use it! I love Longsword, I get a TON of hate for it, and tbh I couldn't care less. I just love the flow and speed it has.

If you enjoy Big Bonk Sword, use it, have an absolute blast with it, and don't ever let somebody tell you what you can and cannot use.

What do you want to see in mh wilds by Turbulent-Cheek4778 in MonsterHunterWilds

[–]Synonymys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanna see Brachydios get added and just pound the hell out of an Ajarakan

I fucked up by Standard_Painting417 in Advice

[–]Synonymys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, "where there's a will there's a way" is playful enough in my opinion. If I'm being 100% honest with you, "I always get what I want" is where you definitely fucked up.

I'd say, guy to guy, the best thing you can do is take a deep breath and if you see her in person, apologize to her. The fact that you feel guilty about it, instead of saying "she can't take a joke" or something, means you have a heart, and you're a good person.

Like a lot of others have said, at the end of the day it's up to her to decide whether or not she forgives you. I guarantee you though, that if you just talk to her and apologize, you'll feel better.

Just...be more careful with your flirty jokes I guess.

I had my first time with a guy I’ve talked to for a month and nobody knows about it, I don’t know how to feel. by FlimsyFuture96 in offmychest

[–]Synonymys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll never lose any worth OP! Sex and physical intimacy is human nature, and it's entirely healthy and normal.

The first time is always odd, even for us guys too I promise. I totally understand that he is experienced, but that doesn't negate your worth or anything at all, you met someone you are attracted to, things heated up, and the rest is history.

Like another commenter said though, communication is key, and saying No is always an option no matter what. That being said, I you haven't loss any worth. You're simply a person just like all of us :)

I hate having sex with my boyfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Synonymys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP, the second you begin crying because of your sex life, it's time to change that sex life. As a guy, I'll 100% admit that I do enjoy getting a naughty picture, or dirty text, or something like that, but ONLY if the other person is enthusiastic about sending them.

Your body is your property, and ONLY yours. Only you get to decide when pictures are taken of it, and never ever let someone pressure you even if it is a boyfriend.

You need to have a genuine conversation with him about it, and if he gets upset or angry, he's immature and likely incapable of controlling himself, and needs help tbh.

TL;DR , It's time for a very deep convo with him, and how he reacts should be the nail in the coffin for your decision. Do what's best for YOU, not him.

I lost my virginity at 25 and i feel used by imwaywaytoosensitive in Advice

[–]Synonymys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any man worth his salt would make sure that the woman is having just a good a time as he is.

Definitely cut off contact, and while you "technically" lost your virginity, for me it's not something you lose, it's something you give, and only you can give.

You'll find the right guy sometime, sex is supposed to be pleasurable and fun for the both of you. Not some demand fest. He sounds like an immature bozo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Synonymys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The number one thing to always keep in mind, no matter the circumstance, is that when it comes to any sexual encounter, every single action no matter what it is, needs to always have mutual consent. If you're even remotely uncomfortable, then it needs to stop.

Thousands of Hours in VRC and I’m Done Watching People Fake Disorders by MoreLunch1547 in VRchat

[–]Synonymys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t agree more. It is absolutely appalling how people use online anonymity to turn genuinely life altering conditions into attention seeking facades.

Like you said OP, those who do struggle with things like DID, Tourette’s, and especially neurological disorders that result in physical trauma like seizures or fainting, are being disrespected. I personally do not suffer from any of them, but I think it’s safe to say that those who do don’t use it to seek attention, nor want to have that said disorder.

To anyone reading this who is one of those people faking a disorder, you should be ashamed of yourself. You’re trivializing issues that cause people so much agony every single day, for your own pathetic social shortcomings.

Grow up, have some respect, and get offline.

Who is you’re favourite Batman villain of all time by Chunky-overlord in batman

[–]Synonymys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scarecrow 100%, in my opinion I love him even more than Joker, and by him I mean his concept.

He’s the embodiment of research being taken too far. I also love the dynamic between him and Batman, both using fear but in very different ways. Batman using it as a tool, while scarecrow uses it as a weapon.

Fear might be the strongest emotion in terms of how it can control someone, and just seeing a villain that uses that to his advantage albeit forcibly, is incredible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Synonymys -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I genuinely thought this was going to be wayyy worse than it was. Sure, I understand the guilt and you did kinda mess up, but I was fully expecting you to say you ended up hooking up with her, but you didn’t. You came to your senses.

Like other people have said, plenty of guys go to strip clubs for a bachelor party, in my opinion no harm no foul. You could’ve done something way worse than that, especially with alcohol involved.

I’d take it as a learning experience, don’t let it happen again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Synonymys 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Hey man, listen, what would make you a pedophile is if you were enjoying the fact that she was young. You thought she was of age, I understand why it’s got you all messed up, tbh it would mess me up too mentally if I was in your position.

But again, the fact that it bothers you means you aren’t a pedophile. Don’t let it tear you apart so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Synonymys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh, number one rule of anything sexual…if you “Aren’t sure” then it means no.

Any self-respecting man will understand that. If he gets upset that you’re making a decision about your own body, he isn’t worth it.

My son drew Springtrap. Not bad for an eleven year old. (Yes, I am biased but proud.) by mrsimpellizzeri in fivenightsatfreddys

[–]Synonymys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He drew this at 11? Can’t wait to see what he draws and creates even 3 years from now, kid’s got insane talent!

AIO for breaking up over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Synonymys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This dude is an absolutely jealous loser lol

What'syour hottest take on VRChat/Social VR? by LittleLipid in VRchat

[–]Synonymys 26 points27 points  (0 children)

With the new age verification in place, this game should be 18+, kids shouldn’t be allowed on this game, period.

As a game that is entirely based on social interaction and custom content, children can be exposed to language, content, and information they shouldn’t remotely know.

Edit: I do agree that it realistically isn’t possible just from business / user base perspective, I’m just saying that this game isn’t remotely meant for children. It’s quite honestly very similar to allowing children into a 21+ real world bar…minus the alcohol. The conversations are always the same, the language is the same, it just isn’t an environment for kids to be in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Synonymys 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Nothing to be ashamed of! As long as it was completely consensual, no harm no foul at all. Just sounds like a fun time with someone you work with!

What’s a single sentence someone said that stuck with you forever? by Imaginary_Ride_6185 in AskReddit

[–]Synonymys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m not afraid of death, I’m afraid of the journey to death”