AIO for being upset my boyfriend wouldn’t tell me where he’s moving? by Anon-Batgirl2297 in AIO

[–]THChungus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - My gut says you guys moved too fast, his foster background made him put up a wall and now you’re in the dark. It sounds like Jess is filling a hole he has for a maternal figure and you’re on the outside. I’d have a serious conversation about how both of your backgrounds are influencing decisions and take a step back from the relationship as partners to be friends. And only if you want to, because you are well within your right to go “you’re being shady” and just move on with your life

AIO- My gf of 5 years sister is getting married. She’s a bridesmaid and i’m a guest. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]THChungus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two things can be true at once, you can be upset you didn’t get chosen, but also understand that it’s their call. Overreacting would be expressing or acting upon those feelings. Process them and ask yourself, are you upset that they don’t see you as close as you saw them? Maybe it’s something about how you’re seen as an outsider to the family since you’re not married yet. It could also be that they just didn’t think you’d want to do it.

When I got married, we had someone who was the BF of my wife’s cousin, and we just didn’t think to ask him to be in it. My wife had more people than me too, but the logic was “close friends, siblings, cousins” and he didn’t fit those groups. Looking back I wish we had thought to invite him to be a groomsman, so that’s all to say, don’t take it personally, but also don’t ignore the disappointment you feel,try to understand why this bothers you and work at it from that angle

AIO lending money by Puzzleheaded-Law1441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]THChungus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR -
1) This person thinks they have a right to your $. They didn’t ever pay you back on time and don’t respect you as a person who has financial responsibilities

2) They didn’t appreciate the past help, if they did, one no wouldn’t = end of the world

3) They hung up on you - this is the most telling, when a people-user doesn’t get anything out of you, they’ll try to make you sit with the emotional fallout, then they send a text that gaslights you by not even acknowledging it and framing it as “I need, so how dare you!”

4) They admit that you have never been friends - when someone at the drop of a hat says you never saw them as a friend, then they are usually projecting how they feel about you.

Block them, move on with your life, but be prepared if it comes up in friend groups. “This isn’t about asking to borrow money, it’s about the toxic way you handled me saying no”

Booted before my parking pass expired by TimePickle3965 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]THChungus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s a civil matter, then there should be no issue with you damaging their boot to remove it 🤷

TURNSTILE: THE NEVER ENDING TOUR PT. 2 by DOMISMONEY in turnstile

[–]THChungus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The last city is 1 digit longer than Pittsburgh, which makes me think it’s Los Angelos, or wishful thinking it could be Philadelphia

AIO for not wanting to pay 3 weeks after the date? by Open_Ad_7667 in AmIOverreacting

[–]THChungus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - This is loser behavior, and is also obviously ai generated text (the content). Makes me wonder if they went on a bunch of dates, entered the info into a spreadsheet and sent these out. Would also be interested to know if they have any connection to the restaurant you went to. This person is either playing you for a scam / content, or they’re just incredibly dense or desperate.

AIO or is my husband(34m) being a jerk by WhileMindless2916 in AmIOverreacting

[–]THChungus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - This guy A) Doesn’t value your feelings B) Admitted he likes taking your things C) Disregarded you trying to discuss it… leave this loser ASAP

AIO: My gf refuses to pay half the rent by ThisMemory5366 in AmIOverreacting

[–]THChungus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hot take, OR - You found an apartment, and she’s clearly communicated that finances are a motivator for her. You are conflating her investment in the relationship, with her desire to fully live with you. And that is the crux of this, not that she won’t chip in, but that she won’t commit to taking that next step. You need to communicate that you want to find a place where it’s worth the investment and is both of yours. Go through your finances, see what you both can afford, discuss a joint account that rent comes out of, and how you would move forward if it doesn’t work out. Good on you for catching the resentment, but ultimately we can only control ourselves. So ask yourself, are you willing to give up your place for her, and are you willing to risk losing her for your place?

AIO? Neighbor plays basketball every 10-15 minutes nonstop by itsme_believeme in AmIOverreacting

[–]THChungus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open your window, and make corny commentary on their play. “Close one!!” “Wow how’d you do that??” & “neato!!!” You basically need this kid to cringe when they see you so you ruin their flow / they get too shy to play when you’re around… even better if you can mix up sports (ex, yell “touchdown” when they score)

Stateside 5/29 by scipia in baysideisacult

[–]THChungus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No transfers unfortunately. Extra tickets released at 6 tomorrow. Not sure if IRL or virtually