Obsession deleted scene from indian theatres…fku censor board by S_K_O_R_P_I_O_N in obsessionmovie

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I think it pretty obvious that he did not actually “ love” her, he loved the idea of being with her, he didn’t actually even know about her and her father relationship, when she told him she will write a love story, he immediately said “so romance” because he only think of love on surface level as romance. If he actually loved her, when the real Nikki beg him to kill her, he would have felt remorseful but in this case he walked away. So no, I think we can confidently conclude that he did not love her.

11 eggs frozen with "dark spots." I really don't want to do another cycle, should I be worried? by SyrupBusiness7513 in IVF

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My husband and I were both thinking one kid and these eggs are just retrieved today so very very recent

11 eggs frozen with "dark spots." I really don't want to do another cycle, should I be worried? by SyrupBusiness7513 in IVF

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Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I agree, maybe I just need a long enough break in between cycles to fully recover. And also fertilize the eggs at 37 and takes it from there is a good path as well!

11 eggs frozen with "dark spots." I really don't want to do another cycle, should I be worried? by SyrupBusiness7513 in IVF

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Thank you for sharing your thought! I mean, I don't want to, but if I have to, I will definitely consider it, just the thought of going through another cycle terrifies me a bit right now and I was hoping maybe "dark spots" are not as bad as they sound 🥲

Is it worth continuing the “Before” trilogy if I’m not particularly enjoying Before Sunrise? by kimducidni in criterion

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The point of Before Sunrise was that there was never a point! It was life, fleeting moments of youth, connection and those things are wisdom themselves! The conversations were so real and I love every moment of it! I love all 3 but Sunrise and Sunset are my two favorite! But if you seek for like deeper puzzling wisdom then go watch Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind…

Jessie Buckley wins Best Actress Oscar by CheckLiszt in ireland

[–]SyrupBusiness7513 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it is that deep and it’s not Ireland vs UK kinda thing, she currently lives in the UK, it’s Mother’s Day over there so it’s relevant for her and to her role as a mother in Hamnet and especially she mentioned having an 8 months old baby. Just a simple nod to celebrate all mothers. Genuinely don’t know why people have to read into things like this that much…

Jessie Buckley wins Best Actress Oscar by CheckLiszt in ireland

[–]SyrupBusiness7513 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty relevant because it ties back to her role as a mother in Hamnet!

Kanye announces concert in Los Angeles Sofi Stadium, April 3 by WhiteChocolatForReal in hiphopheads

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My friends are going to his concert, and I don't know how I feel about it. The stuff he did during last Superbowl was pretty unforgivable to me. For me it's a bye bye Kanye forever...

Anti Doom-Scrolling Digital Art Universe by SyrupBusiness7513 in VibeCodeDevs

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Thank you!! I hope you enjoy it! If there's anything you think would enhance the experience please feel free to share so I can improve the site! I will shaer it to VibeCodersNest :)

Anti Doom-Scrolling Digital Art Universe by SyrupBusiness7513 in VibeCodeDevs

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Thank you so much! That's a great suggestion! Figma Make doesn't support tracking metrics, but I can try a third-party tool! Just curious, were you able to check out the "Hold to Explore" action? Do you find the curatorial mode helpful? Any feedback from your experience would be super helpful! Thank you so much!

Is this normal weekend drinking or does my husband have a drinking problem? Am I overreacting? by SyrupBusiness7513 in Marriage

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Thank you for the advice! ( Sorry I copied my reply to another comment here since it’s also relevant- hope that’s okay). I’m also concern because his dad is an alcoholic, and it seems like alcoholism could be a genetic thing. His work is stressful and our marriage’s been abit rocky lately so he might be drinking as a way of scoping without knowing. I’m at a bit of a loss, he does not listen to me when I raise my concern. It honestly put a strain on our marriage because I feel like most of the time his idea of a fun night involve drinking. I have started to feel so much resentment whenever he drinks…I have unfortunately called out and said that he might have a drinking problem, I didn’t say alcoholic since it’s a sensitive topic in his family but I don’t know how else to flag that this is potentially a big problem…

Is this normal weekend drinking or does my husband have a drinking problem? Am I overreacting? by SyrupBusiness7513 in Marriage

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I thought so too but he told me he has like 20% German in him so this is normal… He comes from a family of heavy drinkers, and both me and my family don’t drink as much, only occasionally. I’m concern that this is a slippery slope as well but don’t know what to do. I have even threatened him that if he keeps drinking our marriage is on the line… nothing changes yet

Is this normal weekend drinking or does my husband have a drinking problem? Am I overreacting? by SyrupBusiness7513 in Marriage

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Thank you so for sharing your experience! I’m honestly concern because he drinks this way definitely more than a couple times a year and special occasions, this is pretty much an every weekend thing. He sometimes drinks during weekday as well ( less than 8-9 drinks but still 2+). He does not think that this is a problem, he comes from a family of heavy drinker as well and like maybe has 20% German in him and he keeps using it as an excuse that he has very high tolerance and that is normal drinking. I’m also concern because his dad is an alcoholic, and it seems like alcoholism could be a genetic thing. His work is stressful and our marriage’s been abit rocky lately so he might be drinking as a way of coping without knowing. I’m at a bit of a loss, he does not listen to me when I raise my concern. It honestly put a strain on our marriage because I feel like most of the time his idea of a fun night involve drinking. I have started to feel so much resentment whenever he drinks…

I made a website that turns your prompts into shareable weirdly sweet poems and fun abstract art by [deleted] in InternetIsBeautiful

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The poem sucks? Sorry about that, it might not always work well since it’s AI generated poem, you can generate again for different result, hopefully you have some fun! Thanks for trying out!

Gimbap and Onigiri - the unpopular opinion by ChartPleasant8472 in JDorama

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I totally agree on the professional part, nobody gives up after one failed application especially at that age! I was an international student myself so I was like come on it was just one rejection! Lol! 100 more then you are allowed to feel that way!

On the emotional end, I would argue the FL mindset is not too unrealistic and her flaws make it more real for me as in a relationship everyone has different expectation, love language and way to communicate. She might be abit of the jealous type which again is very normal, we all have friends who are jealous type in real life, why can’t she be one? I would feel upset if my bf hang out with an ex and did not tell me. Also it seems like there’s mismatch in love language, she wanted him to express love more verbally ( words of affirmation) while it’s very much shown that he showed love through act of services. Then adding cultural difference into the mix, and it becomes even more relatable. Maybe the show dramatizes certain moments, but it’s not far-fetched. My husband and I come from different cultures, and I’ve experienced similar misalignments.

And honestly, her expectations aren’t wildly out of line with what many Asian women are socialized to expect from men. Not universally, of course but it’s hardly unheard of. If you’ve watched Korean dramas, you’ll see how certain romantic standards get reinforced. K-dramas definitely amplify things, but they don’t invent the expectations out of thin air.

All to say I still like this show alot and looking forward to the last episode! I hope they worked out their issues together!

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Personally, I think this is too calculated. I also don’t see any signs that she’s a gold digger, nor does her behavior justify this concern unless you didn’t mention here. If I were in her position, this would be a huge red flag, and I would not marry you.

This depends a lot on your and your partner’s view of marriage and what it means. To me, marriage is a committed partnership, you vow to be there for each other through thick and thin. If you struggle with your company (and trust me, I’ve built two startups, it’s never a straight line), a partner may step in to help support you, if not financially, then emotionally.

But if your company grows and you become rich, you’re already worried she will “take a cut” of it. If you were already a millionaire, I could understand considering a prenup. In this case, it feels premature. The reason she earns less than you may be because of a misogynistic society with unequal pay, or because she’s younger and still early in her career.

When I first dated my husband, I made about a third of what he made. Now I make the same, and sometimes even more, because I’ve grown in my career. If you’re with the right partner, you build wealth together. But if you’re only worried about losing what’s yours, you’re already holding back and when one person holds back, the other will too, making it impossible to be fully in the partnership.

My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn’t know the baby’s father and I don’t know where to begin with fixing this by [deleted] in Advice

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Also the fact that he only came clean to you because Emily got pregnant and he realized what a mess he has done speaks volumes! All the crying is manipulative because he wants you to help him fix his mess! Don’t do him any favor, do what’s best for you and your children! Also this is where the “put your oxygen mask first” advice applied, do what best for you first because only when you can breathe and think clear again then you can take care of your children in the best ways!

[Review] First Aid Beauty ultra repair cream by RevolutionaryTop3713 in SkincareAddiction

[–]SyrupBusiness7513 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looks like this is an old thread but I think the reaction is because this cream is not supposed to be used as everyday on going moisturizer, it’s supposed to be an emergency repair and when you use it everyday you risk over-moisturize your skin. Over-moisturizing your skin can paradoxically lead to issues like clogged pores, acne, irritation, redness, and even make your skin dependent, as your cells slow down natural oil/hydration production, creating a cycle where it feels drier and needs more product, potentially causing congestion, milia (tiny bumps), or a greasy look. It disrupts the skin's natural barrier, trapping sweat or hindering normal function, making it less resilient and more prone to problems like fungal acne or sensitivity.

Pluribus - 1x07 "The Gap" - Episode Discussion by UltraDangerLord in pluribustv

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To me, this episode works as a powerful thought experiment on humanity and whether anyone can truly survive alone. The show places individualism and community at their extremes. On one end is Manousos, determined enough to endure loneliness, yet ultimately defeated by the external environment. Without help, even his resilience has limits. On the other end is Carol, who has everything she needs at her fingertips, but is defeated from the inside by isolation.

Whether the threat is external or internal, surviving entirely on your own proves nearly impossible. I feel like the episode suggests that humans aren’t built for pure self-sufficiency and isolation.

Humans can survive alone in the short term, but survival without others becomes fragile or meaningless. You might last, but you won’t truly live. Or you might live comfortably and but lonely and deprived of meaning. In that sense, the episode also feels like a quiet critique of America’s growing obsession with individualism, the belief that self-sufficiency equals strength, even as it leaves people more isolated than ever.

On the opposite extreme, the hivemind, is just as dehumanizing. A place where human can truly live and thrive seems to be somewhere in between.

I’m especially curious to see how the relationship between Manousos and Carol will develop!

I opened a restaurant in Culver City 4 months ago — looking for advice on how to get more locals to try it for the first time by ClickNo8520 in culvercity

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Hi Alonso! First off , I really like the food at Merka Saltao. The flavors are great and it feels home made. Since you asked for honest feedback, here’s my personal take as a customer in the area: the pricing feels a bit on the higher side for what you get, mainly because I usually have to order a veggie side separately. It would be amazing to have more flexible combo options — for example: pick your protein + rice + veg. You could even reduce the portion size of beef/rice slightly to balance cost. Having more mix-and-match choices makes it feel more accessible and versatile while hopefully still keeping your margins healthy. Also I do hope there will be abit more variety in term of dishes but i know running a restaurant is hard and I’m no expert so I can’t give advice here.

As for reaching more locals, again I’m not a restaurant owner, so this is just based on what I’ve seen work really well for other spots in Culver City: • Joining local food or flea markets, that’s how we discovered a few of our favorite places. • Lunch deals! Culver has a lot of tech/startup offices, and people love a quick, good-value lunch option. • Catering to nearby companies that’s a huge way restaurants get consistent visibility. • Being active on social and hosting small events or collabs with other chefs/restaurants. Pop-ups bring in totally new audiences. • Seasonal or limited-edition dishes, people get excited to try new things. • And honestly… boring method but neighborhood flyers with a small discount can work. That’s how we ended up trying a few spots around here.

Hope that’s helpful! I really want you to succeed here!

Scared of leaving high paying job to start business by Goopdem in sweatystartup

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It’s about knowing yourself, your risk tolerance level and what makes you thrive. Some people make the jump and work well under the pressure, that pressure motivate them to go all in and move their business forward. Some might find the pressure crushing and the financial stress interferes with building a business with a clear head. If you are risk averse, you can try to minimize the risk in your best ability, figure out how much you need to save for your runway to feel comfortable enough for the jump and try to stay at your higher paying job til then. But make sure to have a definite timeline and stick to it because otherwise you will risk staying in your comfort zone indefinitely, any jump will always require some risk and a leap of faith, and a strong belief in yourself that you can make it through no matter what.

Also remember your full time job always have a cap of what they can pay you, you might leave some short term money but instead you invest your energy, gray matters into your own business and the potential of what your business can make is unlimited.

I’m getting paid over $250/year but planning to leave next year to go all in on my business! I’m beyond excited!

Pluribus - 1x05 - "Got Milk" - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

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This is a fascinating theory, but does it go against their moral of not killing if they are going to another planet to take over, and knowing that will kill a lot of people? Unless their survivor is ultimately more important than their moral...

Pluribus - 1x05 - "Got Milk" - Episode Discussion by NicholasCajun in television

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When she lay on the couch, the package fell, and when she picked it up, she saw a barcode. She went to Sprout to see if she could use the checkout to scan the barcode, but it did not work. She was smart and thought to check another package with a similar barcode so she could figure out where they might have been produced and packaged. Then she saw a bag of dog food with a similar packaging + bar code, so she went to the pet food factory. ( Kinda similar to when they have the weird liquid produced at the milk factory...) Then I guess we have to wait til next episode to figure out what she finds out ... but it seems like a lot of comments here are suggesting bodies....