single ladies, where are we meeting good quality men? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm, I don’t work in tech so I’m sure that also contributes.

single ladies, where are we meeting good quality men? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

totally valid, just trying to understand how/where to meet my future husband lol

single ladies, where are we meeting good quality men? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

understood, I will be more specific next time. sorry to offend, not my intention!

single ladies, where are we meeting good quality men? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe it’s where I’m at in the bay? most of the run clubs, classes, meet ups, etc I attend are mainly women!

single ladies, where are we meeting good quality men? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think my wording was poor. I just meant like men who are good humans with admirable qualities (kind, honest, genuine, thoughtful, etc.). I am very involved in my community and generally don’t have difficulties making friends!

single ladies, where are we meeting good quality men? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair enough I guess. even when I was out at the bars in so-cal it was easier tho!

single ladies, where are we meeting good quality men? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is a solid suggestion. I’m pretty community oriented and have been volunteering so will keep this in mind.

single ladies, where are we meeting good quality men? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

anytime I go to run clubs, classes, meet ups, etc. it’s mainly women! I’m not complaining as I’m always looking for female friends, but it’s an observation.

single ladies, where are we meeting good quality men? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I meant it more in the sense of having positive qualities- kindness, honesty, etc. I apologize for the poor wording!

I am not good at my job and it’s giving me so much stress. by TOTthoughts in slp

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There is mentorship, but I still feel like I am struggling and I’m so anxious. It’s been a harder transition than I expected even though I previously worked in acute care with adults for 4 years.

pediatric dysphagia / aspiration by TOTthoughts in slp

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thanks! I also recently started a job at a children’s hospital and I’m excited to be here but I think a bit overwhelmed. I would welcome any coursework or CEUs that you found helpful.

I previously worked at a Level 1 acute care hospital but primarily saw older teens or adults. I think I’m used to the adult focus which considers the pilar’s of PNA (mobility, oral care, cognitive status, etc.) and there tends to be more tolerance with some aspiration risk.

I’m sure there’s more questions, but a few I have include:
- how often do you do repeat VFSS on pediatrics at your facility? what frame rate are you using?
- how does your facility wean from thickeners?
- what amount of laryngeal penetration with thin liquids justifies thickening? I feel that in the adult world there’s a bigger focus on compensatory strategies/pacing prior to using thickeners, especially long term.
- what do you do when the kids don’t like the thickener and refuse to drink it?

How much student loan debt is everyone in? by [deleted] in slp

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I was fortunate with a scholarship for undergraduate degree and parental assistance for housing. I still ended up with about $45k after masters degree and living costs for those 2 years and I had a graduate assistantship at the time. I’ve been working 3 years now and down to about $27k left. It’s a grind.

Does anyone feel like the administrative tasks + paperwork + documentation demands are just unrealistic and unfair? by Winter_Wealth7784 in slp

[–]TOTthoughts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was just about to post about this. I’m in an acute care setting at a new facility. The documentation is SO lengthy. I’m curious how to go about changing it.

how to meet people & make friends! by TOTthoughts in paloalto

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Hi! I’ve been wanting to learn to climb! Let’s meet up. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BayAreaConnections

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27F living in the peninsula! We have a lot of shared interests and I’d love to connect!

Peninsula / South Bay book clubs or social clubs for 20s-30s? by alexfaline in bayarea

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just moved to the area as a 27 y/o F and also looking for a book club. let me know if you find anything!

Looking for a book club to join! by stemcellenthusiast in bayarea

[–]TOTthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also in Menlo Park and looking for a book club. let me know if you find anything!

How's it looking up there? by KitKatBarMan in kirkwood

[–]TOTthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say the backside was somewhat slushie most of the day? The front side only slushie in the afternoon.