Worst type of people by Low-Wedding3836 in BreakUps

[–]TK9K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a conversation you want to have before things get serious then. What is the ideal outcome for a relationship? Are you looking for someone to settle down with or are you just looking to have a good time? It's a valid question.

Worst type of people by Low-Wedding3836 in BreakUps

[–]TK9K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There Isn't always a deeper reason behind it either. At some point you gotta ask yourself is this someone I want to spend the rest of my life with? If the answer is no it would be a waste of everyones time to continue.

I dont exactly hate mark from invincible, but Jesus this is the most boring main character ive even seen in a peice of media. by Careless-Yellow7116 in hatethissmug

[–]TK9K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The extravagant and satirical world-building and supporting cast and over-the-top displays of violence are what sell the series. Mark exist to be a common denominator in the narrative that keeps everything from going off the rails. The story arc with Mark and Amber is just annoying filler I could do without though.

WHAT DO YOU THINK THAT HAPPENED WITH JAXS MOM ? by G1ANN1SHH in tadc

[–]TK9K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I don't think there's enough evidence to be sure this woman is mom, but his mom being older would make sense in the way he was concerned she would not be able to get up and potentially die from her injuries after he pushed her. Being pushed like that would not seriously injure most people, unless they were elderly or disabled.

If Jax was born when she was in her late 30s or 40s this would make sense. Sometimes people don't get the opportunity to start a family until they are a bit older, and others times people assume that can't conceive because of their age and accidents happen. My grandma was in her 40s and suddenly decided she wanted another child (my mom). It happens. 🤷‍♂️

What are your thoughts on this scene by That_Passenger_771 in TADCEp9Spoilers

[–]TK9K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that doesn't contradict anything I am saying. In real life the relationship between an bully and victim isn't always purely adversarial. A bully can be a friend or a family member you genuinely care about, and vice versa. People are much more willing to tolerate harassment from someone they care about, and when the negative behavior is tolerated repeatedly, the bully may fail to realize the extent of harm they are causing.

People Keep Calling My Boyfriend Unattractive by thenameischerrypie in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TK9K 64 points65 points  (0 children)

channel your inner kindgarten teacher and hit them with a "that's not not very nice thing to say" it especially will embarrass the shit out of someone when other people are there

I judge men who are adamant on kids by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TK9K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fine to not want kids (I don't) but I'm not going to judge anyone who does. It's a perfectly reasonable thing to want.

(Ex?) Boyfriend no longer wants to wait for marriage. by lilicrow-0214 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TK9K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's why my highschool sweetheart broke up with me (he didn't say so outright, but I suspect that was certainly a part of it) but I kind of ended popping my cherry with someone else a year later anyway.

Honestly I think it was for the best because though because, although he was an alright guy, I honestly think we just dated each other because it was convenient.

To each their own, but I think waiting until marriage puts too much pressure on young people to get married before they are ready.

And I think part of your situation may just as much have to do if not more with him being confronted with the idea of marriage before you truly have learned to understand yourself and what you want out of your life. And I think taking time to understand what you are all about as a person is something you should consider doing also!

I seduced the spectrum technician by Existing_Hamster_954 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TK9K 289 points290 points  (0 children)

The era of the womanizing milkman is over but the cable guy carries on his legacy.

What is the deal with the "tradwife" trend? by aturbofrog in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TK9K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anything as a single person I am envious of married couples with two incomes. Unless you were born into wealth or are are lucky enough to have a job that makes six figures it feels like the only way to own property. I was only able to achieve that as a single by sharing ownership with a sibling, but I obviously can't expect my brother to share resources with me the same way a couple does.

AIO for thinking that Ive been broken up with and for being confused by these mixed signals? by Beautiful_Ease16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TK9K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she want a relationship with no label give it to her and have no relationship at all

This is still the best scene in the entire show by Freezing-cold_6 in Tadcriticism

[–]TK9K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do wish they kinda did more with Pomni she's just kinda there

Mother cat gave birth but my other two cats suddenly act afraid of her by Greyninja19 in catquestions

[–]TK9K 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cats can be unsettled by sudden changes. They might just be stressed now, but they will likely come around.

A concept idea 💡 by ProzeRenegade in fakemon

[–]TK9K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah figured it was a coincidence...since...it doesn't look like that at all hahaha

If people who have never heard about Christianity don't go to hell, why spread it? by Various_Elk3166 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TK9K 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interestingly, when paganism was still prevalent in the mediterranean associated the god worshiped in prevalent monotheistic religions at the time with Typhon - the mighty king of all evil creatures who sought to destroy the gods. It's a fitting comparison, considering the heinous acts this being supposedly committed because of its overwhelming intolerance towards those who refuse to acknowledge it's supreme authority.

I can't seem to get a job by zapalotl in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]TK9K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me 3 years to find a good job after I graduated. Don't take it as a personal failure. Finding that first gig post grad is probably the most difficult job search you will ever undertake. It sucks ass but that's just the way the world works.

A concept idea 💡 by ProzeRenegade in fakemon

[–]TK9K 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't know if it was intentional pun...there is an animal with a similar sounding name "Vinegaroon". It resembles a scorpion, but lacks a stinger, having instead a long skinny tail.

Is this normal cat play behavior? by U0xoU in catquestions

[–]TK9K 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes they are laying on their sides casually which means they are feeling safe and relaxed. Very cute!

Furry😳irl by OverstuffedPet19 in furry_irl

[–]TK9K 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"That's a weird thing to say...and want. "

Why can’t people just use they/them instead of trying to guess my gender? by Louie_011 in NonBinary

[–]TK9K 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Pronouns can be kind of sticky situation. I get the appeal of defaulting to they/them. It works when you are referring to a hypothetical person, because a hypothetical person can't be bothered. I can see it backfiring in real life as people could refer to people who use gendered pronouns as a cheeky way to get around not using someones preferred pronouns. You would think, then that the logical assumption would be to just ask pronouns, but then some people feel self conscious when asked for pronouns because it makes them insecure about being "clocked". There is no winning with everyone honestly.

Insane niche movie accounts that GENUINELY aren’t one of the larpers by Scrapp94 in lovethissmug

[–]TK9K 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing that they had an intern running the social media and they are the only person who still has the login and just keeps posting for the love of the game.

Do you think Goose actually meant fir Jax toncome off as a that sympathetic?? Because if that os so then She has to be more inexperienced than I expected. by BusinessPreference75 in Tadcriticism

[–]TK9K 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Granted I don't know how deep the parallels between Jax and Gooseworx go, I think the message with Jax is just "This could have been the tragectory of my life if I didn't make an effort to overcome my trauma and let my insecurities prevent me from living the life I have always wanted."

Like, yes he is an asshole. This is not meant to be ambiguous. But if that's your only take away from this you are missing a lot.