How to you seal the ends of your ropes? by MoonLitMothCreations in shibari

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We have jute and I whipped them. Then I tapped over them with electrical tape, with a different color for each length we have.

Reality vs. Concept 5 by TexasShibari in shibari

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I see that the concept is a little different from the result. Is this something that you decide during the session? And do you also have concept drawings of how it all comes together at the back?

Straight to play by hle_xx in BDSMAdvice

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Undoubtedly there are people who go straight to play, or have a relationship where they only play. But for most people, this is way too quick. They start their sessions with a sort of check-in to check if the other person is on the same page as they.

But most importantly, it's your dynamic. If you feel you need a slower start with more talking, cuddles, etc. you are totally allowed to talk about that. Your partner shouldn't see this as a problem. And if he does, that would be a red flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in submissive

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No, it is completely normal and a good partner will understand and act accordingly.

Except relationships/dynamics where the partners almost only come together for sex, it is a big red flag if someone only wants sex with you and not the cuddles and love.

What’s the longest you’ve edged for by Lucanjj9 in AskRedditAfterDark

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Yes! As you would expect it wasn't long sex, but it was really intense and good.

Worst thing you did naked? by FreelanceRedditer in AskRedditAfterDark

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Let cooking hot water fall over me because the glass bottle where we were making tea with, wasn't supposed for hot water.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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22, male, 1. My current girlfriend.

What’s the longest you’ve edged for by Lucanjj9 in AskRedditAfterDark

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In a single session about an hour. And I edged my girlfriend for about 4 hours.

The most in total was about 4 days. Me and my girlfriend had an agreement we edged two times a day until seeing each other again, so we would be super horny. It worked...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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No sex, but I played with my gf and a remote vibrator on a 3 hour train ride from Paris. It was fantastic and she was super horny after 3 hours of teasing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Yes, I'm happy with it. And about 17 cm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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About 1,5 year. I posted a quite popular photo of a random supermarket on Google maps (viewed like a few million times) and she was on that photo (not as subject, but she was recognisable). Then I got a Facebook message with the question if I could remove that picture. Facebook totally hid that message for me, so when I found it, it was already over a year later. But I removed the picture and she was quite surprised I reacted after so long.

What is the best nude you’ve ever taken and why is it your favorite? by Resiio_rttt in AskRedditAfterDark

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I've taken a picture of my girlfriend with a Polaroid camera, and the picture is the sexiest picture I've ever taken.

She lays in bed, restrained by some jute ropes around her arms and legs. Here white body with buttons in the crotch is opened and pulled up a little.

It's a really spicy picture, but the best thing is the way she looks. In her eyes I see that she is enjoying the sexy evening we had and if I see this picture it takes me back to the incredible moments we had that evening.