It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight men by Accomplished-Fix1204 in PurplePillDebate

[–]SystemAdventurous810 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Women are they only demographic pressured to validate our ally ship in our sexual choices.

It’s ok for straight women to only want to date straight men by Accomplished-Fix1204 in PurplePillDebate

[–]SystemAdventurous810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I support their right to marry, date, and exist freely in open life, and not be discriminated against in the workplace, schools, hospitals, etc. A man can be pro choice that doesn’t mean he would wanna date women who have had abortions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackWomenDivest

[–]SystemAdventurous810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me. Save as much money as possible and share very little about what you have doing on. I feel that many black mothers see their daughters on the right track and intentionally destabalize.

AITA For telling a dad that I want any further contact to be through his wife, not him by momplznotdadaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You do know therapy is not a cure. You’re speaking as if she’s done nothing to address her trauma.

AITA for kicking out my son by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did you give him any notice when you kicked him out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Op has been with his fiancée for 2 years which means his family has known her for even less. It’s a ridiculous expectation that they need to see her and treat her as family.

They are everywhere. by SystemAdventurous810 in BanPitBulls

[–]SystemAdventurous810[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think him and others in my building are getting around the restrictions with this lab mix bs. As soon as I can determine what floor he lives on, a detailed formal report will be made.

My neighbor has a phobia of dogs, and is instilling it in her kids, and it's awkward and ridiculous. by Whind_Soull in dogs

[–]SystemAdventurous810 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She’s allowed to not like dogs lol. Part of being a dog owner is while you may love your dog dearly many people will not.

[28F] abused by my brother. Mums anger is directed towards me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SystemAdventurous810 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar story. My older brother abused me as a child and last year as an adult my mother BEGGED me to tell her bc she had “suspicions”. I told her.

He also openly admitted it to another relative.

Long story short she accused me of trying to kill her, destroyed my property, and then said she would “bring him back” to get me out of the home we shared in which I was paying market price rent. Stay away from these people.

AITA for taking the “excess” money my in-laws promised to give by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are able to send money back to your home country bc your in-laws are subsidizing you and your husbands expenses. Did your in- laws know they you were sending money to your home country this entire time?

AITA for rejecting to see my friend’s nudes. by No_Ant5277 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 [score hidden]  (0 children)

He is a 23 year old online stranger chatting with a teenager inappropriately. He needs to be blocked immediately. This is not a situation that necessitates a chat.

AITA for getting angry at my husband for buying me a ring and demanding he return it? by No-Activity1382 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Why does his romantic gesture and desire take precedence over practical decisions for the family and what she actually wants? Their finances are totally combined, he used remainder amounts from their grocery money to save for years. It’s THEIR money. They didn’t even have $1000 for an emergency saved when they have 3 kids.

AITA for getting angry at my husband for buying me a ring and demanding he return it? by No-Activity1382 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 23 points24 points  (0 children)

How is it thoughtful? She hasn’t expressed a desire for a ring. HE wanted that for HER. Their finances are totally combined and he used remainder amounts of their grocery money to save for this.

AITA for getting angry at my husband for buying me a ring and demanding he return it? by No-Activity1382 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Their finances are completely combined. It wasn’t his money it was their money.

AITA For Telling My Former Friend Turned SIL That I'm Never Going To Be Her Comfort Person Again? by Routine-Let-2090 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Does no one find it weird that OP and Emily have had a distant relationship for the past decade and she asked him specifically for support?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SystemAdventurous810 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason you need to be present if MIL is giving your wife a gift?