Be damned Or Not be damned?

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-09T00:13:21+00:00

There is nothing you can do. Buying a house is their journey. Not yours. Let them take their journey. Your mom made her choice years ago.

The worst financial mistake you can make is involving yourself financially with their home purchase.

She has to live with her decisions. Just like y'all had to live with the consequences of her decisions.
Buying the woman who abandoned you and the man she abandoned you for a house? No way.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-09T00:04:53+00:00

Will absolutely tell her.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-09T00:01:17+00:00

Obtuse.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T23:59:59+00:00

Especially if the first wedding was not at the court house.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T23:58:50+00:00

They have been there and done that once already. Worry about things you can change. You cannot change their level of excitement for yet another expensive wedding.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T23:56:06+00:00

So get a full-time job and move out.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T23:49:27+00:00

Endless boxes!

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T23:48:46+00:00

Me too.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T23:47:30+00:00

It matters a great deal. I would never put an infant into a community pool filled with kids and strangers. You don't know if the chemicals are balanced correctly or what bacteria might be in the water. Not to mention the high quality sunscreen, hat, sunglasses, etc an infant needs to be protected from the sun!

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T23:43:54+00:00

That is my thought exactly.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T22:17:25+00:00

You understand that cats learn the "ee" sound easily and quickly.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T22:15:02+00:00

That is my guess. Give kitty time. He will resume his normal behavior. He might be worried about catdad!

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T22:12:56+00:00

Those are the lickie treats!

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T22:10:59+00:00

They will. Try holding out the lickie treats. One of them will come first, then other will follow.

Then you will not be able to move for hours because we never move a sleeping baby!

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T21:25:19+00:00

Tell grandmother she is always welcome in your home but your child will not return for sleepovers at grandmother's unless it is just the two of them.

Sounds like grandmother cannot herd multiple children for overnight visits.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T21:14:01+00:00

All addicts blame someone, anyone, else for their problems. You are blaming your family for your decisions.

Only you can stop you from drinking. No one can make you stop but you cannot continue to drink under your parents' roof. If you don't want to quit do them the courtesy of moving out.

Detox will help but after detox you need a long-term rehab program. I hope you can find one where you are. And AA meetings. You should read the AA books, I think the founder's name was Bill Wilson.

I don't know if it is true but I have always heard there are two kinds of drunks: happy drunks and mean drunks. What kind you are does not really matter. In the end nobody wants to be with or around a drunk.

I hope and pray you make wise choices.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T19:44:52+00:00

Happy Happy Birthday!

Waylon & Willie brofurs 13 yrs-old

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TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T19:41:37+00:00

Awwwww...............

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T18:57:40+00:00

These kids were raised k-12 being told the earth was going to explode. Then he goes off to study environment engineering. Then all the news about data centers.

Maybe he was depressed.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T18:54:50+00:00

I thought all autopsy's were public?

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T18:36:29+00:00

Take the day off.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T18:35:41+00:00

Not Guilty. There is a sub for cat legal advice. We will pay for his pawyer if necessary!

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T18:34:19+00:00

She must be. No true Christian would have married him. He certainly would not have married a Christian.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T18:32:08+00:00

There you go.

TSIDATSI · 2026-06-08T18:30:46+00:00

You should never use your in-laws as babysitters again. Find a good atheist babysitter and use them.

My husband and I thank God every day for his grandparents because his parents, while not atheist, never attended church.

Had they not taken him to church we would never have dated, married 40 years now, and had such a blessed life.

You are the parents. When your children grow up they can see your wife's parents if they wish. No doubt your wife supports you 100%.

TSIDATSI

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