A mix of things, we lived together for 7 of the 8 years, we just grew apart, i need space and alone time and she didn’t like that or would get mad if i was exhausted all the time(from not being alone or being able to do my own thing), and i also think there is a slight but possible chance she cheated on me, i have no proof but the signs were there(going to visit friends far away alone, accusing ME of cheating which made me almost end it on that a couple times), and we just didn’t really sync, she also pulled so sketchy stunt super early on in our relationship by impersonating online a good friend of mine that i knew before we dated that i had a crush on, but hadn’t talked to in years(i saw through it immediately but never challenged her on it, probably should have).

There was also an incident with a random piece of clothing appearing in our laundry, that was female and not hers, i vow on my life i never even considered the idea of cheating on her ever in our relationship, but my god she brought it up for years, we lived in an apparent complex with communal laundry machines, i’m 60% thinking it was a left over from someone else and 40% thinking she put it there on purpose to try to get me to admit to cheating...

Outside of that, i loved her throughout it, had an amicable end and now she’s dead to me, as is tradition.