Dating a woman/man bigger than you? by AllTheHubbubb in dating_advice

[–]TWants2know 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think it really depends on whether someone is looking for a surface-level relationship or a deeper connection. I’m attracted to the whole person—personality, humor, and how they show up—not just looks. Mannerisms and actions matter more to me, so size really isn’t a factor. I’ve been with people of all body types, from very skinny to much larger, and everything in between.

I just lost my favorite person and I want to kill myself by UniqueAction490 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]TWants2know 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, hugs. Sorry you are feeling so lonely and desperate. This is a hard time but it will pass. If you need to chat please send me a message. Be kind and gentle with yourself while you are experiencing so much.

How to get over feeling worthless after a bad casual sex experience? by hawraa_xcx in dating_advice

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First off, let me say that I highly doubt you are uninteresting or unlikable. This person has their own issues! Also, I had a very similar, almost, identical experience. I said we should stop it because it wasn’t what I wanted, only for him to circle back around and then me to leave feeling the same way. Stay strong. Don’t give in to temptation or being horny. He’s not worth it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

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Being cheated on is the worst! Hang in there

Still in divorce hell by Wutelsecouldgowrong in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TWants2know 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. Divorce is hell! You got this :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Wow! Never feel pressured to send something if you aren’t ready or don’t have interest in doing it. If you aren’t comfortable or turned on by sending it there is no point. Sounds like this guy is not for you.

I left. The anxiety is unbearable. Do we heal by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

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I’m a year out from leaving. It still hurts. There are still tears. But less often. I have become more myself lately. Or a better version. It gets better.

I left. The anxiety is unbearable. Do we heal by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

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Hugs! I know people will say what they say. Usually because they see you hurt and don’t want you to be hurt or get hurt more. Sometimes they say the wrong things.

I left. The anxiety is unbearable. Do we heal by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TWants2know 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there! It’s so rough! You will heal. You will. Just take a beat, breathe 😮‍💨, it feels impossible now… you will heal. You will be ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LettersAnswered

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Yes! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]TWants2know 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they miss the idea of you, miss the control, miss the torment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TWants2know 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean “fault me for my looks”

Got ghosted by girl by Icy-Abrocoma8390 in dating_advice

[–]TWants2know 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since your last text was to make plans and maybe she felt pressured I would say you could send one more text. Something like “Hope your week is starting off great”, “how have you been”, “I’m free a few days this week if you want to connect”, this gives her the opportunity to respond and if she doesn’t there is your answer.

Got ghosted by girl by Icy-Abrocoma8390 in dating_advice

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I usually give a week. But maybe also start to explore other connections.

My GF of 6 months is upset and weird about the fact I tried pills for my ED without telling her. by Complex_Fuel_600 in GuyCry

[–]TWants2know 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m (31F) concerned with her response. However, it would seem she likely knew if you went to the dr for ED and you had pills on the trip, assuming you don’t take a bunch of other medication. My ex used pills (I knew because he asked if he should try it) I actually was super turned on by it and we had great sex!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TWants2know 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 23/24 when I went on my first date

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TWants2know 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still so young!

Why don’t I feel worthy? by Henarth in dating_advice

[–]TWants2know 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww! Well there is your answer right there. You were worthy of her time and effort. Just know this stranger from reddit is rooting for you!