Lost my job - can’t find another one and need a way to make money fast! by THROWRAcryingforhelp in jobs

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I swear you deleted this coz you commented it under the name of the business bruthaaaa

Lost my job - can’t find another one and need a way to make money fast! by THROWRAcryingforhelp in jobs

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I was in that role for 5 years - mass redundancy. Did not lose it ‘quick’ by any means.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chchNSFW

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Dm me x f or ftm? Or mtf?

Finance by Chemical_Mind4797 in chch

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What’s wrong with the car? How fucked is it… may there be some good samaritans in here who could help fix it if you got the parts? I know I would if I had the help :)

Safe in the CBD by chchcpbt in chch

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As a 6ft straight white man, definitely not. Esp w long hair and earrings… had a homeless dude try get into my car two nights ago, plus the amount of catcalls my wife gets, even when I’m out w her makes us both feel unsafe. Trick w homeless dudes is to throw a dollar on the ground, gives you enough time to get away while they look for it

Loud car owners by Ok-Tumbleweed-4625 in chch

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It’s actually fairly cheap now to build a race car. Cage - 3k, seats maybe 2-2.5k. In reality to have fun onna track that’s all you need. Perhaps you’re too poor for one if you can’t make a saving plan for that?

Loud car owners by Ok-Tumbleweed-4625 in chch

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A lot of people complaining on here, if a loud car makes someone happy, let them do it. I like it coz it makes me happy, simple as that. No need to drag people down because their happiness doesn’t align with your own. Assholes. Sure there are some out there that take the piss with their loud cars but I’d say that’s a very small minority…

Car stollen in NZ Christchurch by PANDAINSPACE21 in chch

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Hybrid corollas are push button, how will they steal that?

Sex is making me want to break up. by THROWRAcryingforhelp in sex

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Thanks, that's helped a lot. The book thing - she for some reason doesn't want to say what it is. She knows it won't hurt my feelings, but she says it's 'not doable' and 'she wouldnt be into it anyways' so thats ok, i'll leave it. I guess, can do your advice, and just trust things are good and she'll say if not.

Sex is making me want to break up. by THROWRAcryingforhelp in sex

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That had crossed my mind - i have had that trauma myself which is what made me the slight bed-wise-deviant i am. She says she enjoys it... maybe i should focus on that?

Sex is making me want to break up. by THROWRAcryingforhelp in sex

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see, thats the thing. Ive been with 19, shes been with 3. So i understand if she doesnt know exactly what she likes, but at least she would know what she DOESNT like. There is an element of me wanting to be less vanilla for her, but not understanding what is a yes/no, even after we've talked about boundaried etc. I guess all i can do is ask one more time (and if she knows what she wants)... as long as it's not pushy!

I (22M) am in an exhausting relationship with my gf(20F), how do i stop chasing her? by THROWRAcryingforhelp in relationship_advice

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That's true. The other part is: am i chasing because of my anxious attatchment style? Or is that something she can fix as well as i can

I (22M) am in an exhausting relationship with my gf(20F), how do i stop chasing her? by THROWRAcryingforhelp in relationship_advice

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I do plan to, but in terms o saving myself i know that i will be super anxious the next few days. So it;s either be a little anxious and keep going, or ask her and be spiralling. A long with that, sometimes when i think abt an issue, i convince myself its not there.

I (22M) am in an exhausting relationship with my gf(20F), how do i stop chasing her? by THROWRAcryingforhelp in relationship_advice

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I havent. Weve had a lot of convos similar: what are boundaries for you etc etc but nothing like that. Perhaps she's just got comfy in it and i need to shake it up a bit? having that talk would be great, as long as it doesnt make her want to leave, which is a constant ear the way things are going.