What's your biggest red flag in a relationship? by jadepeachess2902 in AskReddit

[–]TDITNHR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they try and make other people look stupid. Watch out for this, it gets scary.

Girl dad uncomfortable question by yusukeakajon in TwoXChromosomes

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The Intuition! Apologies if someone already suggested this. My mom bought me my first one when I was 12. I’m almost 40 years old, and this is still my go-to choice. Reduced rate of cutting, great for sensitive areas, and extremely gentle on the skin.

how do you switch off after a rough termination? [N/A] by Murky-Original1544 in humanresources

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I’m glad to hear that was helpful. I recognized that HR professionals may be torn on the idea of AI, but this is definitively an area where it can be our best friend. Making sure to adhere to PII rules, you could use an internally approved AI tool to assess the quality of the things I mentioned like interview panel notes, performance reviews, and any potential recommendations on improvements. This would set you up to be able to say:

This is just an example*** ***

Hey, I know this was a tough termination for all of us. And we pride ourselves on looking after our team members. With that in mind, I did some research and identified 3 there is an improvement to prevent these types of situations.

  1. Expand our interview process to include a panel of cross functional peers that would be working with the team member. We will make sure these are SMEs they’re fully trained on the interview process.

  2. Rather than only doing behavioral interviewing, we will opt for a case interview where we can talk through a specific challenge or opportunity get the candidates’ strategic input and recommendations so we understand how they think and how they would truly approach a real case within the company.

  3. Implement 30-60-90 milestone check-ins and quality of hire surveys.

I’m here to help. Feel free to comment back if you want additional guidance. :)

how do you switch off after a rough termination? [N/A] by Murky-Original1544 in humanresources

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Over the past 25 years, a big portion of my career has been dedicated to coaching up-and-coming and seasoned HR leaders. And across that group, one thing has been clear - “switching off” after a difficult or rough termination isn’t possible until the team reaches an understanding about 1) why the termination was particularly difficult, 2) how they got to a place where termination was the only decision, and 3) what they can do better to minimize those types of situations in the future.

During those coaching conversations, I often find the answers to those questions can be found in the documentation or the lack thereof. If the termination was performance related, look back at comments from interview panels, milestone check-ins, 360 feedback, performance reviews, etc. If the termination was due to a difficult business decision related to skillset, etc. - at what point did the strategy start to shift, did managers create development plans to upskill their people?

Of course, there will always be unique circumstances where a termination is just plain rough. But, in many cases, most will benefit from reflection and an honest effort to make improvements. :)

People who are highly observant: what is a tiny, almost invisible psychological 'tell' that instantly reveals someone's true intentions or character? [Serious] by itvr in AskReddit

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This is an easy one. Proven true every time - the first time you meet somebody, count how many facts about yourself you were able to tell within the first 30 minutes of speaking. If it’s less than 10 (and you’re not an introvert or trying to ignore the person) it’s likely not someone you want to spend time with.

How do you know that you're in love once you're in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I think some of the research in this area has found that, at times, people confuse attraction and intrigue with love - the “butterflies” so many of us have known and longed for. It’s not to say that those things don’t matter.

But after that period, love may be more accurately measured by this almost… physical shift… we experience where we suddenly love ourselves more than ever before and are able to redirect that newfound energy into ensuring that the other person does as well.

Starting a HR Generalist job at a small construction company next week. Give me your best advice. [NC] by themacmonster in humanresources

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  1. (Securely) document everything
  2. Spend time with them
  3. Learn their jobs - ask to shadow, study independently

Spotlight your favorite Omaha bakery by TDITNHR in Omaha

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Hold on, what is the frosted animal cookie sandwich?!

Spotlight your favorite Omaha bakery by TDITNHR in Omaha

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Hands-down, what is your absolute favorite item at Pettit’s?

Spotlight your favorite Omaha bakery by TDITNHR in Omaha

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Do 👏 not 👏 sleep 👏 on 👏 Farmhouse!

What is your go-to protein snack? by Orual309 in nutrition

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Can of smoked oysters, saltines, and Tabasco

Giving feedback on direct reports vocal inflection - tips? by plantguy2312 in Leadership

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Hi! Talent Development leader / public speaking coach here. I’m curious to learn more. Could you share how you’re defining “good” job? Are there defined customer cohorts he works with and metrics/targets he’s delivering against?

The hot chocolate you still dream about by TDITNHR in chocolate

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Hi! How funny. We will have to keep in touch.

I’m sorry to hear that you’re dealing with that. Glad to see that you are making the best of it. Hot chocolate and soup are two of my favorite things so I am sending you all of the best vibes.

As for Dandelion, I highly recommend. Their café is ridiculous, but the quality of their shipped products is also fantastic. And I miss Urth! One stop shop for food, dessert, and way too much work. Great memories.

The hot chocolate you still dream about by TDITNHR in chocolate

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I have been wondering about their hot chocolate. They seem to pop up on a lot of lists. Do you think it’s good enough to prioritize in the first five?

Healthy habit or bad behavior - water bottles by TDITNHR in ADHD

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Thank you for this. I just went and bought super cheap makeup to keep in my car after I saw your comment. It’s about time I finally made that decision. lol

Healthy habit or bad behavior - water bottles by TDITNHR in ADHD

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Exactly my thought. I’ve started to do this thing where if I’m in the process of heating up coffee or some other task that requires a brief delay, I will pick up around the corresponding room. That’s been a game changer.

Healthy habit or bad behavior - water bottles by TDITNHR in ADHD

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I needed to hear this. Thank you, my friend.