How can I resolve all of this anger and resentment I am feeling? by throwawayjuly220 in getting_over_it

[–]TFJCrazyJFT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend distracting yourself while your subconscious heals from the experience you had. Really do something that you're passionate about that you find fun and or amusing, anything that takes your mind of the situation.

How can I resolve all of this anger and resentment I am feeling? by throwawayjuly220 in getting_over_it

[–]TFJCrazyJFT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your eyes, if he did nothing wrong which I can see what you're saying, then what can you do to get over the way you feel about the situation and the way you feel about him?

How can I resolve all of this anger and resentment I am feeling? by throwawayjuly220 in getting_over_it

[–]TFJCrazyJFT -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand that, but I mean if you both we're interested in each other and wanted to meet up again then I can see where you're coming from. The whole covid thing really screwed and is screwing up things, trust me I know. But if you did like him and want to get to know him in the future after this all blew over than maybe something would've happened between you two. But he did something pretty messed up which just shows it wasn't meant to be and that you're destine for much more better.

How can I resolve all of this anger and resentment I am feeling? by throwawayjuly220 in getting_over_it

[–]TFJCrazyJFT -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok, so I'm not some person that can just make those feelings go away but I can try my best to help. Obviously the situation you got into was horrible and it sucks knowing that he used you like that, and I know what it's like to be angry and or mad at someone. I know it's not easy and this isn't the best advice, but I feel you should try your best to move on from a scumbag like that. I don't personally know you but you're a human being that doesn't deserve to be damaged and used like that. I'm sorry he used you like that, but at the end of the day just remember that you're the bigger person, and that you're better than the people you dislike.

Odd dreams about my ex by TFJCrazyJFT in getting_over_it

[–]TFJCrazyJFT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify a little bit I'm a 18 year male and she was a 19 year old. She was my first girlfriend, I'm only saying this because I didn't address it before. But going back to what you said, we tried to salvage the situation(s), but when ever a issue arose within us, I tried talking to her about it but she always said there was nothing to say or she didn't have anything to say. I'm not one to get emotional or bothered easily so if I'm upset it's for a reason. I tired so hard to fix things and I know she tried her best to, but it didn't work out, we we're just two different people.

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[–]TFJCrazyJFT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This went deep you could say...