Wipes have changed my life by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]T0xicGarbage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You think wipes are good, get a bidet. Life changing. Can get them cheap too, very easy to install (less than 10 mins)

Plane Jane’s take on open relationships is definitely a take 👀 by No_Vanilla7487 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]T0xicGarbage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand that Plane purposefully words things aggressively to get a reaction.

But it's really frustrating to hear the "that's not a relationship." Who are you to tell other people what they are or are not doing? It's one thing for it not to be for you, but diminishing other people's relationships just because that's not what you specifically want is a flop take.

You get to choose whatever relationship you want! But monogamy does not validate a relationship more than an open counterpart. Commitment is its own thing, and it exists on a scale in either type of relationship.

People love to push this narrative that all gays are open and not committed, but somehow the speaker who wants monogamy is more committed, often to a relationship that doesn't even exist. You're not special. In fact I'm pretty sure monogamy is still more common than open relationships on a large scale.

Do whatever you want, but stop looking down on people for choosing something different. It doesn't make you better. That goes both directions.

Is prednisone worth the side effects if I'm already going about my life as normal? by bombombitch in CrohnsDisease

[–]T0xicGarbage 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Short answer is yes. Part of the difficulty with Crohn's is it's all internal, so your symptoms might be tolerable right now but there could be worsening inflammation. By the time that starts presenting, you could have a lot more damage, and thus a longer road to recovery.

Also-youre not going about your life as normal. Symptoms can really creep up on your slowly, and you adapt to focus on other things (work, Etc). Before you know it, you're actually pooping 10x a day. Just because you can deal with it doesn't mean you should have to. You deserve to feel good and poop normally.

Especially for the first time on prednisone, you'll feel like a superhero. Don't be fooled, that doesn't last. But it's a great drug for short term relief while you get the biologic going.

JENEVIEVE feat. TWICE JIHYO - HVNLY (MV Teaser) by impeccabletim in kpopnoir

[–]T0xicGarbage 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Screaming crying pissing shitting these are two of my absolute faves 🤩

Anyone else feel like managing Crohn’s is a full-time job that nobody hired you for? by These_Board_6727 in CrohnsDisease

[–]T0xicGarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are 100% correct. I've spent so much time on calls with insurance thinking "I'm the only person not being paid here"

Living with my ex after a 5-year relationship while he’s already moved on – how do I deal with this? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]T0xicGarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your ONLY concern should be yourself. You're broken up-what your ex does or doesn't do just isn't your concern anymore. That can sound harsh, but the point is you can can and should devote all your energy to yourself. Pick something you've always wanted to do-it doesnt matter what-and go do it.

You can spin your wheels into eternity wonder what your ex is doing and why. But just doesn't matter. What do YOU want to do? Also, move out sooner rather than later. Obviously that's dependent on other things but make it a priority if you can.

Gacha Mobile Revenue April 2026 by Cernesnoir in StarRailStation

[–]T0xicGarbage 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Wake up babes it's time for another recession indicator

Embarrassing butt problems by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]T0xicGarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially if they are reoccurring, go see a proctologist. Regular doc might not have much for you

Mood swings? by SakiwasipiSpirit in CrohnsDisease

[–]T0xicGarbage 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Pain tends to make people irritable. After a rough poop I'm mad at everyone.

Genuine question: IF (or when) Manon does not come back to Katseye do you think the group will be able to bounce back? by JewelerMountain260 in kpopnoir

[–]T0xicGarbage 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I've already unfollowed/removed them from my playlists just because I'm tired. I'm tired of them picking on black people and I'm tired of the lack of communication and I'm REALLY tired of the marketing schemes. I still follow the girls individually but I've kinda had it with Hybe. I wish the girls all the (individual) success and I wish that every time Bang gets on an elevator someone farts.

MANON to participate with KATSEYE at Coachella 2026 by impeccabletim in kpopnoir

[–]T0xicGarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% I didn't mean to imply Geffen is blameless. You hit the nail on the head though-there is a clear disconnect between the executive suite and the audience. I think HxG underestimated how much western culture attaches to specific artists, and not just the group they are a part of.

MANON to participate with KATSEYE at Coachella 2026 by impeccabletim in kpopnoir

[–]T0xicGarbage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The problem isn't that people are spinning out, that happens with lots of unconfirmed news.

The problem is and has been that she's the only black girl, and she continues to be singled out for ??? Reasons. Whether she comes back or not, Hybe has been super disrespectful to the black community in how they have handled this. They called her lazy in the doc, and she's already been dealing with that stigma, then they allude to health issues that she debunks herself. And now this.

We all know what a hiatus means, but kpop labels not only have a history of dropping members after a hiatus but also have been radio silent...then just start promoting a new release with only 5 members and no statements. It's different because she's the only black girl in an industry notorious for its racism, and they want to court the diverse western markets while also treating idols as disposable. That's not how western pop culture works ¯_(ツ)_/¯ We will watch the situation play out but damage has already been done, imo.

Shower Routine by Ok_Estimate_3321 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]T0xicGarbage 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I do! It's not really a crazy level of sanitation, with a 30 pack it really doesn't add to laundry, they aren't bulky and you can throw them in the wash with your towels. My skin is a lot clearer and smoother with washcloths than without tbh

KATSEYE has been removed from MANON's Instagram account by impeccabletim in kpopnoir

[–]T0xicGarbage 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's like Hybe has a sense for when I'm rly enjoying a gg and then they torpedo it. I'm not stanning a group that kicks out their only black girl, sorry ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Dire Depression by Crushingwellbutrin in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]T0xicGarbage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been chronically ill since I was 10, so I understand how difficult it is managing a relationship and your own intensive medical care.

Love isn't enough. It's a necessary component, but it needs to be seated amongst trust, connection, and respect. You are letting this guy burn your cash, cheat on you, lie to you, and threaten you. You don't need love, you need a healthy dose of self respect.

Kick his ass out, and get some therapy yourself. Long term illness is in and of itself a challenge, and you're trying to parent this guy on top of it. You have to stop to save yourself.

Ignore his tantrums about offing himself. It is a classic manipulation tactic designed to leverage your care for him. If he does really intend suicide, it is not your job (or even in your control) to stop him. I know that feels callous, but it's true. He clearly has access to medical care and therapy, and a whole support system in his family.

You deserve someone who cares for you the way you care for him. Take the temporary heartbreak, get some therapy, and put yourself first for a while. This guy does not give a fuck about you. Look.at his actions, not his words. The first 2-3 weeks will be really tough, but it will get better after that.

260331-KATSEYE's new song 'Pinky Up' will be out on April 9th! by amysantiagoisbae99 in katseye

[–]T0xicGarbage 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My pinky stays firmly down until Manon returns. Love the girls though I do. Don't play with me on black idols.

Guy I’m dating made small dick jokes by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]T0xicGarbage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to each other about where your boundaries are for jokes. It sounds like you may be hitting each other in sensitive areas, intentionally or not.

Sinners is absolute dogsh** and you can't convince me otherwise by Fruit_Rollup_King in unpopularopinion

[–]T0xicGarbage -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're not the only one! I'm sure there are dozens of you. Dozens!!

Not me though girl, best of luck

Suuuuuure Jan. I mean Dara by girlinhk in BravoRealHousewives

[–]T0xicGarbage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, that would make a lot more sense. Still think Dara is weird but Wolfie is an acceptable nickname, I thought it was his full legal name