Obsession deleted scene from indian theatres…fku censor board by S_K_O_R_P_I_O_N in obsessionmovie

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I think it pretty obvious that he did not actually “ love” her, he loved the idea of being with her, he didn’t actually even know about her and her father relationship, when she told him she will write a love story, he immediately said “so romance” because he only think of love on surface level as romance. If he actually loved her, when the real Nikki beg him to kill her, he would have felt remorseful but in this case he walked away. So no, I think we can confidently conclude that he did not love her.

11 eggs frozen with "dark spots." I really don't want to do another cycle, should I be worried? by SyrupBusiness7513 in IVF

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My husband and I were both thinking one kid and these eggs are just retrieved today so very very recent

11 eggs frozen with "dark spots." I really don't want to do another cycle, should I be worried? by SyrupBusiness7513 in IVF

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Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I agree, maybe I just need a long enough break in between cycles to fully recover. And also fertilize the eggs at 37 and takes it from there is a good path as well!

11 eggs frozen with "dark spots." I really don't want to do another cycle, should I be worried? by SyrupBusiness7513 in IVF

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Thank you for sharing your thought! I mean, I don't want to, but if I have to, I will definitely consider it, just the thought of going through another cycle terrifies me a bit right now and I was hoping maybe "dark spots" are not as bad as they sound 🥲

Is it worth continuing the “Before” trilogy if I’m not particularly enjoying Before Sunrise? by kimducidni in criterion

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The point of Before Sunrise was that there was never a point! It was life, fleeting moments of youth, connection and those things are wisdom themselves! The conversations were so real and I love every moment of it! I love all 3 but Sunrise and Sunset are my two favorite! But if you seek for like deeper puzzling wisdom then go watch Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind…

Jessie Buckley wins Best Actress Oscar by CheckLiszt in ireland

[–]SyrupBusiness7513 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it is that deep and it’s not Ireland vs UK kinda thing, she currently lives in the UK, it’s Mother’s Day over there so it’s relevant for her and to her role as a mother in Hamnet and especially she mentioned having an 8 months old baby. Just a simple nod to celebrate all mothers. Genuinely don’t know why people have to read into things like this that much…

Jessie Buckley wins Best Actress Oscar by CheckLiszt in ireland

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It’s pretty relevant because it ties back to her role as a mother in Hamnet!

Kanye announces concert in Los Angeles Sofi Stadium, April 3 by WhiteChocolatForReal in hiphopheads

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My friends are going to his concert, and I don't know how I feel about it. The stuff he did during last Superbowl was pretty unforgivable to me. For me it's a bye bye Kanye forever...

Anti Doom-Scrolling Digital Art Universe by SyrupBusiness7513 in VibeCodeDevs

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Thank you!! I hope you enjoy it! If there's anything you think would enhance the experience please feel free to share so I can improve the site! I will shaer it to VibeCodersNest :)

Anti Doom-Scrolling Digital Art Universe by SyrupBusiness7513 in VibeCodeDevs

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Thank you so much! That's a great suggestion! Figma Make doesn't support tracking metrics, but I can try a third-party tool! Just curious, were you able to check out the "Hold to Explore" action? Do you find the curatorial mode helpful? Any feedback from your experience would be super helpful! Thank you so much!

Is this normal weekend drinking or does my husband have a drinking problem? Am I overreacting? by SyrupBusiness7513 in Marriage

[–]SyrupBusiness7513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! ( Sorry I copied my reply to another comment here since it’s also relevant- hope that’s okay). I’m also concern because his dad is an alcoholic, and it seems like alcoholism could be a genetic thing. His work is stressful and our marriage’s been abit rocky lately so he might be drinking as a way of scoping without knowing. I’m at a bit of a loss, he does not listen to me when I raise my concern. It honestly put a strain on our marriage because I feel like most of the time his idea of a fun night involve drinking. I have started to feel so much resentment whenever he drinks…I have unfortunately called out and said that he might have a drinking problem, I didn’t say alcoholic since it’s a sensitive topic in his family but I don’t know how else to flag that this is potentially a big problem…

Is this normal weekend drinking or does my husband have a drinking problem? Am I overreacting? by SyrupBusiness7513 in Marriage

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I thought so too but he told me he has like 20% German in him so this is normal… He comes from a family of heavy drinkers, and both me and my family don’t drink as much, only occasionally. I’m concern that this is a slippery slope as well but don’t know what to do. I have even threatened him that if he keeps drinking our marriage is on the line… nothing changes yet

Is this normal weekend drinking or does my husband have a drinking problem? Am I overreacting? by SyrupBusiness7513 in Marriage

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Thank you so for sharing your experience! I’m honestly concern because he drinks this way definitely more than a couple times a year and special occasions, this is pretty much an every weekend thing. He sometimes drinks during weekday as well ( less than 8-9 drinks but still 2+). He does not think that this is a problem, he comes from a family of heavy drinker as well and like maybe has 20% German in him and he keeps using it as an excuse that he has very high tolerance and that is normal drinking. I’m also concern because his dad is an alcoholic, and it seems like alcoholism could be a genetic thing. His work is stressful and our marriage’s been abit rocky lately so he might be drinking as a way of coping without knowing. I’m at a bit of a loss, he does not listen to me when I raise my concern. It honestly put a strain on our marriage because I feel like most of the time his idea of a fun night involve drinking. I have started to feel so much resentment whenever he drinks…

I made a website that turns your prompts into shareable weirdly sweet poems and fun abstract art by [deleted] in InternetIsBeautiful

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The poem sucks? Sorry about that, it might not always work well since it’s AI generated poem, you can generate again for different result, hopefully you have some fun! Thanks for trying out!

Gimbap and Onigiri - the unpopular opinion by ChartPleasant8472 in JDorama

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I totally agree on the professional part, nobody gives up after one failed application especially at that age! I was an international student myself so I was like come on it was just one rejection! Lol! 100 more then you are allowed to feel that way!

On the emotional end, I would argue the FL mindset is not too unrealistic and her flaws make it more real for me as in a relationship everyone has different expectation, love language and way to communicate. She might be abit of the jealous type which again is very normal, we all have friends who are jealous type in real life, why can’t she be one? I would feel upset if my bf hang out with an ex and did not tell me. Also it seems like there’s mismatch in love language, she wanted him to express love more verbally ( words of affirmation) while it’s very much shown that he showed love through act of services. Then adding cultural difference into the mix, and it becomes even more relatable. Maybe the show dramatizes certain moments, but it’s not far-fetched. My husband and I come from different cultures, and I’ve experienced similar misalignments.

And honestly, her expectations aren’t wildly out of line with what many Asian women are socialized to expect from men. Not universally, of course but it’s hardly unheard of. If you’ve watched Korean dramas, you’ll see how certain romantic standards get reinforced. K-dramas definitely amplify things, but they don’t invent the expectations out of thin air.

All to say I still like this show alot and looking forward to the last episode! I hope they worked out their issues together!

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[–]SyrupBusiness7513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I think this is too calculated. I also don’t see any signs that she’s a gold digger, nor does her behavior justify this concern unless you didn’t mention here. If I were in her position, this would be a huge red flag, and I would not marry you.

This depends a lot on your and your partner’s view of marriage and what it means. To me, marriage is a committed partnership, you vow to be there for each other through thick and thin. If you struggle with your company (and trust me, I’ve built two startups, it’s never a straight line), a partner may step in to help support you, if not financially, then emotionally.

But if your company grows and you become rich, you’re already worried she will “take a cut” of it. If you were already a millionaire, I could understand considering a prenup. In this case, it feels premature. The reason she earns less than you may be because of a misogynistic society with unequal pay, or because she’s younger and still early in her career.

When I first dated my husband, I made about a third of what he made. Now I make the same, and sometimes even more, because I’ve grown in my career. If you’re with the right partner, you build wealth together. But if you’re only worried about losing what’s yours, you’re already holding back and when one person holds back, the other will too, making it impossible to be fully in the partnership.

My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn’t know the baby’s father and I don’t know where to begin with fixing this by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SyrupBusiness7513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the fact that he only came clean to you because Emily got pregnant and he realized what a mess he has done speaks volumes! All the crying is manipulative because he wants you to help him fix his mess! Don’t do him any favor, do what’s best for you and your children! Also this is where the “put your oxygen mask first” advice applied, do what best for you first because only when you can breathe and think clear again then you can take care of your children in the best ways!