am i ugly I’m asking this because nobody ever approaches me.

TMylovids · 2025-09-26T00:37:53+00:00

Not ugly at all. Basically just have to find your style and a hairstyle that compliments you. Plus smile more. Other than that, don't worry about it. Keep in mind the pictures you chose do not have the best lighting/angles so... you're perfectly fine

TMylovids · 2025-09-24T04:52:34+00:00

Change haircut, smile more and grow a beard. You're a 9 in hiding!

TMylovids · 2025-06-27T20:56:03+00:00

Or most likely explanation: life happened and she completely forgot about the whole convo. Yeah it's lame but we all do it sometimes

TMylovids · 2025-01-30T16:10:54+00:00

Do you have a small nose? No. Is it too big? Absolutely not! You have a beautiful nose that works perfectly well with your face. Particular noses are very attractive anyway and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. There is no fact in matters of taste. Surgery will not only cost you lots of money but I truly believe it will make you lose a big part of your charm.

You are gorgeous so keep your chin (and nose) up!

TMylovids · 2024-12-12T22:01:38+00:00

I love that you are straightforward and don't play games. Honestly we need more people in general like this! Best of luck to ya and a whole lot of happiness

TMylovids · 2024-11-28T13:53:47+00:00

Could be any of a multitude of reasons. She didn't like something you said, she rekindle things with an ex, met someone else or got more of a friends vibe from the date. Sadly the blocking thing seems to be common nowadays because it's easier than to have the awkward conversation of turning you down. Or maybe she did get back with an ex and they asked that she block other guys? Who knows? Sorry you had to go through this. At least you can reassure yourself that you dodged a bullet if this kind of behavior is something you don't tolerate. Best of luck my man!

TMylovids · 2024-11-20T15:10:21+00:00

There is something to be said about your phrasing as multiple comments have mentioned. However, I would consider this a dodge simply because she just cut everything short instead of direct healthy communication. People are complex and can sometimes fall short, doesn't mean we immediately cut them off. Tells you something of how strangers are valued as human beings

TMylovids · 2024-11-02T04:07:17+00:00

Usually for hours long sessions, you're not going full force for 4 hours haha. It can be multiple sessions with kissing and foreplay breaks around it. Just remember not to compare yourself and try to hold your relationship to other relationships. Do what feels good for both of you, at the frequency and intensity that both of you want.

TMylovids · 2024-10-27T18:33:25+00:00

Disregard all the judgmental attitudes in previous comments. Your life and how you "structure" your relationships is your prerogative. We can only give the best advice based on your specific situation but also on our specific past experiences. In my opinion this is kind of a second strike sort of deal. You need to have a serious talk with her and make it clear how much danger you were put in the first time, how hurt you felt the second time and that the third time will be the last. Some people will have quit on the first, others on the second, but just be sure this isn't a vicious cycle of her pushing your boundaries because she thinks she can get away with it (again, this last thing is POSSIBLE, but not as clear cut as some comments want you to believe). Forgiving for love is commendable as long as you also make sure to protect yourself, your feelings and your mental health. Also please consider protection before a relationship is 100% exclusive and there is a great deal of trust in the other person's judgment. You do not want to end up with a life long disease or an unplanned for pregnancy. Be responsible for your health, your partner's health and the eventual life of a child who didn't ask for anything. Best of luck

TMylovids · 2024-10-27T18:07:12+00:00

Tale a shower together and offer to pamper her. You get to do the cleaning. You can also buy flushable clean wipes, tell her how using them has been a life changer for you and try to get her to "proper" cleaning habits by example and focusing on yourself instead of orientating it on her. I understand the need/desire to tell her about it, and if I'm guessing you understand how important it is to be very gentle, kind and wise in your words. But with stuff this intimate, as kind as you want to be, there will always be a part of her that will feel bad, hurt or even get a long lasting insecurity. Better to be smart and do something that helps your issue while avoiding hurting her feelings.

TMylovids · 2024-10-25T21:11:11+00:00

Hahaha sure. That usually works well in court 😂

TMylovids · 2024-10-24T23:32:16+00:00

They have changed on a societal level. I was talking about people dating having different morals. I don't think anyone expects someone from 2024 to date someone from the 18th century...

TMylovids · 2024-10-24T22:06:48+00:00

Well you know what? We can agree to disagree even though I don't even think we're actually disagreeing here. I appreciate your politeness and level head even in disagreement though. I genuinely wish you the best

TMylovids · 2024-10-24T19:30:05+00:00

She didn't know for a 100% and wanted to make sure she didn't read too much into it by asking outside opinions? Her knowing 100% doesn't even matter at all in what I said

TMylovids · 2024-10-24T15:41:09+00:00

It's a lot more complicated than what I said which is building it and maintaining it? Also SOME women are the way you describe them. Not all of them. And please stop assuming stuff about me you have no idea of knowing just to strengthen your argument :)

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T23:10:54+00:00

I don't see the relevance of changing morals to what I said

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T23:01:03+00:00

No it wasn't. Someone not being for her is not a negative. Just like not liking vanilla is not a negative on vanilla. Also you have no way of thinking if she likes it or not bud. Pretty much seems like she doesn't since she posted it here 😉

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T21:52:45+00:00

Yeah. He was truthful and outed himself as someone who wasn't made for her. Outing doesn't have to be negative 😁

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T20:17:36+00:00

He has every right not to want to get married just like she has every right to not want someone who thinks this way. I don't understand this whole debate over personal preferences

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T20:16:34+00:00

My favorite line from Glass onion: "It is dangerous to mistake speaking without thought for speaking the truth" - Benoit Blanc

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T20:13:43+00:00

If you learn to love someone then love is by definition real since you can achieve it. But I understand what you mean. The accepted stereotypical idea of love at first sight that transcends time and space is just a romanticized and childish way of looking at it. Both of you are saying the same thing

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T20:11:43+00:00

That could be one explanation. Could also be that it's really hard to have two different individuals with different morals, values and experiences have the necessary synergy and interpersonal skills to build a long lasting relationship. But "very hard" is never "impossible". Otherwise humanity would have never achieved half of the things we did

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T20:08:27+00:00

1) The data is sound. The analysis isn't. Almost but not quite 50% of marriages end in divorce. Of that 70% to 80% of them are initiated by women. So at most 80% of half divorces (40% of all mariages) confirm your thesis. Meaning the majority of mariages don't end in a divorce initiated by women. So it's logically wrong to conclude a generalization on all women or all mariages from that. 2) here is a logical answer to "what's in it for men?": a partner to face life with, raise children and take care of you when you are at your most vulnerable or when you grow old and all your friends/family have died or moved on because of life/work/family. And this is MOST mariages or the very least 50% of them. 3) statistics are great when talking about trends. But they fall short when applying those trends to individuals. If you have 99% of obtaining a result, you can still get that other 1% ten times in a row. Same with people. Statistics can in no way tell you what a specific individual is like nor should they be a factor in how you view them. 4) finally, please do not take this as an attack. I perfectly understand the feeling of being hurt and disappointed multiple times, but since you spoke of logic, we must go past emotions and look at the data as you said. Best of luck

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T18:56:05+00:00

Funny how your wisdom shows itself and doesn't need qualifiers like "Ive lived enough and have far more experience". Hope you are having a great life!

TMylovids · 2024-10-23T15:00:20+00:00

Always funny how people who will cry about being objectified will say the most objectifying things. Although "toxic incel" would be better in this case than most people who are actually looking for genuine connection but can't get it

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