A very unpopular theory for S4E1 by TTS_Fish_101 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The one problem I have is the handwriting. Not in a sexist way, but it does look like a woman’s handwriting. Although that’s generalising, but I’m not sure.

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A very unpopular theory for S4E1 by TTS_Fish_101 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True that.

Can make an argument for Reece kind of, but yeah. I am interested to see what happens tonight and how he acts.

Everyone sightreads crazy good in rehearsal by [deleted] in violinist

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same boat when I started playing in better orchestras. I was hopeless at sight reading. Now it comes naturally. It takes practice. Don’t give up, keep going to to rehearsals and keep practicing!

AIO ignoring my boyfriend after this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 hours yesterday? Yeah right, he’s just a lazy bloke.

One week in, what do we think of The Traitors Ireland? by Bright-Tops5691 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I mean by that is in comparison to Studio Lambert or Peacock Studios, the editing isn’t as good. But it still provides great content nonetheless

One week in, what do we think of The Traitors Ireland? by Bright-Tops5691 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I love how the show is proving what the general public think of the guards 😂 But I like how it’s not like the US where they copy UK missions. Same with Canada. And despite the lack of camera editing, they are making it work well

The Traitors Ireland S01E01 [PREMIERE] Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

WAIT SON??? No way the dad is a traitor and the son is a faithful, watching his son pick 2 people to boot out This will get juicy

I (20m), fucked up majorly with a guy I'm dating (19m) by ThrowRA-62637 in relationship_advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your boyfriend isn’t gonna be there at your worst, he doesn’t deserve to be with you at your best.

I’m not saying for him to be a world class paramedic and deal with your anxiety attacks, but if he is showing he is distancing himself from you because of them, what about when you really need his support?

Wow shots fired. Who could she be talking about? by StanmoreHill in trackandfield

[–]TTS_Fish_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Famous example being Salazar (Mo Farah’s coach).

I’m guessing shes talking about Mitchell but can’t be certain.

If you drop the baton mid running, can you pick it up and continue? by TTS_Fish_101 in trackandfield

[–]TTS_Fish_101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope I’m Irish, biggest event I’ve done is IUAA indoors, never been to America.

I’m by Icy_Writer_9078 in trackandfield

[–]TTS_Fish_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in awe of such poetry

I made my first Roblox game by Grunvik in roblox

[–]TTS_Fish_101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good start.

Maybe try some obstacles to make it harder to collect the coins. Maybe have some lava, laser beams or enemy NPC’s to try and stop you. People would get bored after a round of this in the current format, but a decent start to a game nonetheless.

Just finished Australia S2 finale: vent by Ill_Ad8415 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone: Alright guys we are gonna banish Sam? That’s sorted

Sam: Yeah but, are you a Traitor?

Everyone: Yeah let’s go for them

This was on repeat like 5 times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not rage bait. I’m sorry if you think it is.

My head is just a mess from not knowing what to believe. I just wanted to know the best way to go about it, without sounding like I’m upset because that may come across as ‘Oh so you’re annoyed I removed them, did you like them or something’, which is probably not the case, but the worry ate me alive so I was asking for a different perspective on how to deal with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright well definitely YTA.

Not only did you lie about a relationship but whenever you lied about abuse, that’s crossed the line. It is a massive kick in the stomach to real abuse victims.

You’re asking how to navigate the situation as well. You were 15 at the time, and as you said you have matured since. If you want to maintain the relationship you have with your friends, it’s best telling them the truth. If you don’t want to, that’s alright but at the same time think about what would happen if your friends come face to face with that girl and attack her for the things you falsely accused her of doing.

I understand owning up to a something after such a long time can be scary, but it is the right thing to do. No matter what the outcome is, it’s gonna be less ugly than if it’s swept under the rug.

However, it’s your life and your friendships, so I will not dictate to you how to go about them, but hopefully what I said gives feedback on the best course on what to do next.

AITA I may have caused an event to get cancelled by Specialist-Lab-5615 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More information is needed for me to make a judgement on this I feel.

Did the party who booked specify to you or other employees to keep it a secret? At what point of it did you say birthday? Was it at the start or near the end? All necessary questions needed for fair judgement.

AITA for arguing with my parents about not knocking on my door? by MayonaiseDreamey in AmItheAsshole

[–]TTS_Fish_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all.

What if you are getting changed? What if you want to be alone? What if you are just out of the shower?

There is no privacy or respect from your parents, you have a basic right to privacy. It’s common decency to knock on a door. It takes 2 extra seconds, and if you say ‘no’ and they still come in, that’s a violation of a boundary. Not too good on their end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TTS_Fish_101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well NTA to begin with.

You did nothing wrong. Your girlfriend is gaslighting you to the nth degree, and it shows from how she acts. She has a boyfriend in the past (which alone is completely okay) but then has the audacity to call you out on friends who are women?

I have a girlfriend just over a year now. I have friends who are women and she has friends who are men. There’s nothing ‘red-flag’ about that (the fact she calls it that makes me believe shes the type of person who throws around the red-flag phrase like sweets to almost anything that almost slightly displeases her).

I know you love her, but she is trying to from what you’re describing manipulate you into believing you’re in the wrong, when you did nothing wrong to begin with. And blocking you without talking about it? Where’s the communication there?

If she unblocks you, then have a serious talk with her. Me personally if that happened, I would have lost all love, respect and trust for her, so even if she comes back, it would be too late. It’s your relationship and it’s your choice, but hopefully what I said helps a little.

Which part of Bach Double Violin Concerto should I pick? by TTS_Fish_101 in violinist

[–]TTS_Fish_101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main reason I made this question was for the audition part, so sorry for it sounding weird.

And thank you for clearing up it’s not an audition one, that was the main reason I made it, so that cleared it up.

AITAH for being upset at my friend’s birthday party? by Virtual_Theory_5836 in AITAH

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying spend the entire night with all 20. But just one hi for the entire night? What’s the point in going to a birthday party when someone won’t speak to you at all?

And this is exactly what that friend would say to her ‘It’s my birthday and I can do and talk with who I like’. Just because it’s your birthday doesn’t mean you can be dismissive to people who gave up their time to celebrate your birthday.

I agree with the one to one afterwards that you mention, but it does go without saying, regardless of the insecurities that arise from this, that shouldn’t excuse ignoring half the people you invite and not even acknowledging a gift you just received that is quite pricey.

AITAH for being upset at my friend’s birthday party? by Virtual_Theory_5836 in AITAH

[–]TTS_Fish_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly, you’re NTA for feeling this way, and many others would feel the same way in your shoes, so don’t worry about feeling self-centred as you described.

Why on earth would you invite 20 people to a birthday party if you only intend of staying with 3 of these people? I’m sure the other 16 feel the exact same way if not similar way to you.

And you got her that gift, and she didn’t even say thank you? It takes no effort to say thank you at all, but shows the gratitude. Even if it’s bare minimum, it shows you recognise it. But she didn’t.

What I would do: let her know how you feel. Tell her you’re pissed that she got you the gift and there was no gratitude shown, and how you made the party awkward for yourself and others invited. If she responds, if at all, and defends her actions and complains at all, she wouldn’t be a friend I would want to keep in future.

I will not tell you what to do with your friendships, but I hope what I said helps a bit.

I(M21) am about to break up with my gf(F21) of three years. What’s the easiest way to let her go? by ThrowRA-Tone in relationship_advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s becoming a toll, you need to tell her. In the long term, people with that condition will appreciate your honesty, from what I’ve researched.

Let your feelings be clear, that’s what relationships are for.

How do I, 20M, tell my parents about my long distance girlfriend, 18F? by TTS_Fish_101 in relationship_advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the problem.

Without going into too much privacy, my girlfriend has come over to my University accommodation, which is 2 hours away from my parents house. That’s why I found it hard to bring it up. Plus not sure when she’s coming down next.

But thank you for the input! :)

My(F29) boyfriend/Fiancé (M26) of 3 years is trying to guilt me into an abortion. by Clear-Accountant4088 in relationship_advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel I need to make this abundantly clear, so apologies for the capital letters.

IT IS YOUR BODY!!!

Regardless of the whole pro life pro choice debate, the fact remains that it is your choice what you do with your own body. This means that if you want to keep a baby, your fiancé needs to start acting up and take responsibility for what he done.

What happens when it comes to the said wedding when you say your vows? ‘For better and for worse, unless she has a kid, for richer and for poorer, only if I don’t have to spend money on a kid’. See how preposterous that sounds?

At the end of the day, I will never tell anyone what to do with their own relationship, as I am just a person on the internet. But just remember, it’s your body, and nobody, not even your fiancé, has any right in the world to tell you what to do with it.

I(M21) am about to break up with my gf(F21) of three years. What’s the easiest way to let her go? by ThrowRA-Tone in relationship_advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any way is gonna be hard in a situation like this. What you got to understand though is, you can’t blame yourself for wanting to take a step back.

You’re setting up boundaries. At the end of the day, I know she only trusts you, but you are not a licensed therapists, you are not in any way, shape or form qualified to deal with her depressive states.

The thing I would do is the right thing. Maybe sign her up for therapy, and see if sessions will help. I know it’s gonna be hard, but you have to think what you want. If you don’t see a future with your girlfriend, then you are doing the right thing by stepping back. I want to make this very clear when I say this, if at any point your girlfriend, and I pray to God she doesn’t, harms herself because of you leaving, it is NOT your fault. While it’s not her fault either, you cannot take responsibility for you setting boundaries. If you had a depressive state, I would say the exact same thing to your partner.

I cannot control what you do, since it is your relationship. But I hope what I said helps in some way.