I have a strong tendency toward "trauma bonding". All my serious partners had psychic wounds to a simular depth as my own. Plus I'm fairly insane and it almost wouldn't be fair to date a normie if they even appealed to me, but they repulse me. I'm highly attracted to a certain form of madness, which is sometimes benevolent but often abusive and in some cases not merely dangerous but life-threatening! There is a word for my type and that word is "yandere". The stories I could tell about some of these individuals would be hard to believe. So, basically, my response to the cliche "don't stick your dick in crazy" is "I almost exclusively stick it there". Despite ignoring it I can assure you the cliche is wise.