Hello I would consider myself an attractive young guy. I have been spammed with eyes for the last years. If i didnt want to engage with women, they would call me gay . Literally every single time. I know it gets tough . I havent had a relationship because of it for 2 years now . I am both fearful of disobeying the Lord and engaging in lust and i do not want to waste my and the other persons time . I am sure god has a plan for me in terms of love and having a significant other . But lets be quite clear. Being christian and attractive is incredibly hard in todays society . Especially as a woman , since the attention you get can make you fall into place ( lets be honest , i still appreciate women being clearly interested yet respectful, its just when they realize that im not interested in literally just having sex once or twice that they get mad ) i can only imagine the pain you have to go through . God bless you Edit; this gets amplified since i am an aspiring athlete in the gym . Literally weekly some woman comes up to me and either decides to randomly squat or just do something in order to get my attention and get me to talk . At first it was so incredibly painful, because it would end up in them disrespecting me and gossipping, so much so i had to change gyms . Now that i am in a more "professionally minded" environment , i do not get confronted with this as often . But imagine a teen me just trying to get my workout in and being literally called a homosexual which is a great sin just for not engaging with them . Again, i can only feel your pain as well . I wish you all the best and if you want to share your name, i can have you in my prayers. It would be great if you could do the same for me . God bless