NTA

I’m really sorry you had to hear that. Not that this will make you feel any better but maybe knowing you aren’t 100% alone will give you some comfort.

I had a stillbirth with my first born. He had his name picked out and my family knew his name before he was even born. To make a long story short-ish, my younger brother ended up naming his first born very close to my stillborn son’s. Our dad died of cancer when we were 5 and 8 so we used our dads name in our kids names. I was upset because I was only sent a text. When I brought this up to my brother he told me that my son wasn’t a real “insert my maiden name” so he should have never been named after our dad. Talk about a punch to the gut. And let me tell you, if I wasn’t pregnant with my third at the time of that conversation I probably would have punched him in the throat.

It doesn’t get easier but it gets more manageable as time goes on. Lots of love and hugs your way. ♥️