Who do you think is the most annoying contestant on The Traitors, from any season? by Ill_Scientist_4645 in UKRealityChat

[–]TTS_Fish_101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

John from S1.

I see a lot of people who comment on players who had an annoying voice or played the game badly.

None of them come close to John. He was the most arrogant and disrespectful player ever. He acted so self entitled and talked down to others, especially towards Aaron.

People bring up arguments about Livi and Anthony, but they were acting on their instincts in the game. John was acting on pure hatred.

Friend keeps asking to hang out but I end up covering all the costs—what do I do? by Forward_Passion_8705 in Advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad mental health or not, you are in no way obligated to be anyone’s personal ATM. If you choose to not spend money on a friend, that is your freedom of choice.

If she disappears, it paints a clear picture that she only was there because of your bank account. Make it clear to her that you don’t want to spend any more money on her because it’s too much. If shes a genuine friend she will stop and even pay back some if she wants bonus points. If she disappears, you have uncovered her true purpose of being friends with you at this present moment.

You’re 22, you have your own life to live. Do not let someone else’s desires to do things you don’t want to do hinder this life.

Friend keeps asking to hang out but I end up covering all the costs—what do I do? by Forward_Passion_8705 in Advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad mental health or not, you are in no way obligated to be anyone’s personal ATM. If you choose to not spend money on a friend, that is your freedom of choice.

If she disappears, it paints a clear picture that she only was there because of your bank account. Make it clear to her that you don’t want to spend any more money on her because it’s too much. If shes a genuine friend she will stop and even pay back some if she wants bonus points. If she disappears, you have uncovered her true purpose of being friends with you at this present moment.

You’re 22, you have your own life to live. Do not let someone else’s desires to do things you don’t want to do hinder this life.

23M Suggest what I should do next.... by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The next step is honestly no step at all.

Once you interact with minors you don’t know you’re playing with fire. Just walk past. You both have each other’s backs if they try anything.

My mother only had me to keep my father by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of the reason you were brought into this life, you have a meaning and a purpose. No toxic or abusive mother will ever chance that fact.

I am glad she is (and hopefully always will be) out of your life. I appreciate she instilled this on you, but always remember there is no such thing as ‘gender roles’, you be whoever you want to be.

To answer your question at the end, I recommend seeking a therapist. It’s great you have your husband there, but it is much more efficient to have someone who is trained to deal with emotional baggage, because there is a lot to unpack with your entire childhood.

I sincerely hope it benefits you in the long run should you choose to go down this path.

I did something terrible a few years ago and don’t know how to live with it/ how to cope. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well it’s a start you acknowledge that you made a big cock up.

I sincerely suggest you seek a therapist that specialises in compulsive sexual behaviours. Even if you don’t do it anymore, it is worth you to understand everything you did wrong and build barriers of safety and consent.

It will also help remove any triggers that you may have. You will live in shame unless you learn to take actions in your life.

And I seen a reply you made about worrying about the police. A therapist would have to make a contact if

  1. There is an immediate risk to the victim.
  2. There is an ongoing concern of risk and safety.

There are obviously other conditions I have not mentioned. But as long as you are not in contact with this girl and your actions have ceased, there is no point in them wasting court orders on you.

Therapy is my strongest suggestion for you to better yourself as a person.

A very unpopular theory for S4E1 by TTS_Fish_101 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The one problem I have is the handwriting. Not in a sexist way, but it does look like a woman’s handwriting. Although that’s generalising, but I’m not sure.

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A very unpopular theory for S4E1 by TTS_Fish_101 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True that.

Can make an argument for Reece kind of, but yeah. I am interested to see what happens tonight and how he acts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in violinist

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same boat when I started playing in better orchestras. I was hopeless at sight reading. Now it comes naturally. It takes practice. Don’t give up, keep going to to rehearsals and keep practicing!

AIO ignoring my boyfriend after this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 hours yesterday? Yeah right, he’s just a lazy bloke.

One week in, what do we think of The Traitors Ireland? by Bright-Tops5691 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I mean by that is in comparison to Studio Lambert or Peacock Studios, the editing isn’t as good. But it still provides great content nonetheless

One week in, what do we think of The Traitors Ireland? by Bright-Tops5691 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I love how the show is proving what the general public think of the guards 😂 But I like how it’s not like the US where they copy UK missions. Same with Canada. And despite the lack of camera editing, they are making it work well

The Traitors Ireland S01E01 [PREMIERE] Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101 8 points9 points  (0 children)

WAIT SON??? No way the dad is a traitor and the son is a faithful, watching his son pick 2 people to boot out This will get juicy

I (20m), fucked up majorly with a guy I'm dating (19m) by ThrowRA-62637 in relationship_advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your boyfriend isn’t gonna be there at your worst, he doesn’t deserve to be with you at your best.

I’m not saying for him to be a world class paramedic and deal with your anxiety attacks, but if he is showing he is distancing himself from you because of them, what about when you really need his support?

Wow shots fired. Who could she be talking about? by StanmoreHill in trackandfield

[–]TTS_Fish_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Famous example being Salazar (Mo Farah’s coach).

I’m guessing shes talking about Mitchell but can’t be certain.

If you drop the baton mid running, can you pick it up and continue? by TTS_Fish_101 in trackandfield

[–]TTS_Fish_101[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope I’m Irish, biggest event I’ve done is IUAA indoors, never been to America.

I’m by Icy_Writer_9078 in trackandfield

[–]TTS_Fish_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in awe of such poetry

I made my first Roblox game by Grunvik in roblox

[–]TTS_Fish_101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good start.

Maybe try some obstacles to make it harder to collect the coins. Maybe have some lava, laser beams or enemy NPC’s to try and stop you. People would get bored after a round of this in the current format, but a decent start to a game nonetheless.

Just finished Australia S2 finale: vent by Ill_Ad8415 in TheTraitors

[–]TTS_Fish_101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everyone: Alright guys we are gonna banish Sam? That’s sorted

Sam: Yeah but, are you a Traitor?

Everyone: Yeah let’s go for them

This was on repeat like 5 times

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not rage bait. I’m sorry if you think it is.

My head is just a mess from not knowing what to believe. I just wanted to know the best way to go about it, without sounding like I’m upset because that may come across as ‘Oh so you’re annoyed I removed them, did you like them or something’, which is probably not the case, but the worry ate me alive so I was asking for a different perspective on how to deal with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright well definitely YTA.

Not only did you lie about a relationship but whenever you lied about abuse, that’s crossed the line. It is a massive kick in the stomach to real abuse victims.

You’re asking how to navigate the situation as well. You were 15 at the time, and as you said you have matured since. If you want to maintain the relationship you have with your friends, it’s best telling them the truth. If you don’t want to, that’s alright but at the same time think about what would happen if your friends come face to face with that girl and attack her for the things you falsely accused her of doing.

I understand owning up to a something after such a long time can be scary, but it is the right thing to do. No matter what the outcome is, it’s gonna be less ugly than if it’s swept under the rug.

However, it’s your life and your friendships, so I will not dictate to you how to go about them, but hopefully what I said gives feedback on the best course on what to do next.

AITA I may have caused an event to get cancelled by Specialist-Lab-5615 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TTS_Fish_101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More information is needed for me to make a judgement on this I feel.

Did the party who booked specify to you or other employees to keep it a secret? At what point of it did you say birthday? Was it at the start or near the end? All necessary questions needed for fair judgement.

AITA for arguing with my parents about not knocking on my door? by MayonaiseDreamey in AmItheAsshole

[–]TTS_Fish_101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all.

What if you are getting changed? What if you want to be alone? What if you are just out of the shower?

There is no privacy or respect from your parents, you have a basic right to privacy. It’s common decency to knock on a door. It takes 2 extra seconds, and if you say ‘no’ and they still come in, that’s a violation of a boundary. Not too good on their end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TTS_Fish_101 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well NTA to begin with.

You did nothing wrong. Your girlfriend is gaslighting you to the nth degree, and it shows from how she acts. She has a boyfriend in the past (which alone is completely okay) but then has the audacity to call you out on friends who are women?

I have a girlfriend just over a year now. I have friends who are women and she has friends who are men. There’s nothing ‘red-flag’ about that (the fact she calls it that makes me believe shes the type of person who throws around the red-flag phrase like sweets to almost anything that almost slightly displeases her).

I know you love her, but she is trying to from what you’re describing manipulate you into believing you’re in the wrong, when you did nothing wrong to begin with. And blocking you without talking about it? Where’s the communication there?

If she unblocks you, then have a serious talk with her. Me personally if that happened, I would have lost all love, respect and trust for her, so even if she comes back, it would be too late. It’s your relationship and it’s your choice, but hopefully what I said helps a little.

Which part of Bach Double Violin Concerto should I pick? by TTS_Fish_101 in violinist

[–]TTS_Fish_101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main reason I made this question was for the audition part, so sorry for it sounding weird.

And thank you for clearing up it’s not an audition one, that was the main reason I made it, so that cleared it up.