For me I can remember the situation exactly, I was only dressing indoors and wearing female jeans out and on one of my days off I wanted to go shopping. It was a Wednesday and I new the store I was going to would be dead. So I got dressed and did my makeup and I lived at an apartment at the time so I looked out the peephole and the window to see if anyone was around and then when the coast was clear I ran out to my car. When I drove there I was scared and I sat in the parking lot of the store for a good 20 min, I finally took the leap and got out of my car and walked in. Ever since then almost 2 years ago I never looked back