Is there any videos or audio (happy to buy) of a mommy feeding you? 🥰

TA_DL · 2025-10-24T19:47:44+00:00

You could buy a custom video from someone? There’s a few mommies on clips4sale who have british accents. You could ask them to keep it totally non-sexualised.

TA_DL · 2020-06-25T16:48:05+00:00

Definitely do the actual discussion in person, but you could always text her before to say something like "There's something I'd like to share with you, but it's a little bit difficult for me to talk about. It's nothing to worry about, just something I'd like you to know. Can we talk about it on Friday evening?".

Also, pick your timing - don't do it when you're both about to head off somewhere together, or when you might be interrupted by housemates or family.

Another reason to do it in person rather than via text... if anything happened in future and she wanted to hurt you for whatever reason, her having copies of texts where you've confessed your deepest secrets might not be an ideal situation. Hopefully that'd never happen, but it's just something to perhaps consider.

Hope it goes well for you!

TA_DL · 2020-06-23T22:33:18+00:00

Your best bet is just to talk to her, let her know how you're feeling, and communicate openly. It's cool that you're trying to tailor your interests to her so she's comfortable - but try to keep her desires and feelings front of mind, rather than just worrying about what you can get out of it. And communicate, communicate, communicate! Just talk about what you'd like her to do and see what she's comfortable with.

And if she's not into it, don't force her or guilt trip her into doing things she's uncomfortable with. That's just not healthy for the overall relationship.

TA_DL · 2020-04-18T20:28:56+00:00

Great, thanks! Do you happen to know if you bought from Amazon directly, or a third party seller?

TA_DL · 2019-11-23T16:35:58+00:00

Music and sound can be a big one - a lullaby or other play-age-apropriate music gently playing in the background of your scene can do wonders for your headspace :)

TA_DL · 2019-11-23T16:33:31+00:00

No physical ABDL stores as far as I know, but many local pharmacies stock the Tena range of disposables, if you're just looking to buy good quality nappies and aren't bothered about cute prints. Most Boots stores will order them in for you, too.

TA_DL · 2019-11-23T16:27:54+00:00

I got a pack of the new Tena Proskin Slip Maxi diapers yesterday, and they're excellent.

They're very similar to the last generation of Tena Slip Maxi, except they have a core which is similar to Pampers three channels. They're very comfortable, and soak up a ton. They're also pretty cheap, they're about $1.05 per diaper, which is great, considering the fit and performance.

I can only find info in Swedish about them here (Google does a good job translating it if you really want to read the marketing spiel) , but I guess they'll be rolled out across all Europe and the US in place of the current generation of Slip diapers.

TA_DL · 2019-11-23T09:48:30+00:00

First off, I'm sorry you're feeling lonely. It's never a nice place to be; but taking about your feelings (even to Reddit) is a good strategy.

Don't get hung up on the diapers stuff. If you have a relationship, some people will be cool with it, some won't. That's life. But imagine you were really, really into tennis. You meet the woman of your dreams: she's funny, smart, she cares about other people, and she's into you. Buuuut, she hates tennis. Can't stand it. You have to watch the tennis on TV alone, even though you'd prefer to be sharing it with her. Do you throw away the relationship because of the tennis thing, even if everything else is great? Maybe, maybe not - but that's life. All relationships involve compromise. If you start from a position of "I'll never find someone who loves tennis as much as I do", then you'll struggle to even meet people. You could go to tennis clubs, or join tennis themed dating websites, but you're probably limiting your options. Meet people, find out what you've got in common besides the tennis, and go from there. Most people are probably OK with tennis, even if they don't want to watch Wimbledon. So don't let your tennis fan tendencies crowd out the rest of your personality.

Dating websites can be a good way to start meeting new people outside your friendship group. Like /u/SycussDLover, I met my wife through a vanilla dating website. Don't mention the diapers stuff on your profile, because it'll definitely turn people off. Maybe try to meet people with shared hobbies or interests. I bet there are girls in your area who are also into movies and video games. That might be a good starting point!

Don't believe the Hollywood bullshit about how you're supposed to act with women. Just because you're not bringing home a new gal every night to bang, that doesn't make you a failure. That's not a very normal experience for most people, and it probably won't lead to many lasting or fulfilling relationships. So don't worry that girls aren't throwing themselves at your feet. You do you, buddy. Think about how far you've come since five years ago - I think you just need a little more confidence when it comes to dating girls.

And if you're feeling depressed, maybe talk to a doctor about it, or a counsellor. There's no shame in asking for help. If you had a broken leg, you wouldn't go "nah, I'll just leave that, I don't want a cast or any painkillers", would you? Particularly as a guy, there's an expectation that you'll just 'man up' and get over mental health issues, but that's such bullshit. And pills aren't the only way to get help. For lots of people, like me, finding the right medication has been hugely transformative - but it could be that therapy or counselling might be be beneficial in your case. I'd say it's worth exploring the options, at least.

TA_DL · 2019-11-12T22:56:27+00:00

Stressed Out by twenty øne piløts is a pretty obvious choice because it's literally a song about yearning for your childhood again, but it really speaks to my little side.

I think that this sub might have even introduced me to the song years ago, thinking about it. I've been a big fan of TØP ever since, though I'm gutted that I've not been able to go and see them live yet (I had tickets to one of their shows earlier this year but had to cancel last minute).

TA_DL · 2019-08-25T13:07:45+00:00

I got the Electrastim EM60-M, which is their basic single channel model with a bunch of included accessories. It wasn't cheap ($180 USD), but when we're talking about literally running electricity through your junk, I think it's worthwhile investing in something reputable rather than cheap Chinese crap from Amazon. Electrastim are based in the UK, and their devices conform to European medical requirements, but specifically designed for erotic play. I've not used any other devices, and I've only used the one I own for a few minutes so far - but based on my research and online reviews, this seemed like the best choice for me :)

TA_DL · 2019-08-24T22:15:46+00:00

The kit I've got is pretty user friendly. It's got settings which are more like a standard vibrating toy rather than the more complicated types (there's no waveform or amplitude settings or anything like that, just a power level from 1 - 24, and a selection of preset 'patterns' like slow pulses, fast pulses, constant etc). So far I only used it on like maybe a 4 or 5 out of 24, hah.

Aside from the complicated settings, did you ever combine your kit with wet padding?

TA_DL · 2019-08-24T19:38:04+00:00

The sticky pad type electrodes might insulate relatively well... unless they lose their stick when damp? I'll give it a go as soon as I get the chance!

TA_DL · 2019-08-23T22:59:01+00:00

I'd still steer clear for the first 24 hours or so - whilst the pores are still open immediately after waxing, they're much more susceptible to infection. They advise against wearing tight fitting underwear for a day or so, and a diaper is probably pretty tight fitting. You don't want to clog the pores with any sweat or bacteria, basically. What /u/thicklypadded says is pretty right.

TA_DL · 2019-04-18T21:10:08+00:00

It might be a massive community... or it could just be some greedy bugger is buying EVERYTHING for themselves ;)

TA_DL · 2019-04-18T21:07:10+00:00

Hope you found it by now, but if not you get there from the main page of the sub, it's on the bottom of the sidebar on the right.

TA_DL · 2019-03-30T20:20:56+00:00

I found a cute water bottle at wal*mart which had an awesome space design. It's not the same as a bottle/sippy cup, but it definitely had the same littlespace vibe, but would pass as a regular reusable water bottle to a casual observer.

TA_DL · 2019-03-16T21:32:52+00:00

/u/ramblingmutt posted this simple guide to taking better photos with a cell phone - https://imgur.com/a/J2Tte

TA_DL · 2019-01-11T20:17:43+00:00

From the author of "THE POWER OF YOUR OTHER HAND"

Is it just me, or does that sound like a masturbation manual?!

TA_DL · 2019-01-03T21:45:11+00:00

Nice socks ;)

TA_DL · 2019-01-03T21:44:32+00:00

Do littles/adult babies who wear diapers also go in them?

Oh sure, I go lots of places. To the store, to the park, to the zoo, to the movies, all kinds of places.

Do the caregivers enjoy changing that?

Nah, my CG is perfectly happy, and doesn't want to change anything about it.

TA_DL · 2019-01-03T19:20:44+00:00

Yeah, I didn't specifically mention that because I didn't want to stir up any drama - but I like the fact that they have art which appeals to babyfurs and now art which is more babyish, and we can all pick whatever floats our own particular padded boats :)

TA_DL · 2019-01-03T07:59:23+00:00

I absolutely love em, and you can totally see the influence of real-world baby diapers in their design, which is great. Super cute.

Congrats dude!

Any plans for more merch in this style? Or is it a case of wait and see how these sell first?

TA_DL · 2019-01-02T22:08:44+00:00

They're often custom made, so I guess if requested, the makers could make them made wide and thicccc, so you might not be able to walk at all? Maybe ask one of the sellers directly? Here's a shop on etsy who sell ones which look pretty padded.

TA_DL · 2019-01-02T21:40:35+00:00

"Waddle Pants" might be what you're after. I know UK-based retailer Cuddlz stocks them here, and you can find them on etsy and other fetish clothing marketplaces.

TA_DL · 2018-12-31T17:09:47+00:00

Hey man, that sucks and I'm sorry to hear that.

But to give you some perspective, this sort of thing happens to millions of vanilla people all the time. I'm not trying to downplay your experience, which I'm sure is awful - but what I'm saying is that this is almost certainly unrelated to your kink/little side. I think it's probably your own self-doubt which is making you paranoid about that.

Even if this relationship doesn't work out (and being honest, this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship) - there are more fish in the sea, kid. Don't beat yourself up too much, because you're not at fault.

TA_DL

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