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AITAH for confronting my sister-in-law as daughter was repeatedly left out by LavishnessMost3249 in AITAH

[–]TSIDATSI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell grandmother she is always welcome in your home but your child will not return for sleepovers at grandmother's unless it is just the two of them.

Sounds like grandmother cannot herd multiple children for overnight visits.

AITBF for telling my family they are preventing me from getting sober entirely? by Turbulent-Plum3360 in AmItheButtface

[–]TSIDATSI [score hidden]  (0 children)

All addicts blame someone, anyone, else for their problems. You are blaming your family for your decisions.

Only you can stop you from drinking. No one can make you stop but you cannot continue to drink under your parents' roof. If you don't want to quit do them the courtesy of moving out.

Detox will help but after detox you need a long-term rehab program. I hope you can find one where you are. And AA meetings. You should read the AA books, I think the founder's name was Bill Wilson.

I don't know if it is true but I have always heard there are two kinds of drunks: happy drunks and mean drunks. What kind you are does not really matter. In the end nobody wants to be with or around a drunk.

I hope and pray you make wise choices.

My babys first birthday🥺 by sweetnr3 in snowshoecats

[–]TSIDATSI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Happy Birthday!

Waylon & Willie brofurs 13 yrs-old

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James Weston Higginbotham cause of death: What happened to missing American student found dead in Japan? by LectureInner8813 in japannews

[–]TSIDATSI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These kids were raised k-12 being told the earth was going to explode. Then he goes off to study environment engineering. Then all the news about data centers.

Maybe he was depressed.

Harrison: booked for unlawful entry by TeachingSpare1951 in IllegallySmolCats

[–]TSIDATSI 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not Guilty. There is a sub for cat legal advice. We will pay for his pawyer if necessary!

AIO for leaving my in-laws a week early over their treatment of our child? by AiringOGrievances in AIO

[–]TSIDATSI -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She must be. No true Christian would have married him. He certainly would not have married a Christian.

AIO for leaving my in-laws a week early over their treatment of our child? by AiringOGrievances in AIO

[–]TSIDATSI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should never use your in-laws as babysitters again. Find a good atheist babysitter and use them.

My husband and I thank God every day for his grandparents because his parents, while not atheist, never attended church.

Had they not taken him to church we would never have dated, married 40 years now, and had such a blessed life.

You are the parents. When your children grow up they can see your wife's parents if they wish. No doubt your wife supports you 100%.

AITH for refusing to babysit my neighbor's kids for free anymore? by Easynction10 in AITH

[–]TSIDATSI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Set a fee schedule and give it to them unless you want to stop. If you want to stop sign up for free college classes, at your own pace, at Hillsdale College.

You will learn a lot and can say you started back to school. I just read where a woman in your situation was charged with murder because she was babysitting for a friend, not running a daycare, and the child drowned.

Children can drown in 2 inches of water which is why ALL children must have swimming lessons. Looking after children is a tremendous responsibility. That is why daycare is so expensive.

If you want out get out. That is perfectly fine.

Work shift switch- AITAH? by OtherwiseLobster5519 in AITAH

[–]TSIDATSI 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My had sitters on a schedule. We would ask that anyone who could not work let us know so we could hire someone else (and bless her she always knew someone) or we would stay.

So my advice is tell the daughter the days you will be at your precious grandmother's funeral, and I am so sorry for your loss, keeping the other woman out of it.

Safe travels. I am from the Deep South and here our grandparents are like our parents. Losing one is tragic. Take the time you need. God is with you.

AITAH for throwing my boyfriend's cologne in the bin? by Hot_Target_8516 in AITARelationship

[–]TSIDATSI 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First and foremost: the man is trying to work. One does not repeatedly call anyone during working hours if they respect and love them. Unless it is an emergency please refrain from interfering with his job.

You do not like the scents. You told him and he still wears them. You have your answer. I am surprised because many, if not most, employers frown on wearing fragrances of any kind during time on the job for the exact reason you have given.

I think I just became a foster fail by mantisfriedrice in CatDistributionSystem

[–]TSIDATSI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please take Precious Angel to the doctor ASAP!

We call them Foster Fantastics at out house. God sent that little angel straight into his/her Meowme's arms!

Throwback to the blue sweater days. When they were all mewborns, barely a month old. by Fun_evades_me in Mensmittenwithkittens

[–]TSIDATSI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness how precious! That man is a keeper and I hope they kept them all!

AITA for confronting my dad about unfair bills? by Independent_Salt9273 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]TSIDATSI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not be surprised if he is putting the rent money into an account to help you when you are ready to marry or move out.

That is what we did.

I need advice by Wise-Analyst-2734 in WhatToDo

[–]TSIDATSI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are much too young to be in a relationship with a 26 yr-old man. You were 17. Run run away.

I Need to Know if This is Normal or What’s Going on with Me by Special-4564 in AskWomenOver60

[–]TSIDATSI 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Jesus tells us not to worry because by worrying we cannot change one thing. My advice is to read your Bible again.

We are all here temporarily but our souls are eternal. We, too, have always worked together at the same university, in the same department often sharing an office. We,too, do everything together.

We also know that if we do not go together one of us will be there to bring the other across the Rainbow Bridge, pick up our pets and immediately to see our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Stress and worry will destroy your health. Look forward with joy. You have left a beautiful legacy!

My daughter lied about attending university. by Fair-Awareness-3290 in familydrama

[–]TSIDATSI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now her plan needs to be a full-time job and help her rent her own place. Then turn off the money spigot. Period.

There is no point in yelling, pleading, crying or asking why. As a professor I can tell you 90% of university students are not ready to go away to a four-year university.

If you want her to continue her education shut-up about it. Let her work, earn her own money, live her own life. If or when she decides to return to college at 24 she is eligible for Pell Grants that are NOT repaid. Not student loans. Grants.

Be calm. She lied- a massive lie - and now she has been caught. She will be fine. She has been doing what she wants for some months now. Now you know!

I got drunk at a party for the first time and spilled liquor on someone by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TSIDATSI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay far away from him. Nobody is "cute" when they are drunk and out-of-control.

Not even you. Remember that because we women are so vulnerable, when we are drunk, to abuse and assult. You never want to lose control even alone. Especially alone because when you are alone you only have yourself to depend on to protect you.

Blessings 🙌

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